Do Aquas have the tendency to act the opposite

6/22/2012 8:43:55 PM | IP
freedomlibra

of how they feel if they like you? For example, would they go out of the way to act as if they don't like you, even if they do? and why would Aqua would do something like that?
6/23/2012 4:46:46 AM | IP
candi3bb

27 years old female from Los Angeles, California  

Pie is Good.

Hmm yeahhhhhh you coulllld say that. I definitely have guys get so confused off of body language. My inconsistency and changeability causes others to misunderstand me. It really depends on the "type of situation". I actually find it annoying. Its not that i'm TRYING to avoid. Its just taken that way. For instance, the most recent was with a fire sign. I would hold his hand and kiss him first. During a camping trip, i started to go off alone and draw and doing my own things. for i like my freedom to do whatever i want. When i got back from my own self-time. I would go talk to him and chit chat with others. Dividing my attention evenly with everyone. At night, we cuddled which i like at times..but i move around a lot and i get anxious if that would bother the other person so i tend not to cuddle. So after 1 hour..i moved a inch away.As the next day proceeded, i felt his vibes as distant so...i figured its nothing and i didnt go out of my way to ask why. I started doing my own thing..okay then night came along...as we were sleeping in the same tent he declared "i dont know what to do with you..."
i asked what do you mean? ..Long story short, he basically said he felt i was ignoring him, not paying him much attention, he lieks it how i hold his hand, and wonders why i moved away when we were cuddling. he then beings to try to seek understanding once again, why i giggled when we kissed. As if he was trying to figure out if i even liked him.

that situation isn't definite of how i would act in ALL situations though...

6/23/2012 5:21:51 AM | IP
lisabethur8



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It depends on the aqua you're dealing with. Some are very inconsistent and hard to read, but some, will tell you straight off if they don't like you or like you. These have no fear about hurting your feelings because now that I'm trying to understand aquarius SUN in women, as well as men, they do have an "energy" about them that has a lot of men and women chase them. And I noticed that they love the chase. Even if it's to their own detriment that this situation could get them in trouble. (because they unknowingly or knowingly realize that they are messing around with people's real feelings and that's not, in principle, right.)

They perhaps, adore/love that attention and they glorify in it. Yet, do not get close. It's similar to a Leo Sun but instead of the fire, you get the distance and the longing. thus, in true "fixed" sun form, they exude the energy of "unrequited" love that they are pulling in. Again, it is also the charts within the sun sign, if you get a lot of air in the chart you'll get just that - alot of airy, light but not delving into the feelings energy. If they have alot of fire, more combustible, more strength,in your face kind of approach. And the rest, like more water or more earth, you get the understanding. If they have the courage, they probably have a lot of fire in their chart (in true astrology form)
6/23/2012 12:22:45 PM | IP
Metoo

Lisabeth, I feel your statement is accurate, however it makes me so sad in a way.
Whether it was the retrograde or just life, my aqua friend and I reconciled our differences, and there seems to be a real true grounded friendship reborn with such genuine statements on his behalf, however at different times in this long friendship it has taken small romantic detours Never physical though, but always comes back to "just friends" which I believe is where we need to be, but I see him starting to try & reel me in with subtle flirtations and affections and I believe its to get me to a place where I am attached to him & show more attention.
so, I suppose remaining neutral and keeping a guard up has got to be. I just wanna be normal with him though and just have balance and a cool and a little more detached bond.
Its hard to do because of their magnetism.
wish there was a blueprint for aquas.
Wish I could trust in the friendship and not feel somehow its a game.
anyways, loved your input.
7/24/2012 2:46:29 AM | IP
kukupuffs093

20 years old female from America  

Aquarius :) Lol. I have not been o

With love relationships (especially the initial) I've been told that I always give mix signals. I think it's because I don't want the other person to easily find out that I have feelings for them. lol However, when they do find out I tend to get close to them one second and then back off for a while. Maybe I'm insecure about my feeling or their's? eh. I've been told that I'm confusing and give mix signals. I wish I could stop doing this. I throw off and confuse a lot a guys which in turn causes me to have flippy floppy relationships :/