Aries Sun&Moon with a Cancer Rising (deceptive)

Posted by FieryAries9108
I am an Aries sun and Moon with a Cancer Ascendant , and people are constantly taking me the wrong way, they see me as a pushover/softie with my Cancer Ascendant even as un-confident!, and I'm not like that at all... I am a typical confident Aries and that side of me comes out then and people are mad and confused about it, any advice about this placement would be much appreciated. Here is my chart too, I guess I am a watered down Aries; it's hard to deal with sometimes because people are always so shocked when my Aries side comes out.

Posted by bluemoon9043834
What exactly do you mean by people surprised seeing your "Confident Aries" side come out? What is the "confident Aries" side to you? Cancer rising.... you have a cancer shell that hides.

Pluto in the 5th house, you're prone to believe that your romantic attractions are fated and meant to be. Jupiter in the 5t house, you attract many to you.

Aquarius in the 8th house, interesting. You will die an unexpected and surprising sort of death. James Dean had Aquarius in the 8th house.

10th house stellium. What do you do for work? Pisces Midheaven with Neptune in your 6th house shows a career where you provide a service to others is ideal for you. Social status and career are important to you. Will share more with you later... I'm out, hitting the gym.

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Posted by FieryAries9108
I am an Aries sun and Moon with a Cancer Ascendant , and people are constantly taking me the wrong way, they see me as a pushover/softie with my Cancer Ascendant even as un-confident!, and I'm not like that at all... I am a typical confident Aries and that side of me comes out then and people are mad and confused about it, any advice about this placement would be much appreciated. Here is my chart too, I guess I am a watered down Aries; it's hard to deal with sometimes because people are always so shocked when my Aries side comes out.

I have a Pisces moon and I am the same way and I like it. I get to see who will take advantage and who won't. I had to put my Leo coworker in her place yesterday because she said in front of a group of people that I dropped the ball on something that had nothing to do with me. She was looking to place blame on someone for something someone else did and I guess she thought I would be a good scapegoat since I ve always been super nice to her. When I put her in her place everyone seemed so shocked, and I wasnt even arguing, just explaining.

Posted by tryandguess
First of all...un-confident is not a word but precious try, secondly how old are you? Sometimes people take you more seriously as you age. Also, why worry if other people are confused, it's good to keep them guessing! Do you have a specific manifestation of this you could pin point?

Personally, I think having a cancer rising is a huge asset with the raw energy your chart indicates. If you learn how to weave together the harsher, more blunt aspects of yourself with the caring "softer" cancer energy you initially present-you could get a lot done! Sorta like an iron hand in a velvet glove

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Posted by FieryAries9108

I mean that everyone thinks of me as an emotional Cancer when I am actually a strong Aries, I usually don't hide when I am mad maybe for a day, but then I am quite explosive when I am mad

I don't know I'm not really into thinking things are fated, and what type of people do I attract? because people with lots of problems/people who are generally bad for me seem to be what I always attract....

I hope that's not true about the mysterious death, also your correct about the career aspect

Thank you for what you have posted so far I look forward to more.

What do you do for work?

It is a myth to think that water signs are weak, they're emotional, but they are not weak. Also, the midheaven is the mask and what people first see more than your rising sign. I know there are articles that say that people see the ascendant, but I believe that those astrologers have it wrong. I believe that the ascendant is more of your soul development and your midheaven is what people first see and more of the outer mask. So maybe people see more of the Pisces and not the cancer. Not to mention, you are Pisces dominant.

You have a bit of an anger problem. My advice on that is to examine what it is inside of yourself that is causing that.

Not a mysterious death... but more of an unexpected and sudden death. This does not mean that you will die young like James Dean, but could die in a car crash like he did.

People are people. Everyone has problems.. there is no one person who is flawless or without problems. We're all human.

Posted by bluemoon9043834
Also, another thing... you seem to suppress your anger rather than expressing it. Aries are taught that that our tempers/anger shouldn't be expressed from an early age... but the anger/temper is just our passion (strong intense emotions). I may have read you wrong when you said... that you hide your anger, but can explode. So my apologies if so.

Your Mars is well aspected. But Mars isn't comfortable in Pisces. Can get angry and express... then feel guilty about it later. what do you think?

Posted by bluemoon9043834

Posted by FieryAries9108

I don't have a specific career yet but I do want to help people in the future, I don't think water signs are weak, It just bugs me how emotional I can be sometimes.

I really don't have any anger problems it's more the reverse of that, I'm way to compromising when I shouldn't be, I don't like fighting over stupid things, and when people are being mean to me directly I usually take it or laugh it off, it would make since if I was more of a pisces, but then I usually get mad later and my anger is usually worse after I have had time to think about what happened.

what are thinking about for a career? Why wait until the future and not start now?

Everything in life is a matter of perspective. Maybe it comes down to asserting yourself? And making a stand for yourself?