Ignoring a typical aquarius

4/3/2008 1:55:29 PM | More
aulait

female

Sun-> Scorpio Rising-> Aquarius Moon-> C

...does this provoke aggression? Is it a wise move?

I'm just tired of the last minute cancellations and last minute organizations all the time. Today is a important event we planned for and he texts today and says hes too tired to come and is heading down to a friend's up north.

Is ignoring his texts for atleast 3 days going to worsen things? I want to express my discontent and talking to him in the past has not worked as its just gone out the other ear. Ignoring him is a powerful weapon.
4/3/2008 6:24:03 PM | More
BigD56

28 years old male

Most of the time, these are just tests of a typical aquarius trying to see what makes you tick, and how u react to it. Me personally, the best way to shake me out of that phase is to ignore me, because if I really did like you I'd stop the games and begin pursuit.
4/3/2008 8:35:03 PM | More
baby76

i am aquarius female and i tend to cancel plans but not to hang out with other people. if he was tired he wouldn't be going with his buddies. text him back and say "that's cool. i hope you get some rest while you're gone." then ignore him for a few days. by you being so calm about the situaution he won't know where you are coming from. if he is playing games that response will throw him for a loop.
4/3/2008 8:40:21 PM | More
ScorpSuperior

female

Sun: Scorpio, house 4

They won't care. lol
4/3/2008 8:58:16 PM | More
baby76

I hate to be ignored even when i am in the wrong. i'm not saying ignoring him will teach him a lesson, i'm saying when you respond differently than what a person is used to it puts something on their mind.
4/4/2008 8:34:13 AM | More
krysrenee7

female

Popcorn is best for these kinds of occas

THe first thing you need to do is express your feelings to him & THEN ask yourself these questions. With Aquarians, we can either completely open up to someone or completely shut someone off when they express their opinions. You need to figure out WHY he's not paying you all the attention you're really craving. It could be that he's not interested in you on the same level that you're interested in. It could be that he's testing you to see what makes you 'tick' so that a situation like this can arrise, therefore him knowing how you REALLY feel (once you're close to exploding).

Ignoring an Aquarian that was never interested in you is more of a FAVOR to us. IF he's going MIA so much it could be that he's trying to distance himself as much as possible, but not too much ( to where he doesn't have anybody) & normally, when someone we aren't sure about in the beginning finally says F-it, we are glad you guys did the job for us.

4/4/2008 9:22:26 PM | More
Aqua_duck

It sounds like he thought the event and you weren't that important. He deserves the same treatment.
4/5/2008 8:09:16 PM | More
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

here lately since the beginning of February i have been in this ignoring, not texting right back, not returning phone calls in a timely manner or jus not picking up at all phase so i probably won't be much help on this one, it's been a few weeks now and it doesn't seem to be getting better.

I agree with SS, he probably won't care atleast not right away, if you can go a few weeks on pause ie ignoring him, then he will eventually miss you and follow pursuit, if he doesn't come back at all then you know he really wasn't that into you ie the level of attraction wasn't high enough for him to take interest....also i find being more into an Aqua than they are into you makes it much more difficult.

He's being disrespectful/selfish...leave him alone, personally I don't believe he's testing you, an Aquarius is either totally into you or not into you.

personally for me, i find if a person is being pushy, aggressively pursuing me, taking over the friendship/relationship, it will eventually turn me off and I will go on about my business, totally ignoring the other person with no explanation of why and what for.

Does it make it right? I dunno but it is what it is, i'm not happy with my behavior right now but i'm sitting it out and hoping it will pass soon...i'm jus turned off by everyone right now, i still communicate but begrudgingly.

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