Aquarius man breakup, chance getting back 2gether?
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23 years old female from Pittsburgh, Pa
I'm a sweet out going girl who loves to
| I'm a cancer, he's an aquarius. We started off as friends for a whole year, he always liked me but I never gave him a chance. Finally after really getting to know him and falling for him we got into a relationship. I'm his first girlfriend ever, and the first girl he's ever been in love with. Were together for almost 6 months. We broke up maybe twice before over small things but ened up reaching out to each other and getting back the same day or the day after. This time though we got into a arugment over some culture differances and I stated that we should just maybe be friends out of fustration and anger but I didn't mean it. And I think everyone is gluity of saying things out of anger. He then broke up with me and said it was "really" over this time and that for me not contact him or any of his friends because all his friends know me and think we were a good couple. He said we could be friends or friends with benfits and I said no because it would be to hard for me. I cried my eyes out, called him 3 times after that asking him was he serious, and he told me not to call him or text him anymore. He's done this before said those same things but he got back together with me. I said to myself fine, I texted him and told him he won't have to worry about me calling him or texting him. I'm not a nagging girlfriend but like I said he's done this before and I needed to know if was really serious before I go and really move on from it. Then that was it. Then randomly last night I got a phone call from him in the morning around 2am but I didn't call back because I thought to myself he told me he didn't want to talk to me and this was over so I was confused on why he was calling. So today I texted him and said "you must have accidently called me last night" he responed "sorry" and that was it. I kinda think maybe he did call to say its not over or something but he has a lot of pride and I find that random he would accidently call me at 2am when he's NEVER done that before. Anyways I'm hurt because we had something good and I think he was taking the easy way out by breaking up with me just because I said something I didn't mean that wasn't even that serious when he says things to me that he doesn't mean out of anger which are way worse. He's a cancer moon btw, I don't know if that helps or not. But I don't know what to do because this is going to be really hard cause he have all the same mutal friends, as with my other exs I didn't have to worry about seeing them. |
| tell me .. do you miss the drama or the soppy sex ? |
23 years old female from Pittsburgh, Pa
I'm a sweet out going girl who loves to
Posted by oldskoolflavor A serious answer would be nice |
lol okI'm his first girlfriend ever, and the first girl he's ever been in love with. He said we could be friends or friends with benfits and I said no because it would be to hard for me maybe he wants to try other girls (curiosity, there could be a 'better deal' for him out there) but doesn't want to let you go at the same time (good memories, attachement) .. maybe he's experiencing some sort of inner conflict |
23 years old female from Pittsburgh, Pa
I'm a sweet out going girl who loves to
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23 years old female from Pittsburgh, Pa
I'm a sweet out going girl who loves to
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23 years old female from Pittsburgh, Pa
I'm a sweet out going girl who loves to
| Yeah I'm not going to contact him even tho I know it will be hard. He's muslim and 22 so he never had a chance to have a girlfriend because his mom is really strict on him. So yes he has liked girls before and what not but I'm the first girl that he has been with relationship wise and the first girl who's done things for him, so I'm sure no matter what he will never forget that. We just have sombe culture issues because I'm latino but I'm american and he's paki and muslim. He's very blunt and honest with his feelings sometime to the point that he doesn't realize what he's saying that hurts my feelings because I'm a very senstive person. He compared me to muslim girls sometimes and the way I dress and how I'm not muslim, so at times I felt like I wasn't good enough for him because I wasn't rasied muslim. But I never jugde him for what he believes and what he thinks is right. So when he started comparing me to how muslim women dress and how the woman he's going to marry isn't going to drink ( when he drinks like a fish and he knows I drink and we drink together but I don't drink that much only on the weekends if that ) its like okayyy well why are u with me then ? He talks a lot about getting married and what not and says if he would ask me to marry him then I would have to stop drinking ect (which I have no problem doing but he said he would never stop) and I said to him well we don't live in pakistan so I don't have to wear a hajb and cover my entire body. But then pulled the "I'm not talking about you, I'm just saying" I took it personal and maybe he wasn't directing it towards me but I felt that way, and that's why I said we should just be friends then out of anger and being upset. |
23 years old female from Pittsburgh, Pa
I'm a sweet out going girl who loves to
| That's when he broke up with me. |
| aquas just need a little time and space. usually far too much for most to handle. it's hard because while you want a definitive answer now, your pressing the issue only makes it worse. i say wait 2-3 weeks and reach out to him OR wait for him to contact you...he eventually will. with that said, you take your religious differences too lightly. the fact that he's expressing doubt or contemplating what it'd mean to have a wife says he's stepping back from his feelings for you and his reality. Muslims don't separate themselves from their religion and by virtue of that, love or not, you're better off not pursuing this further. chances are, he'll come to a point where he will make a decision and there's a good chance it won't be in your favor. |
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| what they said below. there is this aquarius man at work, who's muslim and his wife's muslim. she's a taurus sun, and i dont know his chart or anything but i notice that he takes his religion very seriously. (but he wears non muslim clothing) and i noticed that he's also very family-oriented. he doesn't judge others either for their religion choices; quite open minded about it but strictly keeps to his. his marriage wasn't arranged though. some aquas are strict in their mindset what they want but rebel about certain things/criteria. what the posters below said are true, about not separating from their religion, especially in that culture. (they'll make small adjustments but their 'faith' is strong) and plus, you'd want your aqua to make up his own mind freely. what is harder for your guy, is that you're his first. that'll probably tear him apart if he ever decides. don't hope too high. cherish what you have/had and try and give him alot of space. no contact. |
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