Aries said I love you

happykitsune
My aries has said "I love you" after 6 weeks. I was very surprised and excited. It seemed nearly too soon for me, though he shows me he does every day. Love that you guys are so straightforward tho Now I don't feel as reserved anymore. So happy
CancerianGoddess
If he said it, than he means it. Whatever you do, dont tell him you think its too soon to say it, he may retreat or start doubting your feelings for him which will make him resent you.
happykitsune
Yeah true. I kept reassuring him it wasn't too soon, and then when I had thought about it for a long while that night I said it too
jdugan
Hahaha --
jdugan
Hahaha -- I love this! Hooray!

Anyone else would deem us freaks!
paries
Posted by jdugan
Hahaha -- I love this! Hooray!

Anyone else would deem us freaks!


I'm an Aries and it would freak me out if someone said "I love you" to me after only 6 weeks.
ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Posted by happykitsune
My aries has said "I love you" after 6 weeks. I was very surprised and excited. It seemed nearly too soon for me, though he shows me he does every day. Love that you guys are so straightforward tho Now I don't feel as reserved anymore. So happy



Oh thanks for that happykitsune. Nice to know that someone appreciates our straightforwardness and the fact we are not pissing around with other peoples feelings - just giving it to you straight up.

Made my day to read that. Warm fuzzies


I have loved 2 people in my life (that's quite a long time) and knew straight away.
Aries may do some daft things but we aren't really as dumb as get credit for. We know stuff.
ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Posted by Layna
lmao, jdugan! Why say that?!



Believe it or not, some people don't want actual love. They prefer a relationship where they are used, don't get enough sex, aren't loved for the person they really are etc etc. Sad but true.
Real love scares them and the idea of a sexy Aries ravishing them for the rest of their lives sends them scurrying.


This has been on my mind for some time......if I had someone love me/adore me/whatever, the same I have adored others (well 2, not like there is a line of them stretching around the block!) I would just be blown away with happiness.
People are strange. I give up.
paries
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Posted by Layna
lmao, jdugan! Why say that?!



Believe it or not, some people don't want actual love. They prefer a relationship where they are used, don't get enough sex, aren't loved for the person they really are etc etc. Sad but true.
Real love scares them and the idea of a sexy Aries ravishing them for the rest of their lives sends them scurrying.


This has been on my mind for some time......if I had someone love me/adore me/whatever, the same I have adored others (well 2, not like there is a line of them stretching around the block!) I would just be blown away with happiness.
People are strange. I give up.


I don't know. I wouldn't think he's a "freak", but I would definitely be leery if someone said they loved me after only 6 weeks because they don't really know me yet. With my current bf, everything was sweet for the first 3 months (the "honeymoon period"). Then both of us started to let our guards down and our true colours began to show (e.g. the darker sides of our personalities, quirks, annoyances, bad hair days etc.)

I definitely had strong feelings, emotions, lust, etc. but to me love is a decision and not a feeling. Loving him would mean that I am willing to take all the bad along with the good. For the first few months I often thought that maybe I loved him, but on the bad days (and there weren't any truly bad days for the first 3 months) I wouldn't be sure. So then I knew that it couldn't be real love yet.

It took me 7 months to realize that I love him - actually love him - warts and all.

Even now after nearly a year together we still keep learning new things about each other.
ReallyNiceAriesPerson
LOL at paries.....the great thing about dealing with we Rams is that you are just as likely to see our 'quirks' first!!

I have lots of Aries friends and they are all very much "what you see is what you get."
Obviously I don't see them from a relationship perspective but I would be surprised to find many Jeckyll and Hyde types among them.
We are generally too busy for all that complicated butter of pretending to be something til we get what we want from you before morphing into something else.

paries
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
LOL at paries.....the great thing about dealing with we Rams is that you are just as likely to see our 'quirks' first!!

I have lots of Aries friends and they are all very much "what you see is what you get."
Obviously I don't see them from a relationship perspective but I would be surprised to find many Jeckyll and Hyde types among them.
We are generally too busy for all that complicated butter of pretending to be something til we get what we want from you before morphing into something else.



As a fellow Aries, I agree that we are "what you see is what you get" in terms of us not playing games or hiding our true selves. However, in the first 6 weeks, what my bf did not know about me yet included things like: how I behave when I'm upset/angry or in a general bad mood, how I interact with my family/his family, how I look first thing in the morning, what I'm like when I'm sick, how I handle stress, how I handle money, what my place looks like when I'm too lazy to clean, certain issues from my past, etc. He didn't know these things not because I was hiding them but because 6 weeks didn't provide enough time for any of these to arise.
applemint_fv
Posted by paries
Posted by jdugan
Hahaha -- I love this! Hooray!

Anyone else would deem us freaks!


I'm an Aries and it would freak me out if someone said "I love you" to me after only 6 weeks.


My Aries bf said "I love u" after 2 months (I think it was earlier I dont remember)
I didn't melt .. that freaked me out! I don't fall in love fast and need much longer to even realize that I'm in love with a man...so it was hard for me to believe that he's in love with me that fast. Till now, I still see if his action matches what he says, because words alone means nothing to me.




Posted by CancerianGoddess
If he said it, than he means it. Whatever you do, dont tell him you think its too soon to say it, he may retreat or start doubting your feelings for him

You're right. and I think this applies to everyone irregardless of the sign. I didn't respond pleasantly and I didn't respond with the "I love u" either because I did not feel it at that time. I hv to feel it deep inside before saying it & mean what I say wholeheartedly. I will not lie just to please you, if I don't feel it I will look into your eyes through your soul and tell you as it is.

I instead asked if it's love or like, maybe he got confused. He said he knows what he wants&likes&love and when he sees it & feels it he knows. I nicely questioned again how can it be so fast? Love doesn't happen so fast! =D

He didn't say anything else & didn't look upset. The following day he "disappeared" & didn't contact me at all until I contacted him first after a week or more. He contacted me every day before that happened so I felt the change when he went quiet. He later honestly told me that he started to question my feelings for him because of what I did when he said he loves me, and that made him pull away.










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