Aries man, does he like me?

silentdoll9
Hi! I am a Sagittarius female who has been friends with an Aries for quite a couple of months now, the thing is that I need some help from you Aries to help me figure our relationship out .
So this is my story
Ever since we met I felt like we had an interesting attraction going on, back then I was with a Libra who broke my heart 2 weeks ago and who I was with for 14 months. He knew that I had a boyfriend but still he didn't seem to mind as he always invited me out and even teased me asking me if my bf will mind if he took me out because he could make him jealous.
So we kept our friendship casual, I wont deny that we continually flirted with each other though but it was mostly like a platonic relationship so we will go out once in a while and messaged each other regularly.

But anyways it wasn't until one day that he invited me to go to a bar with his friends that things started changing between us, on that night I remember I told him that women like gentle men who will start flirting with the hair (I dont know why I said that but anyways) so then when we were dancing he started touching my hair gently but right away I pulled away because I was with my bf back then and I didn't want to cheat, despite the fact that he was being very friendly as he was hugging me a lot and dragging me around the bar holding my hand. Then the next night we decided to go out again and when he was drunk he told my sister that he was sick of falling for girls who had boyfriends because he was always left as a second choice, on that night once again he tried to dance with me but I kept teasing him and avoid getting too close to him for respect for my bf. (If I had know back then what my bf did to me I would have gladly cheat though!!)

After that night he kept inviting me everywhere, he invited me to go with his friends to the beach, to go with him out but I kept saying no to his invites because I really didn't want him to get the wrong idea so we started to keep our distance once again.
Then 2 weeks ago I broke up with my bf, I was a bit upset about what he did to me and on that night he was working near my apartment so I asked him if I could go and see him since I wasn't feeling well. On that night I told him what happened but he kept telling me "Don't worry your bf will come back to you and you will take him back, give him a week or so" despite the fact I kept telling him that after what my bf did to me I didn't want to see him ever again.
silentdoll9
So on that night he decided to take me to a bar so he bought me shots and got me very drunk, then since he "owed" me a massage we decided to come to my house, then he started giving me a massage and we ended up making out, then he left me passed out drunk and left.
The next morning I was expecting him not to talk to me after what happened between us but he did, he acted like nothing happened and we decided to meet again at my place to watch a movie after a week. When we met again I tried keeping things normal so I acted as usual around him and he did as well after a while.
Then for 2 weeks straight I asked him to go out on the weekends but he kept declining all of my invitations because he was with his "boys" out. Are Aries men like this? Everytime I invite him he is always with his "boys", maybe men are like that in general but anyways.

Yesterday he invited me to go eat so I met him and we ended up in the park sitting on a bench talking for 3.5 hours straight, he asked me how was my single life doing and this time I decided to tell him all the story about my break up and I told him that I haven't talked to my ex at all because I really don't want to know anything about him ever again but that I was happy to be single since I felt more free.
He didn't say much about it though he only said "I dont think you are gonna want to be single all of your life though you are always surrounded by men" (Which I am because I only have a couple of girl friends).
So I decided to ask him about his "single life" and the only thing he replied was "Well I enjoy it, but sometimes I really feel like getting into a relationship but some other times not". Then when he was dropping me off he randomly started hugging me from the waist and we walked like that for quite some time and when we left he kissed me in the cheek.
I know the story might sound a bit corny, but I cant really describe every detail. But I would like to know your opinion, do you think he is interested in me or he just wants to be friends?.
I really like him, I really don't want him to think he is my rebound guy because he is not, I really don't have any feelings towards my ex anymore, I actually really hate my ex. Maybe I am not emotionally available for him but I am physically lol. So what do you guys think? Should I make a move or wait for him? What do you Aries prefer?
Thank you
heroic_guy
I think he has liked you and given you proper respect as a woman deserves. He even did the amazing thing of assuring you while you seemed down, that things will work out with you and your ex, as that was who you were upset about (yes you didn't want to go back with the ex). Being an Aries can be lonely because you can put your heart out on the line and then feel burned by love, and then have to rely on your ability to do on your own so much that it becomes second nature. We are great at relationships and seems like he has given you many signals that he cares about you and wants to show his interest in great gestures. I like that he really is treating you right and trying to charm you the way you would like.

I say if you are willing to go with the flow and stay open to discussing what ever your needs or wants are, there is a wonderful chance you can be sharing lots of time together.

keep us posted.
CancerianGoddess
I Would wait for him to make the move, Just go with the flow of things. When an Aries man WANTS something, he gets it. Remember that.
Mistery
heroic_guy, you're an Aries? I concur with what he says. Your Aries has shown you a great deal of respect and care. He obviously likes you but is afraid of getting too involved because we've all known people who have problems in their relationship but get back together after a fight. He might know if it's really over. Be sure to let him know you have no intention of going back (only if it's true) and he'll ask you out when he knows you are truly 'free & clear.'

We are innocent and afraid of getting our hearts broken just like anyone even though we can act tough. Sag's & Aries make a great pair, I've had 2 major relationships with Sag's. Be your wonderful Sag self but make sure he knows it's over w/ your ex. Take things slow and enjoy!
ObsessedSaggy
I've learnt not to initiate contact with Aries men. Let them do it and you will stay interesting and you wont get the
with the "boys" answer. Initiating contact once a while is fine otherwise don't.
Once he does you can be nice and flirty. That's what my ex Airies was like donno if the rest are the same.
curious visitor
he wants it to be on his terms. and you chasing after him after your relationship ended badly... not his terms. he wants to sweep you off your feet, not for you to settle for him when you're on the rebound. and whether you genuinely like him or not, you are on the rebound. you aren't looking for a real relationship right now. you're just trying to get your mind off the butterty one that just ended.

give it some time, embrace being single. don't get involved with anyone else.

you need to decide to be independent for a while. you're basking in the freedom of it. you aren't looking to get involved with just anyone. you want something that's just perfect. you want someone who'll treat you like the goddess you are.

all that. you have to believe it. once you believe it, he'll believe it, then he'll be ready to chase you again. and you need to make him chase you. share little bits of affection, but don't give everything up to fast. and i'm not just talking sex. i'm talking your newfound independence too.
heroic_guy
Yes we try and try and try, and never thought about it but yeah its a total creative process, I guess that is why I love being in love.
silentdoll9
Posted by curious visitor
he wants it to be on his terms. and you chasing after him after your relationship ended badly... not his terms. he wants to sweep you off your feet, not for you to settle for him when you're on the rebound. and whether you genuinely like him or not, you are on the rebound. you aren't looking for a real relationship right now. you're just trying to get your mind off the butterty one that just ended.

give it some time, embrace being single. don't get involved with anyone else.

you need to decide to be independent for a while. you're basking in the freedom of it. you aren't looking to get involved with just anyone. you want something that's just perfect. you want someone who'll treat you like the goddess you are.

all that. you have to believe it. once you believe it, he'll believe it, then he'll be ready to chase you again. and you need to make him chase you. share little bits of affection, but don't give everything up to fast. and i'm not just talking sex. i'm talking your newfound independence too.


Thank you for your response, you are completely right!. I am going to be patient then, even though I don't know if I will be able to hold for too long if he doesn't move quickly -_-.
nettiegal
Posted by curious visitor
he wants it to be on his terms. and you chasing after him after your relationship ended badly... not his terms. he wants to sweep you off your feet, not for you to settle for him when you're on the rebound. and whether you genuinely like him or not, you are on the rebound. you aren't looking for a real relationship right now. you're just trying to get your mind off the butterty one that just ended.

give it some time, embrace being single. don't get involved with anyone else.

you need to decide to be independent for a while. you're basking in the freedom of it. you aren't looking to get involved with just anyone. you want something that's just perfect. you want someone who'll treat you like the goddess you are.

all that. you have to believe it. once you believe it, he'll believe it, then he'll be ready to chase you again. and you need to make him chase you. share little bits of affection, but don't give everything up to fast. and i'm not just talking sex. i'm talking your newfound independence too.




Soo true...We Aries love our space as well..we never like to feel smothered or harassed, so if he is out with the boys--he will miss you and le will show you in his own way. Regardless of what type of relationship you end up having...just know that Aries love very hard--friend, child, lover, mother ect--we will stand with you til the end. : )
tall dark and aries
What, are you blind? Yeah, he digs you.
tall dark and aries
Not all Aries guys are the same, but if I'm near a chick and I don't like her, I just shut my trap and wear a bored look on my face, I don't even look at her more than once or twice unless she talks first. It's like "yeah, I know what you look like, big whoop."
Xfactor
You need to make the first move. A real move. Nothing subtle. Trust me.
ReallyNiceAriesPerson
You're in
Archimedes
Sounds to me like you have a true prince. Take your time, go slow, and enjoy the magic
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