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Avoiding Being in a Relationship??

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Nadia2Porter
6/13/2012 12:36:16 AM | IP
Nadia2Porter

female

hello everyone, i missed you all!!!

I am with yet another aqua man. and I seriously need your help....
so, after we have been hanging out for about 2 1/2 months, going out together, having sex, talking to each other over the phone every night (most nights until the wee ours of the night) I decided to ask him about where he felt this was going. Boy, was this a mistake....
i texted him the following:

Me: "I have a question... What are we doing? Is this just a friends with benefits title or what? Just curious..."

Him: "I was wondering the same thing. Stuff is kinda vague. We're grown. I suppose it'll be whatever we want it to be. What did you have in mind?

Me: I was thinking exclusive dating. What do you think?

Him: I don't know what that means.

Me: ok....


That was it. And he texted me this 2 days ago. Since then our communication has been a bit different. I was just talking to him on the phone and he never mentioned it again....
He wants to take me to see the movie Promethius this weekend. should I confront him about this? Should I ask him what he wants from this, whatever it is we have??? I am so nervous. I hate rejection.... Please help.

I am a Cancer by the way. His chart is...
Rising is in 13 Degrees Gemini
Sun is in 27 Degrees Aquarius.
Moon is in 19 Degrees Cancer.
Mercury is in 00 Degrees Pisces.
Venus is in 14 Degrees Aquarius.
Mars is in 07 Degrees Pisces.
candi3bb
6/13/2012 3:20:26 AM | IP
candi3bb

27 years old female from Los Angeles, California  

Do you know what I would answer to someo

nadia! welcome back!!! HAHA uh.yeah i remember the last one you dated

another one?

i think you should stay away from aquas. water and air dont mix well...i think air signs like less 'words" more gestures and i think that insn't secure enough for a water sign.

honestly if i were guy i would run. because your so obsessed by the label and adding unecessary pressure. Hes obviously digs you and wants to take you out. . dont jump to quickly at your emotions and think it through. Ask yourself why do you feel that way. is what you feel correlated directly to the situation? is it accurate to what the reality is? also let time do the work. I Thats the only way it would work with a air sign. lets keep in mind hes AIR all around. his cancer moon may make him more sensitive to your feelings than other aquas. but at the end that will be expressed through his rising..then through his mercury. Anyways, I say go out on the date have fun. and when its appropriate smoothly bring it up.

hope this helped

Metoo
6/14/2012 1:17:52 PM | IP

Aqua wont spell it out for you necessarily in my opinion. He is probably in the stage where he is observing, getting to know you.
He is not ready to nail down his feelings and he will not like to be pushed or rushed. Wait a few months and have fun for now because now he at least knows your intention so he knows your not one to be put in friend zone.
If its gonna be great it will get there slowly. Too much emotional speak could cause him to retract into his shell to think alot and of course confuse you, so let him bring things up as he gets comfortable.

What happened with the last guy? :~))
aiyanatb
6/14/2012 4:05:29 PM | IP
aiyanatb

28 years old female

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0

they take forever u cant rush an aqua male into anything lol
Wings
6/25/2012 10:06:46 PM | IP
Wings

Haha, "I don't know what that means." I've said that to get a woman off track trying to tie me down. Smells like someone just like me, the no-relationship guy.
truecap
6/26/2012 9:54:18 AM | IP
truecap

45 years old female from Small Town, USA  

Sun: Cap Rising: Scorpio Mercury: Capr

Avoidance! They are good about re-directing and avoiding answering a question they don't want to answer. Suppose its better than a rude, blunt, hurtful, albeit truthful answer. *shrugs*
lisabethur8
6/26/2012 11:07:20 AM | IP
lisabethur8



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Pisces Mercury

,and Mars in Pisces.

There you go.

 

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