Aries Sun&Moon with a Cancer Rising (deceptive)
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Posted by FieryAries9108
I have a Pisces moon and I am the same way and I like it. I get to see who will take advantage and who won't. I had to put my Leo coworker in her place yesterday because she said in front of a group of people that I dropped the ball on something that had nothing to do with me. She was looking to place blame on someone for something someone else did and I guess she thought I would be a good scapegoat since I ve always been super nice to her. When I put her in her place everyone seemed so shocked, and I wasnt even arguing, just explaining.
|First of all...un-confident is not a word but precious try, secondly how old are you? Sometimes people take you more seriously as you age. Also, why worry if other people are confused, it's good to keep them guessing! Do you have a specific manifestation of this you could pin point?|
Personally, I think having a cancer rising is a huge asset with the raw energy your chart indicates. If you learn how to weave together the harsher, more blunt aspects of yourself with the caring "softer" cancer energy you initially present-you could get a lot done! Sorta like an iron hand in a velvet glove
Posted by bluemoon9043834
I mean that everyone thinks of me as an emotional Cancer when I am actually a strong Aries, I usually don't hide when I am mad maybe for a day, but then I am quite explosive when I am mad
I don't know I'm not really into thinking things are fated, and what type of people do I attract? because people with lots of problems/people who are generally bad for me seem to be what I always attract....
I hope that's not true about the mysterious death, also your correct about the career aspect
Thank you for what you have posted so far I look forward to more.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by FieryAries9108
I guess your right, I'm always like that I don't even get to the full extent of my anger and everyone starts to back away, at one word, I can't stand it when people use, you and expect you to take it like it's nothing.....
Posted by tryandguess
Whoops...., and I am from the age of 18-21, but does that matter, you can be mature at a young age, yes I guess it's nice to have an air of mystery but not when It causes constant issues in close relationships, I have had such a horrible time with relationships these past few years and I think this differentiation in signs causes some of the confusion for me, and I have honestly had a hard time blending the two, because people have given me many reasons not to trust them, and that has caused me to act more like water signs.
Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by FieryAries9108
I don't have a specific career yet but I do want to help people in the future, I don't think water signs are weak, It just bugs me how emotional I can be sometimes.
I really don't have any anger problems it's more the reverse of that, I'm way to compromising when I shouldn't be, I don't like fighting over stupid things, and when people are being mean to me directly I usually take it or laugh it off, it would make since if I was more of a pisces, but then I usually get mad later and my anger is usually worse after I have had time to think about what happened.
Posted by bluemoon9043834
I do try to suppress my anger but not because I think I shouldn't let it out but because, I don't like hurting people, my temper is bad and every time I have let my temper control me I have really hurt others, and I don;t like doing that.
And you are spot on about my mars, I don't like having it in Pisces, I always feel so very horrible after say anything mean to others.....
Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by FieryAries9108
I am thinking about being an interpreter for the Japanese language and I want to do humanitarian work on the side
Thank you for all of your advice, I guess you are right I don't have a problem asserting my self it's just I really dislike hurting people's feelings due to all the pisces in my chart, so do you think that all the water signs in my chart are the cause of confusion, when people first meet me?
|I too am a sun in aries / taurus cusp, moon capricorn, and cancer rising. FieryAries9108, When I read your post, I laughed out loud, and thought this is me. What you are saying about people thinking you are a pushover. People treat me like this too. It has pissed me off for so long. It is good to see that there are others who are having the same experience. I was starting to think it was a defect in myself. Asking myself, why do I have to be so volnerable? Did something to deserve peoples rudeness and disrespect.|
I have a lot of good experiences with most people. The 80 / 20 rule applies to me here. 80 percent of my interactions are respectable. But those 20 percent really get me upset. Being a typical cancer ascendant, I have thin skin. So, something as small as a rise in vocal tone can be offensive to me.
I try to be respectful of everyone I meet, no matter who they are. It is so nice to meet people who are truly respectful. Other people seem to take my openness / respectfullness for granted. And they think I am soft or weak. Then they proceed to be rude and try to walk all over me. When this happens, I try to overlook it and just get away from whomever is being disrespectful asap. But sometimes I snap on people. Or, I just raise my tone of voice, or simply just stand up for myself, or state my opinion, or just flat out tell the other person what I think they are doing wrong.
This is when it gets interesting.... Sometimes the person seems to tone it down, and they realize that I am not just a pushover, and that I have a backbone, and I can stand up for myslef. But other times, the disrespectful person seems to get offended. As if to say "How dare he". I guess these folks hardly ever can see things from my perspective. Like I dont have a right to stand up for myself. Like I should just keep on taking their BS. I am so sick of these types of people. They loose any respect I have for them fast. I try to avoid negative people, because I it rubs off on me so bad. And I am already so pessamistic and meloncholy that any more negativity is not good.
So, the point in my entire post goes back to what FieryAries9108 is saying. Why do some people seem to think I am soft and give me a crappy attitude. Why do people try to use me as an emotional garbage dump. Then, when I refuse to take their garbage anymore they get offended. Its like they think I should just keep on taking their negativity.
|I have also noticed that people like to tease me. I guess It is ok, people only tease those they like. It is fine until I start teasing back. Because most of my teasing comes with a lot of resentment for being teased, and a harsh truth behind it. Here again, some get offended when I tease back, like I am not supposed to have the right to stand up for myself. My cancer claws start pinching hard. Talking to people on the phone is also difficult sometimes. I can just hear the anger or negativity in their voice and it is very irritating. It is hard for me to not pop off or smart off to them. Maybe its just me. There is no cure for CANCER.|
Also, bkbella86, I like your comment about "I get to see who will take advantage and who won't." It is nice to meet those who are respectable, but those who will take advantage of me are not worth the dirt on my shoe. I guess I am a little bitter to those who have been disrespectful to me. Cancer keeps a long list of those who have offended them, We never forget the wrongs those have done to us.