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Hey yal. I'm new to this site!! *waves*

Anyway on to it. I've currently been seeing a Aqua Venus man for 6 moths. I was wondering if anyone could give me signs or things to look out for when he's falling in love. He has already said I love you about two months back. However everytime I mention a relationship he shuts down kind of. He has these days where he gets sweet and says I'm everything he wants in a woman, he cherish the friendship and loves me and all that I offer him. However he won't make it official. I've met parents, grandparents and kids. I'm around his kids on a regular basis, we go on dates often and talk and text all day long. However I can't help but think everytime he feels himself letting go and getting to close he backs off. He doesn't stop communicating but he won't come around and he can get very cold with his words nothing evil just like he's trying to hurt my feelings
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Posted by arose32
Stop wasting your time and find someone who will do everything you want them to.

I'm Venus in Aqua... And he's playing it cool. Leave him for a while and if he clings he loves you .
I've done that. When I leave he won't let go he finds reasons to text me. When I avoid the calls or text he will bring up his Kids to get me to respond. He's popped up at my job. He always says it's not over I know your schedule
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ll this:

Posted by Lovelyladybull
He has already said I love you about two months back.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
says I'm everything he wants in a woman, he cherish the friendship and loves me and all that I offer him.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
I've met parents, grandparents and kids.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
I'm around his kids on a regular basis, we go on dates often and talk and text all day long.
But your question is this:

Posted by Lovelyladybull
I was wondering if anyone could give me signs or things to look out for when he's falling in love.
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If it's raining and you're outside and you're soaked, do you need a passer by to point out to you it's raining? It has to be stated?
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Posted by Damnata
So he does all this:

Posted by Lovelyladybull
He has already said I love you about two months back.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
says I'm everything he wants in a woman, he cherish the friendship and loves me and all that I offer him.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
I've met parents, grandparents and kids.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
I'm around his kids on a regular basis, we go on dates often and talk and text all day long.
But your question is this:

Posted by Lovelyladybull
I was wondering if anyone could give me signs or things to look out for when he's falling in love.
If it's raining and you're outside and you're soaked, do you need a passer by to point out to you it's raining? It has to be stated?
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Lol when you put it that way! I guess the whole backing off is what throws me for a loop. Or when he just goes from wanting to do stuff together to rather do it alone
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Posted by Lovelyladybull
Posted by Damnata
So he does all this:

Posted by Lovelyladybull
He has already said I love you about two months back.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
says I'm everything he wants in a woman, he cherish the friendship and loves me and all that I offer him.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
I've met parents, grandparents and kids.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
I'm around his kids on a regular basis, we go on dates often and talk and text all day long.
But your question is this:

Posted by Lovelyladybull
I was wondering if anyone could give me signs or things to look out for when he's falling in love.
If it's raining and you're outside and you're soaked, do you need a passer by to point out to you it's raining? It has to be stated?
Lol when you put it that way! I guess the whole backing off is what throws me for a loop. Or when he just goes from wanting to do stuff together to rather do it alone
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I get the confusion. Their style in dating is..different.

It's really hard for my Venus (Cancer) to not get riled up and interpret their space as dettachment. But your guy seems to walk his walk. Talking is superflous.
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Posted by Lovelyladybull
Posted by Damnata
So he does all this:

Posted by Lovelyladybull
He has already said I love you about two months back.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
says I'm everything he wants in a woman, he cherish the friendship and loves me and all that I offer him.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
I've met parents, grandparents and kids.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
I'm around his kids on a regular basis, we go on dates often and talk and text all day long.
But your question is this:

Posted by Lovelyladybull
I was wondering if anyone could give me signs or things to look out for when he's falling in love.
If it's raining and you're outside and you're soaked, do you need a passer by to point out to you it's raining? It has to be stated?
Lol when you put it that way! I guess the whole backing off is what throws me for a loop. Or when he just goes from wanting to do stuff together to rather do it alone
I get the confusion. Their style in dating is..different.

It's really hard for my Venus (Cancer) to not get riled up and interpret their space as dettachment. But your guy seems to walk his walk. Talking is superflous.

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It's very different! As soon as I get comfy he shakes it up. I'm learning as I go and trying not to pull my hair out. Is the backing away a defense mech to keep feelings at bay?
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Posted by Lovelyladybull
Is the backing away a defense mech to keep feelings at bay?


I don't think it has anything to do with keeping feelings at bay. Had he wanted that, he would not be so involved with you.

It's just...life. We get drained, we pursue some interest, we have stuff on our table and sometimes it's just good to be by yourself in your own universe. Not a slight against a partner for them to not include us in it.
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Is the backing away a defense mech to keep feelings at bay?


I don't think it has anything to do with keeping feelings at bay. Had he wanted that, he would not be so involved with you.

It's just...life. We get drained, we pursue some interest, we have stuff on our table and sometimes it's just good to be by yourself in your own universe. Not a slight against a partner for them to not include us in it.

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Well that makes me feel better. Because at times he's said your everything I want in a woman and it scares me
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Nope, that's what they do.

He's yours, if you want him. 🙂
Your a Leo sun he's a Leo moon
And my guy is an Aqua Venus. 🙂


Did he ever do the things mine is doing?
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Absolutely.

An Aqua Venus isn't going to flat out lie to you. They know they can get what they want without that. Just the fact that he's telling you these things and (for the most part) following through, means that he means it.

But it's still early in the relationship. Don't expect great expressions of love; it's a steady, consistent thing that gets more solid over time. Telling you that you're their best friend (if you're the opposite sex) is the highest compliment for these guys. It means you're "in".



There will always be a little bit of aloofness or distance there. It can take a looong time before you feel that sense of closeness, so you have to be patient and roll with their pace of things.

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Nope, that's what they do.

He's yours, if you want him. 🙂
Your a Leo sun he's a Leo moon
And my guy is an Aqua Venus. 🙂


Did he ever do the things mine is doing?
Absolutely.

An Aqua Venus isn't going to flat out lie to you. They know they can get what they want without that. Just the fact that he's telling you these things and (for the most part) following through, means that he means it.

But it's still early in the relationship. Don't expect great expressions of love; it's a steady, consistent thing that gets more solid over time. Telling you that you're their best friend (if you're the opposite sex) is the highest compliment for these guys. It means you're "in".



There will always be a little bit of aloofness or distance there. It can take a looong time before you feel that sense of closeness, so you have to be patient and roll with their pace of things.

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I never get great expressions of love. However some days he will just hold me and say this is why I love you and list reasons and then look off away from me. I can tell it takes a lot out of him so I don't push.
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Nope, that's what they do.

He's yours, if you want him. 🙂
Your a Leo sun he's a Leo moon
And my guy is an Aqua Venus. 🙂


Did he ever do the things mine is doing?
Absolutely.

An Aqua Venus isn't going to flat out lie to you. They know they can get what they want without that. Just the fact that he's telling you these things and (for the most part) following through, means that he means it.

But it's still early in the relationship. Don't expect great expressions of love; it's a steady, consistent thing that gets more solid over time. Telling you that you're their best friend (if you're the opposite sex) is the highest compliment for these guys. It means you're "in".



There will always be a little bit of aloofness or distance there. It can take a looong time before you feel that sense of closeness, so you have to be patient and roll with their pace of things.


I never get great expressions of love. However some days he will just hold me and say this is why I love you and list reasons and then look off away from me. I can tell it takes a lot out of him so I don't push.
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Mine giggles after he tells me. And we've been together for decades.

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I find this such a hard placement 😢 ice cold sometimes.
I wouldn't call it cold, but it *can* be, especially if they're hurt. In general though, I would call it appropriately dispassionate. 😄

It teaches some of us who have hotter blood to step back and be more realistic or universal about love. It also brings a kind of naiveté to relationships that is actually refreshing and fun. Hard to describe but I've always felt like my guy's Aqua venus has a kind of emotional maturity that my Libra Venus appreciates.



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I find this such a hard placement 😢 ice cold sometimes.
I wouldn't call it cold, but it *can* be, especially if they're hurt. In general though, I would call it appropriately dispassionate. 😄

It teaches some of us who have hotter blood to step back and be more realistic or universal about love. It also brings a kind of naiveté to relationships that is actually refreshing and fun. Hard to describe but I've always felt like my guy's Aqua venus has a kind of emotional maturity that my Libra Venus appreciates.




Yes very true, def makes me take a step back and analyze more...im leo venus as well.... looool recipe for disaster with aquarius venus ... 😛

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He and I have a lot of opposites too. Not fun sometimes, but we have both grown so much. Just know you're teaching him as much as he's teaching you. And the bond gets stronger as you go--if you can handle the getting through it. 🙂
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When my venus in aqua man emotes.....I know that I can get some much needed errands done over the next few days. ..like a mini vacation 😆

My libra venus digs that because she needs space too...and my fixed bits love the predictability.
My Gemini Venus helps me deal with but my Taurus sun hates it. Internal struggle *sigh* and I'm sure it's the bull in me that dislikes the sudden change
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I have a Cap friend who is mysterious as hell. He has aqua venus too. Totally hear from this person random times with weeks in between and all i can think is...

You still consider us friends? And for him it's as if we pick up right where we left off. So I guess distance is what they do lol.

He's weird but in a good way.

Me being a ViS I can't fully be comfortable and trust him, since I never know when he's gonna dissappear..

Oh well...

The other male aqua venus is my little baby but he's too young for me to tell you what's he like lol but he is shy at first and takes a long time to warm up to people and other kids but once he does he can be himself. I mean he's still a kid and all but he loves me and he is 100% himself around me but the average person he gives them 75% the most and that's if he likes you.

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....and when he does emote.....HE GOES BIG....I love it 😄

It's absolutely adorable!
Unfortunately, I haven't had the benefit of seeing that from mine. Unless it's the negative kind (Aries mars). But I still take the vaca when that happens, lol. Cap moon no likey. 😄


It's always in small bursts and completely unexpected....lol

I have learned not to push.....or expect anything....just go with the flow....and BOOM....there it is.

it is so sweet and genuine when it happens like that.

In the very very beginning....the weirdness and silence concerned me.....and confused me alot. It's actually how I landed on dxp.

I realized it's just his style .....and when you step back and look at the big picture...it's quite precious.

They are not always perfect .....there are some traits that drive me batty....lol....but I've gotten a rhythm going with the emotional stuff that seems to work now.

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That's sweet. I figure if it hasn't happened in 20 odd years, it's not gonna. 😄. Aqua sun.

But it's OK, I see the sweetness in other ways.
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Nope, that's what they do.

He's yours, if you want him. 🙂
Your a Leo sun he's a Leo moon
And my guy is an Aqua Venus. 🙂


Did he ever do the things mine is doing?
Absolutely.

An Aqua Venus isn't going to flat out lie to you. They know they can get what they want without that. Just the fact that he's telling you these things and (for the most part) following through, means that he means it.

But it's still early in the relationship. Don't expect great expressions of love; it's a steady, consistent thing that gets more solid over time. Telling you that you're their best friend (if you're the opposite sex) is the highest compliment for these guys. It means you're "in".



There will always be a little bit of aloofness or distance there. It can take a looong time before you feel that sense of closeness, so you have to be patient and roll with their pace of things.


I never get great expressions of love. However some days he will just hold me and say this is why I love you and list reasons and then look off away from me. I can tell it takes a lot out of him so I don't push.
Mine giggles after he tells me. And we've been together for decades.

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Lol @ giggles. My (sun&venus) aqua does that too.

As we have a conversation on the phone he throws something sweet in there quickly and im like, "did u just say this or that? " He laughs. I say "i got you" Then he comes out and says what he said even louder and laughs some more 😄

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Posted by ElleDuMonde
When my venus in aqua man emotes.....I know that I can get some much needed errands done over the next few days. ..like a mini vacation 😆

My libra venus digs that because she needs space too...and my fixed bits love the predictability.
I see libra venus and aqua venus a lot, but also because of their "mars" sign too.

for example, our Pisces sun uncle is Aqua venus married to a Double Libra with LIbra venus, but she has Scorpio mars. and he has Aries mars.

so there's the dynamic.

but I also see Aqua venus with Virgo venus quite a bit.



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Hey yal. I'm new to this site!! *waves*

Anyway on to it. I've currently been seeing a Aqua Venus man for 6 moths. I was wondering if anyone could give me signs or things to look out for when he's falling in love. He has already said I love you about two months back. However everytime I mention a relationship he shuts down kind of. He has these days where he gets sweet and says I'm everything he wants in a woman, he cherish the friendship and loves me and all that I offer him. However he won't make it official. I've met parents, grandparents and kids. I'm around his kids on a regular basis, we go on dates often and talk and text all day long. However I can't help but think everytime he feels himself letting go and getting to close he backs off. He doesn't stop communicating but he won't come around and he can get very cold with his words nothing evil just like he's trying to hurt my feelings
it's hard to find much on the MEN alone but, there are men on this site with aqua venus, maybe they will contribute.

there are some vids on youtube you can also listen to, but they're more "generalized" for both genders, it'd be better if there was one for just how the man thinks.

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When my venus in aqua man emotes.....I know that I can get some much needed errands done over the next few days. ..like a mini vacation 😆

My libra venus digs that because she needs space too...and my fixed bits love the predictability.
I see libra venus and aqua venus a lot, but also because of their "mars" sign too.

for example, our Pisces sun uncle is Aqua venus married to a Double Libra with LIbra venus, but she has Scorpio mars. and he has Aries mars.

so there's the dynamic.

but I also see Aqua venus with Virgo venus quite a bit.





We are scorp and taur mars 😄

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lol opposite attracts!

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I find this such a hard placement 😢 ice cold sometimes.
I wouldn't call it cold, but it *can* be, especially if they're hurt. In general though, I would call it appropriately dispassionate. 😄

It teaches some of us who have hotter blood to step back and be more realistic or universal about love. It also brings a kind of naiveté to relationships that is actually refreshing and fun. Hard to describe but I've always felt like my guy's Aqua venus has a kind of emotional maturity that my Libra Venus appreciates.




Yes very true, def makes me take a step back and analyze more...im leo venus as well.... looool recipe for disaster with aquarius venus ... 😛

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Yeah...I had to break the habit of being with Leo Venus men. I just can't. I never live up to expectations.
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I have a Cap friend who is mysterious as hell. He has aqua venus too. Totally hear from this person random times with weeks in between and all i can think is...

You still consider us friends? And for him it's as if we pick up right where we left off. So I guess distance is what they do lol.

He's weird but in a good way.

Me being a ViS I can't fully be comfortable and trust him, since I never know when he's gonna dissappear..

Oh well...

The other male aqua venus is my little baby but he's too young for me to tell you what's he like lol but he is shy at first and takes a long time to warm up to people and other kids but once he does he can be himself. I mean he's still a kid and all but he loves me and he is 100% himself around me but the average person he gives them 75% the most and that's if he likes you.




Aqua Venus is like a honey bee.....we're pollinating all the flowers.
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Posted by Damnata
So he does all this:

Posted by Lovelyladybull
He has already said I love you about two months back.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
says I'm everything he wants in a woman, he cherish the friendship and loves me and all that I offer him.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
I've met parents, grandparents and kids.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
I'm around his kids on a regular basis, we go on dates often and talk and text all day long.
But your question is this:

Posted by Lovelyladybull
I was wondering if anyone could give me signs or things to look out for when he's falling in love.
If it's raining and you're outside and you're soaked, do you need a passer by to point out to you it's raining? It has to be stated?
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exactly - hey it's raining lady - you got that now? so he doesn't fulfill you in the verbal announcement category - so be it and get used to it if you love him - that is the way it is ...
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I find this such a hard placement 😢 ice cold sometimes.
I wouldn't call it cold, but it *can* be, especially if they're hurt. In general though, I would call it appropriately dispassionate. 😄

It teaches some of us who have hotter blood to step back and be more realistic or universal about love. It also brings a kind of naiveté to relationships that is actually refreshing and fun. Hard to describe but I've always felt like my guy's Aqua venus has a kind of emotional maturity that my Libra Venus appreciates.


Yes very true, def makes me take a step back and analyze more...im leo venus as well.... looool recipe for disaster with aquarius venus ... 😛


Yeah...I had to break the habit of being with Leo Venus men. I just can't. I never live up to expectations.

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omg it's the curse of having personal planets in a house. In your case, 5th house.

me, venus aries men.

edit - Blake Lively just got her rising, on astrotheme, where she didn't have it before, and now they have her venus in 1st house, and she's with a firey venus man. lol

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When my venus in aqua man emotes.....I know that I can get some much needed errands done over the next few days. ..like a mini vacation 😆

My libra venus digs that because she needs space too...and my fixed bits love the predictability.
I see libra venus and aqua venus a lot, but also because of their "mars" sign too.

for example, our Pisces sun uncle is Aqua venus married to a Double Libra with LIbra venus, but she has Scorpio mars. and he has Aries mars.

so there's the dynamic.

but I also see Aqua venus with Virgo venus quite a bit.



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Wow Lisa! That's a mirror image of my marriage.

I'm Pisces with Aqua Venus and Aries Mars. My ex husband is double Libra (rising, not moon) with Libra Venus and Scorpio Mars.

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When my venus in aqua man emotes.....I know that I can get some much needed errands done over the next few days. ..like a mini vacation 😆

My libra venus digs that because she needs space too...and my fixed bits love the predictability.
I see libra venus and aqua venus a lot, but also because of their "mars" sign too.

for example, our Pisces sun uncle is Aqua venus married to a Double Libra with LIbra venus, but she has Scorpio mars. and he has Aries mars.

so there's the dynamic.

but I also see Aqua venus with Virgo venus quite a bit.




Wow Lisa! That's a mirror image of my marriage.

I'm Pisces with Aqua Venus and Aries Mars. My ex husband is double Libra (rising, not moon) with Libra Venus and Scorpio Mars.

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I see a lot of Aries mars with either Libra sun, or moon, or venus, so true!!! and also if the Libra mars too. it's the Libra/Aries axis.

sorry to hear that yours didn't last.

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Interesting placement but not for me....leaves me cold


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aw. My sister has this placement too. she's with a Virgo venus.



anyway, on that video I posted, there are some comments in there, and there's this one older lady looking very cold too. lol (I wonder if she just uploaded her account just for that) lmao.

and she mentions how cold she is, and lives in different houses than her husband.

then I thought of Frida Kahlo (who was famous for living in two different households from her husband)

and she has Gemini venus in the 11th house. lol

not all venus aquas or 11th house venuses, or Gemini venuses, but it's just funny.
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We really struggle with labels.

It's always official for us, but then when you 'overstate' it is, our reaction is often *ugh*.
lol!! Another thing you can maybe help with due to me not being good at hints. He sometimes comes to me with his kids schedule for example son is starting to play baseball. He sent me a copy of registration. Do you think that's his way of asking me to come to games or just him sharing what's going on in his life
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I find this such a hard placement 😢 ice cold sometimes.
I wouldn't call it cold, but it *can* be, especially if they're hurt. In general though, I would call it appropriately dispassionate. 😄

It teaches some of us who have hotter blood to step back and be more realistic or universal about love. It also brings a kind of naiveté to relationships that is actually refreshing and fun. Hard to describe but I've always felt like my guy's Aqua venus has a kind of emotional maturity that my Libra Venus appreciates.




Yes very true, def makes me take a step back and analyze more...im leo venus as well.... looool recipe for disaster with aquarius venus ... 😛


Yeah...I had to break the habit of being with Leo Venus men. I just can't. I never live up to expectations.



Mhm... I hate my Venus 😢 it's confusing for us as well... One minute we demand attention the next we're chill and we wanna be left alone.... Aiiiie.

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Yes it's very confusing! It's like ok are lovey today or are we just texting today
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Posted by FutureSeeker
I'm an aqua venus. I don't do big expressions of love. I'm aloof. Aquas can intellectualize their emotions pretty well, just more difficult to express and deeply feel them. I want to be close, but sometimes I want space- especially if all the gushy feelings are overwhelming. I picked a fight with my man last night (I didn't realize it at the time) and I was feeling so overwhelmed with mushy feelings. Picking the fight had me putting him at arms length. When I realized what was going on, I said sorry.


He sometimes says things he knows will push my buttons. Reading what you said I wonder if that's his way of saying leave me alone today. I've called him out on everytime he gets too close or things get too good he finds excuses not to see me. He will still text and call everyday just won't see me as much
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So he does all this:

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He has already said I love you about two months back.
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says I'm everything he wants in a woman, he cherish the friendship and loves me and all that I offer him.
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I've met parents, grandparents and kids.
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I'm around his kids on a regular basis, we go on dates often and talk and text all day long.
But your question is this:

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I was wondering if anyone could give me signs or things to look out for when he's falling in love.
If it's raining and you're outside and you're soaked, do you need a passer by to point out to you it's raining? It has to be stated?
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I love this. The ultimate analogy. I get the disappearing thing can be disconcerting but he overall seems consistent but he also seems like he has a life.
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....and when he does emote.....HE GOES BIG....I love it 😄

It's absolutely adorable!
What's his sun?
Capricorn


Mine too! When did he finally make it official or let his guard down
When? After 7 years....one breakup....two other relationships for me.....and a partridge in a pair tree 😆

He came back around in April after two years of no contact (initiated by me) and he has been full throttle since....lol

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Gesh oh wow. I left once told him I needed a relationship that friendship was just to hard. He wouldn't let me go kept calling and texting. Told me if I didn't respond he was coming over
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Posted by Damnata
So he does all this:

Posted by Lovelyladybull
He has already said I love you about two months back.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
says I'm everything he wants in a woman, he cherish the friendship and loves me and all that I offer him.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
I've met parents, grandparents and kids.
Posted by Lovelyladybull
I'm around his kids on a regular basis, we go on dates often and talk and text all day long.
But your question is this:

Posted by Lovelyladybull
I was wondering if anyone could give me signs or things to look out for when he's falling in love.
If it's raining and you're outside and you're soaked, do you need a passer by to point out to you it's raining? It has to be stated?
I love this. The ultimate analogy. I get the disappearing thing can be disconcerting but he overall seems consistent but he also seems like he has a life.
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He never goes a day with calling or texting throughout the day. Prob has more to do with his Leo moon. He just will back off of time spent once he feels he's getting too attached
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Posted by DontWant2FitIn
Wayyyy too dettached for me. I need a title. Without a title I feel inadequate. At 6 months you should know by now whether or not you consider ne your girlfriend. If you say fwb I will never question it. If you say I am your girlfriend I will never question it. Both situations I have been told where I stand. Just because he is acting like your man doesn't mean he is yours so you have the right to know.
As crazy as it may seem my first love was a aqua with cap moon and Venus Aqua talk about cold. But it was so long ago I can only remember bits and pieces of how he acted before he let his guard down with me. We were together 5 years. I remember him saying I never would say we were official to you but in my head and heart we were. I told my friends and family we were I just didn't want you to know how in love I was
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He's into you. Just let him do his thing & don't take it to heart. I'm an Aqua Venus & can be like him too.
So I have an Aqua in Venus and Mars. Why arent I like that? I hate distance in love...I am cool doing my own thing and will disappear off the face of the earth when dealing with life but when I am in love or like someone I dont understand the point in disappearing for a few days. I personally find emoting your feelings a good thing, I am also an extrovert so idk. I am just gonna start saying my Venus is in Pisces cuz I am always too in touch with my feelings.
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Posted by SofiaV87
He's into you. Just let him do his thing & don't take it to heart. I'm an Aqua Venus & can be like him too.
So I have an Aqua in Venus and Mars. Why arent I like that? I hate distance in love...I am cool doing my own thing and will disappear off the face of the earth when dealing with life but when I am in love or like someone I dont understand the point in disappearing for a few days. I personally find emoting your feelings a good thing, I am also an extrovert so idk. I am just gonna start saying my Venus is in Pisces cuz I am always too in touch with my feelings.
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It's more than likely the Pisces in you. All the Pisces I know tend to be very sensitive and lovey. But none of them have Aqua in them either
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Posted by DontWant2FitIn
Wayyyy too dettached for me. I need a title. Without a title I feel inadequate. At 6 months you should know by now whether or not you consider ne your girlfriend. If you say fwb I will never question it. If you say I am your girlfriend I will never question it. Both situations I have been told where I stand. Just because he is acting like your man doesn't mean he is yours so you have the right to know.
I do like to hear it just once as well. But as I was telling someone else my first love was a Aqua cap moon Aqua Venus. I don't remember much about before he let his guard down because it was so long ago. But one day when we were talking not to long ago he told me in the beginning he always considered me his. Even told his friends and family but whenever I asked he would clam up and shut down and say he didn't want a relationship. All the while telling his friends and family we were together. I had to kind of figure it out on my own when his friends would say there is such and such girlfriend.
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