Posted by Hoplessinlove
Hey, Aquarius' with Venus in Pisces, that's what my Aquarius ex is! Would you guys comment on my post please. I need your help. I'm trying to talk to him again and could use as much advice as possible. Thank you
I have both Sun and Venus in Pisces. I have the Moon in Aquarius. So, with this placement, I feel related enough to this thread to help. All I can offer you is a glimpse of my own behavior in a relationship.
When my girlfriend and I first got together she was passionate from the onset: crazy about me, physically and emotionally on fire. I was the opposite though. I was slow in coming around. I likened my heart to the turning of a ship...it takes time. I guess I was cold and frigid, taking too long to warm up. I was also guarded and cautious. My ideals are high. I knew what I wanted was unconditional love and I was afraid she might not be able to give that to me. But, as time went on it began not to matter since my love for her was growing.
We started out as best friends and as girlfriend and boyfriend. It seemed like it was meant to be and we both believed it. Signs seemed to be happening all the time; it was spiritual I believe. Something that surprised me is that we began to fight a lot. We were stubborn in our ways and couldn't resolve differences.
Then one day she tells me the feelings are gone and we're not to see each other anymore. I asked her where the turning point was for her and she said, "Balboa." This was the place I had made her cry. At the time I didn't want to be there. I still remember that day and I regret my insensitivity. The place had meaning to her. It was important that she share it with me.
Time moves on but my heart does not. Months later she gave me the opportunity to be her friend. But, I looked ahead to the inevitable: one day I would have to see another man take my place, see her marry someone who isn't me. This would destroy me, so I opted for my solution which was to get back together with her. She didn't want to do that. So now she remains a memory, and I miss her so much.
In short, differences may be huge at first, but they will someday not matter anymore. A venus in pisces person can be slow at first, but the love will come and may grow too strong. I would go back to Balboa for her...
A thousand times.