Aries Female and the break up

ariesbabie
Is it stricly personal do other fellow aries woman (I am a 2nd decan) find that when you feel a relationship heading downhill you tend to emotionally distance yourself first, slowly becoming detached and colder? I don't know if it's just a defence mechanism for myself that I have seen or an aries thing?
bkbella86
Yes thats how i roll also second decan. For some reason I still hold on to the pain and its in my memory rolladex which isnt good. Like when I get hurt again I flash back to all my hurt and pain I have had in my life, not good! I can let go but i will never forget how badly I was hurt.

My ex's don't understand how I was so loving, caring, forgiving and giving and then I turn to an icequeen barely emoting or talking.
ariesbabie
I think it's because we forgive so much that one day we just reach a point whether the incident was big or small in which we just stop caring as much. Thus the starting point to slowly distancing ourself from the person emotionally so the ultimate breakup will be easier on us.

Sometimes i flash back to incidents that have happen in the past as well, the pain isn't deep anymore though I tend to let go on move on, but I still have the vivid memories. I think it helps because we can realize a) we shouldnt be in that situation yet again or b) further analyze why it's occuring and find a way to fix it. (e.g. personal issues)
Ariess
Posted by ariesbabie
Is it stricly personal do other fellow aries woman (I am a 2nd decan) find that when you feel a relationship heading downhill you tend to emotionally distance yourself first, slowly becoming detached and colder? I don't know if it's just a defence mechanism for myself that I have seen or an aries thing?

I am third decan but I do the same thing. I give every single ounce of myself and clearly state I need you to do x,y or z for this to work. If my partner chooses not to do what I need, seems like every hour I move on, get colder and nail shut the door to that relationship.







Recent Topics

WarAngel1
WarAngel1
Happy birthday beautiful lady! :) _3
Underworldaries
Underworldaries
The damsel in distress rescued by her knight and shinning armor. Aries woman full of fire is a woman who's self centered , creative , walking her own path in life. Virgo man down to earth is a man who's self centered , talented, perfect his life in every
xEUx
xEUx
Who date people without them . o_O
siopaowiks
siopaowiks
Leo female here,born aug 21,1985. Just been looking for a serious relationship but its been years already :( last guy I met was a Cancer,poof just disappeares like a bubble eventhough we've been seeing eachother for a month..when Leo,when will our true lo
Mr. Defense
Mr. Defense
I wanted to ask a question about this, because I find it to be an incredible phenomenom in the human species. I first noticed this when I started to really get into politics around 2002ish or so, and you would have a lot of people blaming someone else f
Parkourler
Parkourler
Hey Scorpiogals, It seems to me that you dont fall for one type of man. You connect well to the soft sensitive guys but at the same time you also like the classic alpha goalgetter type like capricorn. What exactly do you want from a guy? Someone who
LillyPetal
LillyPetal
Last night, my BF's Aries mother invited me to join her and her family in the living room to discuss plans for a family night. She wants to dedicate at least one day out of the week where she and her hubby cook, and we all get together and play games, etc
ladylibra21
ladylibra21
I love this app!! Anyone tried it? I am obsessed!
sadpopcorn
sadpopcorn
she said ahe loved feeling me inside her throughout the day while dealing with customers ps she is actually a taurus
thinktoomuch
thinktoomuch
- does that reflect our family/upbringing? My sister married a cancer-leo cusp. I fell in love (the only time I´ve ever been in love) with a cancer-leo cusp. My sister and him did not work out. He was head over heels with her, but wanted that tra
DanceWithMeLightly
DanceWithMeLightly
So I'm in a theater dance group with this Taurean woman. She's my designated partner after the auditions since we were partnered off based on our chemistry with each other (the judges decide on this). First time I saw her, no lie, but I was instantly attr