Do they give
1)the silent treatment? (to punish/lick his wound/expecting you to do whatever it takes to get them back)
2)Tell you they're angry / hate you & tell you to stop contacting them?
3)or just disappear for good?
Had first argument with bf last saturday (2-3days back).(or was it just MY first argument with him). Happened in the car & at his place before we were about to leave. I was fuming inside, but he was fine & still wanted to hold my hand...but I pulled my hand, I looked at his face & he was surprised+hurt).I was the one who went emo. but I did hurt his feelings with what I'd said.. at his place and in the car. He spoke calmly and got even more calm when I wasn't calm. Then when I interrupted him & didn't let him speak, he just kept quiet & let me speak (wowwwww! hello I was expecting a reaction! but nothing! I'm still learning about him, so this is something new).
I looked at his face when he was driving & he looked hurt(but tried to look fine). When we've reached and I was about to leave, I asked if he was ok.
He answered softly 'yes...I just don't see why you should turn aggressive..that was rude'
me : cos I wanted to be rude
him : why?
me : I looked into his eyes and said "cos I dont care about u"
He looked hurt (arghh I feel so bad now)
Took my bag & quickly got out of the car. He said "thank u". I stopped and said thank u for sending me home..without looking at him. I didn't kiss & hug him (like we usually did, that was the first time I did that). He drove off slowly.
Now before you think Im crazy & a drama queen, I didn't argue for nothing. & I didn't argue like a crazy woman yelling and all. Perhaps raised my voice a little at some point. I was hurt about something & I can't tell you what it is.
So I sms-ed him last night apologizing & explained why I reacted that way(cos he didnt know why I was angry). He's been quiet till now. He always respond to my messages, but since this is the first argument, I don't know how he handles it. I haven't called him (afraid that he'll reject the call - that hurts!) & thinking if I call one day & he rejects it perhaps I should go to his office or home to apologize. Is that a good idea or will that scare him off? should I leave him alone for now?
Aries men, when hurt . ignore you?
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