AQUARIANS AND HEART/BREAK

12/22/2009 8:17:32 AM | More
aqua-baby

Hey, just after a bit of feedback really..just broken up with my boyfriend after 5 years and although it was my choice I am unable to detach myself as quickly as I would like, I'm finding it very difficult. We have been through a lot but last week I decided I had enough.. Quickly changed my number hopin I would just be okay and now I'm struggling.. He's a libra and won't accept it but although it was a relief at the time I miss him badyly and find myself in tears a lot. Just want to know what you experiences were and if you had difficulties layin the past to rest
12/23/2009 6:07:59 AM | More
Sola

31 years old female

Sun: Libra Moon: Saggi

Yeah, its still so early, you cant or shouldnt be surprised by your reaction to the situation. I was with one bf for 7 years, and i was like you at the end. Now i know my life has been could never have been this good if we'd kept it going. By next week you'll be over it, but you have to sever ALL contact. No text, email, calls..0!!! IT'S THE ONLY WAY, otherwise you'll be talked into something you dont want, especially if he cant handle the breakup either.
12/23/2009 11:07:53 AM | More
The_eleventh_sign_11

28 years old male

I'm very superstitious

yeh i hate break ups i should remember how it feels before i go into another relationship but i like being in the so oh well..........lol
12/26/2009 5:15:14 PM | More
Sola

31 years old female

Sun: Libra Moon: Saggi

Aqua scars never heal..this is part of life for everyone!!!!!! Who easily recovers from or forgets someone they loved??
12/26/2009 10:19:34 PM | More
krysrenee7

female

Popcorn is best for these kinds of occas

Well, breakups for us Aquarians are the worst! I agree to that. We spend so much time investing in that person (after they pass all of our extensive tests lol) & to be honest, it does suck for us once that person we've invested in is no longer in our lives. One, Aquas are generally not routine people but when it comes to relationships, once we get used to the routine of having that person around, it's almost as if they become a huge part of us, regardless of how smooth or rough the relationship turns out. Part of the reason we Aquas are so complicated to get to know & understand in the beginning is b/c we know that once we let it all out & really begin to give our selves, we do so with the hopes that everything will be long term. Aquas seem to have a problem letting go of anything or anyone they've spent long periods of time with. We take love very seriously. Who knows, maybe we don't take breakups well b/c it requires us facing our ego & admitting that maybe we picked the wrong person & if you think about it, this will severely hurt an Aqua, considering how much effort & investigation we'd put into finding that person anyways (Plus, we hate to be wrong).

On the other hand, what you're experiencing is perfectly normal. Most of the time Aquas are known for just packing up, leaving & never looking back BUT that usually only happens once an Aqua has HAD it & has had a longgggg time to think the decision through. With your situation, you're just going through the normal phases of a break up. It's all annoying b/c you're going through the process of breaking a routine (which is him) & for anyone, not just Aquarius, that's a hard pill to swallow
12/27/2009 11:07:15 AM | More
The_eleventh_sign_11

28 years old male

I'm very superstitious

I should have said more in my old post......my last breakup I had heaps of dreams about him nearly everynight, about him cheating on me and and us fighting and and etc but that was ages ago like in october so i think its taken me 2 months.....

.I'm quasi over him like If i saw him again I think Id like to do something bad to him but thats just the type of vindictive person i am I never forget and use each relationship as a learning example for me to take into the next one but I think its baggage lol like wat starfish said

so I think maybe I need to wait for a really long time till my next boyfriend or else hes gonna find photo's of my exs in glasses of water in the freezer and hell be creeped out

but until then Its treetrukbuddies and random hookups for me and i got no problem with that

aquababy put urself in a position where u can have ur cake and eat it too cos then you will forget about sharing with dicks

12/30/2009 2:36:56 AM | More
Ben Rio

42 years old male

I was mad about this Librian girl many years ago, and she carried a torch for me for a long time, but I had difficulty handling her Librian determination which after a while seemed to be coming at me quicker and faster than I could handle. To this day I,ve always believed we could have gone the distance. She was a smashing girl, sensible and intelligent and not only was she physically atttractive (and most likely still is) I found her intuectually attractive as well. I'm sure us Aqua's will agree, it's not just physical attraction that counts, and this girl ticked all the right boxes. The problem here I think sat squarely with me: a little off the rails and wild as I was back then, I felt compelled to keep her at arms lenght, as if to steer her away from me to someone (in my mind at the time) who would probally be better suited, thus at the same time letting my ego get in the way of things. This however, did not put her off at first and I soon became a bag of nerves whilst falling for her at the same time. Things did not go well and for a long while tensions mounted causing friction on a daily basis as I worked with her everyday. Even worse I got involved with drugs and spiralled out of control all the while yearning for her but unable to approach her due to her anger and refusual to even want to speak. We both got different jobs and I let go, no longer trying to speak with her after trying to approach her time and again to make up for the way I had been. It took me along time to get the drugs out of my system, about two years or so. Eventually, she did approach me again (there was no way I was going to approach her) but sadly I decided that it might be better to leave things the way they were even though all I wanted to was spend the rest of my life with her. Yes, I shed many tears and still consider it to be one of my biggest loses in my life ever. Having patiently waited for long enough, she eventually and reluctently let go, accepted we were not going to be together, moved on settled down and married. My soul mate was gone.
1/28/2010 7:50:36 PM | More
Ben Rio

42 years old male

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1/28/2010 10:17:28 PM | More
krysrenee7

female

Popcorn is best for these kinds of occas

It seems that break ups b/w Libras & Aquarians can be the WORST & I think it's mainly do to the fact that they're both so freakin compatible to begin with. Libras, especially when they don't agree to or aren't content with the breakup, can leave a lasting mark on an Aqua. Both signs hate "losing" anything, so if anything, the pride that dies do to lack of losing something that was once so valuable, is half the pain right there. I've heard alot of stories about how horrible & dreadful Libra & Aquarian break ups are. Sometimes the Libra is known for coming back one minute, just to detach all over again the next, which confuses Aquas. And with Aquarians, it seems like Libras are the only ones who can actually REVERSE the trait in Aquas that won't go back on their decision or word once they've decided to break up & never turn back. Plus, once an Aquarian falls in love, the tough & outer shell might go away for as long as the relationship is standing. BUT as soon as the heartbreak/breakup happens, Aquas try sooooo hard to put back up their "usual/old" shells, but sometimes they have trouble doing so since they've gotten use to taking their walls down for so long. Aquarians & Libras usually have very long & satisfying relationships, thus it's only natural that the end of something that was once so beautiful & full of chemistry, is going to be soooo hard to overcome once it's over. Good luck girlie
1/28/2010 10:20:49 PM | More
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