Aquarians are not relationship material.
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I find it so odd that in this day and age there are people out there who still try to date Aquarians. About 3 or 4 years ago, I ran across tons of Aqua women. Needless to say they all ended in failure pretty much for all the same reasons. Aquas are selfish people, let's not sugar coat it. I'm not stranger to Aquarians. I work in jobs occupied by many Aquas, and I am going to tell you they are selfish. Everything revolves around what they want to do, their ideas, their feelings, and what they want. Aquas almost never think of anyone else. This is pretty consistent for 90% of the Aquas I meet.
So why do people fall for Aquas? Why do they fall in love with them, and shower them with affections. I'll tell you why, Aquas are SO good at shooting the butter. Full of hot air and all that jazz. If there is anything I can say about Aquas is that they are really good talkers. Their mouths can say some of the nicest things, can even doctor up a bunch of random butter and make it look like they have uniform and coherent ideas. At the end of the day, Aquas want attention, they want praise, and they want admiration. They are exactly what Leos are, but the difference is that Aquas need to validate themselves through ideas, where Leos just validate themselves with their own embedded ego. But hey, it's cute, it's pretty, and Aquas talk the game better than anyone in the zodiac. Years ago, and I mean years ago I feel for it, but I learn fast.
Now does this make Aquas bad people? Of course not, but they can't be bothered with you. They are ideas people, trying to discover the world, influence people, and save humanity. Aquas love relationships where they are admired, and they put themselves out there for everyone. They are never exclusively yours. I still deal with Aquas on a regular basis even today. I attract them and of course they attract me. But when we get together, it's a few drinks, a few laughs, we treetrunk, and we don't call each other again until we need another fix. The last 3 Aqua women have been this way, and guess what? It's perfect. The best relationship anyone can have with an Aqua.
Just a little food for thought. Aquas are not worth your heart. They're an entertainment sign, and that's the only purpose they serve. Honorable mentions are Pisces, Sags, Gemini's, and select Cancers. Just a little insight.
Probably not relationship material but nobody said we had to be relationship material, it all depends if the Aqua has raised his/her consciousness above it's potential.
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Posted by NewDayRising
Yeah, every Aqua feels they have a high purpose to serve humanity. I personally don't think they do a good job at it. However because they are so preoccupied with the "external world", they neglect the internal one. I believe Aquas like to influence people with their ideas, but don't actually lift a finger. I find fire signs to be more action oriented than Aquas. Aquas have vision and a message, but are really poor implementers. i think they like to share their vision and word with other, and that their way of "saving humanity". But overall it's just a need to constantly be heard more than anything else.
|I don't know, Aqua women keep throwing kitty my way, so apparently a Douchliewhatever is a good thing.|
|Not all aqua women sleep around with treetrunk buddies. And just because that's how you treat women that you work with, it doesn't make it true for an entire zodiac sign. Sorry that the aqua girl years ago broke your heart, but we've all that that happen to us. So maybe you keep meeting aqua girls to learn from the the way of saying 'I'm over it.'|
|There are some contradictions in this because saving humanity and being selfish cannot surely be in the same context of a post. I think everybody in their own way is selfish, and of course sometimes you can be unselfish. It's very difficult to put others first, but in certain situations you have to. But it is your life and you should be free to do whatever you like with it. Personally I can be selfish sometimes, but ask any of my friends who was there for them when they needed a shoulder to cry on or someone to listen and they'll probably tell you that I was there, yes me, even recently I was out with some friends and a friend of mine asked me if she could speak to me because she was upset, so off I went (albeit my house is situated close by) and spoke to her, and listened to her and offer advice - is that selfish? I don't think so.|
I often listen to others problems and give advice, or offer solutions. Of course I can only do so much, but usually these people who you listen to don't want to know when it's your problem, instead they become selfish. But most of the times I don't offload my crap onto them, instead I deal with it myself, and yes that is very selfish of me to be independent but that is life.
As for Aquarius women, I know a few and only one is in a long-term relationship. The rest are confusing when they speak of their feelings for offers and prefer not to be tied down, as always mentioned this is only going on what I know and does not represent a whole core of Aquarius women. Then again most are young like me, and not ready for that commitment. This probably isn't even a star sign thing, a lot of younger people just don't understand true love because often they lust for others.
I think a lot can be learned or gained from relationships with other people. They can teach you things you didn't know before, in Aquarius case it is how to be more independent, and I have to admit I love a girl who isn't clingy, obsessive or constantly jealous, basically an independent girl. I am also somebody who tries to give my attention equally to the people I know, but when it comes to a girl I actually long for then the chances are that she'll have a lot of my attention, but there is no rule to say that I can no longer speak to my other friends - should I just forget them because I now have a girlfriend? And what happens if we split up? I'll have nobody.
|I can actually agree with some aspects of the original post, I do believe that despite being opposites that Leo and Aquarius share some very common traits with each other, I know quite a few Leo people and the interaction between myself and them is always fantastic. Having somebody there for you and having their attention is one of the most beautiful things if you actually enjoy their company and want to be with them. Once again, I am not someone to be very dramatic or look for attention, and if I ever get praise I often become shy because of the attention that I receive.|
Another thing is that many Aquarius people do tend think too much rather than act on their thoughts. A Libra girl also said the same thing - so maybe this is an air sign thing? Who really knows, a lot of people think and leave it there, sometimes they act, it just depends. What exactly is relationship material anyway? Because as far I'm concerned there is no definite rule, many people have their likes and dislikes, and what we require is always different. There are some men and women out there who will still be with each other despite cheating and lying - is this is relationship material? I don't think so but it doesn't matter, because some people stay together regardless.
I believe in timing so it's unfair to say that Aquarius people are not worth your heart. You could easily say that for any sign of the zodiac.
Posted by ladyvie
These are not just women I work with. As a matter of fact, there aren't any women where I work, and if they were I wouldn't date them anyway. I don't believe in dating on the job, because I think it create a major conflict of interest.
I meet Aqua women out and about. I'm drawn to them, and they are drawn to me. At this point I can tell an Aqua woman just by looking to her, or maybe 3 exchanges in a conversation. Yes, I'm THAT familiar with this sign.
I also need to clarify what I mean by selfish. Aquas love "humanity" and want to "save the world", but much to the detriment and neglect of others in their personal lives. You see Aquas are so concerned about things that are bigger than them, they often just let relationship fall apart. I think that's pretty selfish to neglect something you can do something about, for something you more than likely can't change. And Aqua saving the world is more "theorizing" about how things are "treetrunked up" more so than actually taking any real action to change things.
The Aqua episode years ago was indeed years ago. I'm fully over it. I've met tons of Aqua women since then, all pretty much better people than that girl was. But that doesn't mean I'm not realistic about how viable these women are for long standing relationships.
|Mr. Defense - It has occurred to me that maybe you are drawn to Aquarius women partly because of the mystery that surrounds them, I think you secretly maybe want to find one that would be in a long standing relationship with you (or possibly someone else0 and that that could be your goal. I'm sure that there are some Aquarius women out there in long-standing relationships but for you to know that personally would possibly put your mind at rest. Just putting an idea out there.|
Interesting topic by the way.
Posted by Mr. Defense
Are you? We are actually grouping women that you are attracted to over and over again. If you are that familiar with the sign, and are lucky enough to keep finding aquas in the world... perhaps the universe has a message for you, perhaps in not grouping women as bed partners with no feelings?!? And I do not agree with you that aquas are so big picture that they let go of relationships. If the relationship is based on true and genuine caring, honesty, and respect then aquarians do not run at all. When in love, aquarians are the best. But it sounds as though you treat the past three treetrunk buddies as all the same person, not caring who they are as individuals. Any common animal can detect a not caring attitude who doesn't offer any protection from the world.
|Self-Fulfilling Prophecy it sounds like to me.|
You probably aren't giving these ladies a chance, because your afraid being burned another lovely aqua lady again.
Posted by Ike
EXACTO, me being an Aquarius, my motto is your not the boss of me
As for the original poster...hater hater hay-ter lol...that's the only thing that came to mind while reading his post
As for the original poster...hater hater hay-ter lol...that's the only thing that came to mind while reading his post
Between him and that libra dude this is the most action Ive seen aqua women ever get on these boards. I'm actually flattered by the hate.
|So because an Aquarian's main focus in life is not relationships, that makes us bad for business? Here's your problem. The Aquarians YOU know are this way & of course, there's always 3 sides to every story. How do those same Aquarians feel about YOU? Are all of your failed friendships & relationships with them all to blaim b/c of them? It's understandable that hey, some people just don't "dig" Aquarians but honey, you've almost got to be one to know one. Sure alot of us can bull our way in & out of everything but so can politicians, sales reps & lawyers who aren't Aquarians. It seems like you have more of an issue with individuals who are not as self-less as you dream for them to be versus labeling the whole sign as one way or no way. |
Yes, Aquarians are all about self but not to the extent that we completely don't need anybody else. After all, the only reason you've even experienced friendships & relationships with Aquas is b/c at some point the ones you were meeting WERE open & self-less enough to venture with different experiences. Aquarian is not the sign of self. It is the sign of logic. We can't be all things, no different than your sign cannot. I do agree that Aquarians work better as "friends" with certain signs (including yours) but for you to insinuate that Aquas are not compatible with ANYONE is taking things a little too far. In fact, look up some statistics on marriage in terms of astrology; you'll be suprised at how long lasting & fulfilling Aquarian relationships, marriages & friendships can be WITH the right matches. Aquarians aren't the only ones who think we know it all. Hell half of pre-teens think they know it all too. Aquarians are not the only ones who have selfish sides. Hell half of the world is selfish; after all, take a look around.
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