Aquarius and jealousy

1/11/2009 6:54:09 PM | More
ForestRain

So, tell me honestly (the way you like it), do you Aquas tend to be jealous? because my Aqua guy is killing me. He reads my mails, SMS, gets suspicious when I just talk to other guys and acts like Cheating is my middle name while it couldn't be far from the truth (damn, i don't even cheat at games FCOL). And I thought Aquas were distant and needed time alone while I'm the one scraping for some privacy (Aqua moon kicking here?) He's sweet, kind and funny but how do I get the glue off when I need some space?
1/11/2009 9:56:47 PM | More
Lady_M



Maybe...someday.

Does he have significant scorpio placements?
1/12/2009 2:35:21 AM | More
LeoAqua

I tend to agree....my aqua is very careful in not showing his jealousy...but I know him well enough to pick it up. He gets funny when I spend the day with my girlfriend (starts calling asking when I'm coming home and God help me if I'm a few minutes later than I said). We've had a few arguments where he's accussed me of being too touchy and flirty and chatting up other men (one of which I'm positive is gay anyway!).
As for going through my phone...I KNOW he does. There's a game on my phone he likes to play...he can easily download it to his own phone but he won't. Gives him the perfect excuse to mess around on my phone all day. When I get an sms he's quick to ask "who was that?".

Aqua men ARE JEALOUS! Mine has a Leo moon which may account for some of his jealousy issues though....
1/12/2009 8:01:32 AM | More
ForestRain

"Does he have significant scorpio placements?"

Yes, he has Sun square Pluto in Scorpio which pretty much explains it. But from what I've seen with an Aqua friend who also has this placement - Sun in Aqua square Pluto in Scorpio, she isn't jealous with her Virgo though she tends to be clingy (like my Aqua). Guess it's like what theskys said - that Aqua guys are more insecure in that department than girls (which is kinda strange to me). He also has Venus in Sagittarius which is supposed to be a non jealous sign... What I find strange is that because he's got much fire in his chart (and mostly because of his Venus I guess)he's playful with other girls and messes around with them and it ticks me off because if I did that to him I'd be eliminated on spot. And I don't know why but he feels offended that I'm not jealous like him...like wtf? I know the scorpio kicks in but is this also an Aqua trait? because I'm confused
1/12/2009 11:32:40 AM | More
Lady_M



Maybe...someday.

Im not big on jealousy in terms of guys.
I do not tolerate disrespectful behavior though.

Its definitely that scorpio in his chart. Scorpio tends to be a strong influence in anybody's chart regardless of sign. The sags I know are EXTREMELY jealous fwiw.
1/12/2009 4:57:40 PM | More
zenalchemy

ok, I agree with Scorp having extreme emotional patterns but not every jealous person have Scorp in them especially when it is not placed in a highly significant planet.

Everyone runs through the same series of emotions I've noticed but it's the reaction to it or the time which they dwell on it that makes us different. Also, has the person been hurt in the past with insecurities? the environment they grew up in also plays a big big role...

Few e.g. from my experiences with Aquas,

- My Aqua gf with some significant Aqua placements still snoops in her ex-bf's email and other stuff. It was a relationship that he put to an end and was a shock to her but she is married to someone else but still snoops ...

- If you are even more in need of space than the Aqua you're in the relationship with, I find it makes them even more curious about you. There may be a kind of detached snooping, which a more emotionally expressive sign may refer to or recognise as jealousy.

Jealousy is with all the signs, no one is above it I'm afraid, Aquas hide it very well or logic their way out - never forget Aquarius as fixed signs take in details so just as controlling as Scorp, albeit subliminally.

Also, Forest, if you get a lot of attention from guys that you may not be aware of and he is, makes it worse so he'll be noticing the little things you don't notice and may be reacting to it, who knows?

you talked to him?

1/12/2009 6:12:06 PM | More
Lehia

My Aqua is VERY jealous and he's admitted it. He told me when we first started going out, that he gets jealous easily but tries not to show it. 10 months later, I realize he was being honest lol, we've even had arguments about it because he has a hard time dealing with the fact that I have male friends.
Also, my best friend is Aqua, and she's just one of the most jealous people I've ever met.
None of them have scorpio placements. My girlfriend's chart is actually pretty airy.

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