why are aquarius men like this??

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1/6/2009 7:27:02 PM | IP

leo kitten dont be so effin negative...gosh!

BE POSITIVE!
1/6/2009 7:28:27 PM | IP

a muse a libra - im 25 and my aqua guy is 25 too.
1/7/2009 9:44:55 AM | IP

well i was dating him for 2 months...and while i was dating him he would tell me things such as "im starting to really like you" "i miss u when i dont see u" and call me pet names...ive read somewhere that aquarius guys dont lie and they tell the truth,..plus whenever i was out with him i had the time of my life and i felt like he did too...now its been a month and i havent heard from him..he like disappeared on me doing his own things..he even told me himself that he can be weird at times...strange huh?? i dont know what went wrong!
1/7/2009 10:20:18 AM | IP

leokitten...because i really like him and it just hurts - plain and simple.
1/7/2009 11:11:56 AM | IP
a muse a libra

" "im starting to really like you" "i miss u when i dont see u" and call me pet names..."

Something I learned this year: feelings can change, rapidly. In a matter of days. I was dating a great guy, had everything I was looking for. I told him so. A about a week later, it was all I could do to hang out with him. I didn't leave him high and dry, I broke things off. But all of sudden, I realized how quickly feelings change.

He can say these things and be honest. But it doesn't mean they will last.

1/7/2009 11:15:52 AM | IP
a muse a libra

Also, when we were dating (for about 2 months) my aqua didn't disappear. He broke things off with me, then he disappeared. He does always come back, but it's not like total silence, and it's not always for sex or relationship stuff. We've always been friends, before we were dating and after.

My advice about remaining friends with him is because aquas highly regard their friends and will very likely end up in a long term relationship with somebody who is their friend.

1/7/2009 11:30:10 AM | IP
a muse a libra

"so you would take him back? after he completely disrespected you?"

Is this really COMPLETE disrespect? I don't think so...I think it's just a part of life, like anything else. Men are weird! They suck sometimes, but it doesn't mean they are essentially bad people.

You guys act like there is a set receipe for success! And at 25, why shouldn't she dream a little?
1/7/2009 11:34:03 AM | IP
a muse a libra

"But when its real feelings don't change like that..thats why I said watch his actions if he cares that will never change..Words and action should match.."

Yes, real feelings don't change, but sometimes it takes a few weeks to realize what kind of feelings they are.

My actions toward my ex followed suit, until my feelings didn't match.
1/7/2009 12:22:17 PM | IP
a muse a libra

"i mean if you are in love after two months"

she just likes him! And because he helped her to get to feeling that way by telling her sweet things. She's not love, and obviously, he isn't either.

After two months, I wouldn't expect much more considering MOST of the men I've dated in the last 3 years have disappeared without a word around that time, and yes, it was to end things between us.

All I'm saying is this is how guys treat girls. Two months is really not long at all, nothing is safe at two months, and in their minds: nothing is owed.
1/7/2009 12:53:04 PM | IP

leokitten -- i agree with u on that...that a guy should at least tell a girl that hes not interested or needs some space right now rather than disappearing on her with no explanation. its so disrespectful and it makes them look a like coward!
1/7/2009 12:57:51 PM | IP

starfish i forgot to add - not only did he say those things to me but he was also very affectionate towards me...like he would hold my hand and hug me and kiss me...also he took me to his friends party bc he wanted me to meet all of his friends
1/7/2009 1:02:22 PM | IP

leokitten ive called him the last three times so no...sorry but i really dont like chasing guys around...am i right or wrong?
1/7/2009 1:14:21 PM | IP

leokittten - noooo the last three times that i called he picked up and we did speak. he didnt cut me off or anything. infact i was the one who ended the convos. but i sent out a text to all of my friends (including him) wishing everyone a merry christmas...he didnt reply back to that text. plus he hasnt called me. (havent heard from him in a month)
1/7/2009 1:16:26 PM | IP

yeah but leokitten can his feelings go away that quickly?? i mean come on now its been a month. hes gotta have at least some feelings left over.
1/7/2009 1:20:26 PM | IP

he has not spoken with me in the past month...the last 3 phone calls were like the end of nov/beginning of dec.
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