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ScorpSuperior
9/7/2010 2:53:00 AM | IP
ScorpSuperior

female

Sun: Scorpio, house 4

^LOL! You're awesome.
Alucroas
9/5/2010 12:20:11 PM | IP

I have yet to meet a Virgo that wasn't an insecure, hypocritical, closed-minded prick. Every Virgo I've come across has tried to bully me in some capacity or another, which doesn't end well, because they're too stupid to know when to quit, and I usually end up having no choice but, to completely humiliate them, or rip them a new marker. They also love guilt-tripping, calling everything a person does that they don't approve of "rude", (regardless of whether or not it even has anything to do with manners), and have a strong bullying streak, especially toward other Aries, I've noticed.

Even in the Greek myths, Athena was a cookiemonster in disguise, constantly foiling Ares' plans every time she got the chance, never fought fair, and always had to use underminded tactics to beat him, such as throwing a boulder at him, or having the other gods come with, because she was incapable of overpowering or besting him in a fight.

I do agree that Sagittarius doesn't know when to shut their big mouths though, but, I have Sagittarius as my decante, so I can't really get too harsh. I have a couple Sagittarius friends, who I've strangled, and punched in the shoulder/arms hard enough to get the point across. And, sadly, as much as I don't like hurting my friends, it really is one of the only ways to get a Sagittarius to stop talking. You don't have to give them a black eye, or anything, just a good firm punch on the shoulder, or pretend that you're going to hurt them really badly.
AA
9/1/2010 8:40:55 PM | IP

Posted by beachkisses
this question goes out to all aries men and women
how do you deal with anger ? how do you control your temper, if you can that is ? how would you like a loved one to deal with you when you're angry at him/her ?
recently, a loved one got angry with me over something very small, he became really frustrated, completely shut off and didn't want to communicate. the next day he was totally fine, he knew it over nothing but didn't want to admit that , so it's done and over with. in the moment, i just acted calm and left him alone. i'd like to know what's the best way to deal with an aries temper next time, what do you love and prefer ?

someone else probaly alread said this, but a calm and reasonable aproach i would say.
my dad has a terrible temper. very very scary.
so do i at times, but i deal with it internally
curious visitor
9/1/2010 10:12:14 AM | IP

28 years old female from tampa area, florida  usa  

Posted by tall dark and aries
^^^Speaking of which, a particular Virgo friend of mine has the social finesse to know how to not piss me off, despite him being 6'5" weighing ~250 lbs, me only being 5'11" 190-200 lbs. Tried to make himself useful as well, and that's what I like best about Virgs. Cool as hell, when they aren't bugging out about small stuff at least. My Scorpio brother gets annoyed by him rather easily though, which is odd that he does and I don't. I guess it's my Taurus Rising.


i'm a libra. super short fuse. i usually keep a cool exterior, but i can blow up something fierce. then i usually chill out again pretty fast, after i get it out. but my dislike will continue to simmer against a person.

anyways, my first cue that someone might be a virgo is that they just don't piss me off. like they can even do things that would piss me off if somebody else did them, and i just don't care. it's actually a little weird. and the things they do that piss off or annoy other people, i find endearing. snarky comment? oh, you're so cute, virgo. gets all high strung about some ocd neat freak thing? how adorable.

i think it's because they tend to be very sincere and genuine and lacking in bullbutter.
tall dark and aries
8/23/2010 9:32:07 AM | IP
tall dark and aries

27 years old male from The Iron Farm!

I'm a combination of the smart and cleve

Posted by seksi
Posted by zenalchemy
Posted by beachkisses
this question goes out to all aries men and women
how do you deal with anger ? how do you control your temper, if you can that is ? how would you like a loved one to deal with you when you're angry at him/her ?
recently, a loved one got angry with me over something very small, he became really frustrated, completely shut off and didn't want to communicate. the next day he was totally fine, he knew it over nothing but didn't want to admit that , so it's done and over with. in the moment, i just acted calm and left him alone. i'd like to know what's the best way to deal with an aries temper next time, what do you love and prefer ?


You did the best thing. Walk away

walk away? you must be kidding!!! try and yell or shout at me and see where your head will go. i'll through you from the window


Noice. Lol.
tall dark and aries
8/22/2010 2:37:53 PM | IP
tall dark and aries

27 years old male from The Iron Farm!

I'm a combination of the smart and cleve

Posted by ScorpSuperior
Yea, I just be quiet. In the case of my dad, I can't walk away if he's talking/yelling at me- that's disrespectful. So, instead I keep quiet until he's done. I respond by distancing myself for a bit. Then we're back cool again. We get along quite well actually, in comparison to other astro combos. Just can't be around each other for too long at one time. Must do it in intervals.


Aries will work your nerves, but for some reason I still seem to love them to little bitty pieces.


Sounds like me and my brother dead on, except he argues with me more than I him usually, and I'm the one who just shuts up after I state my point, but that's prob. his Sag. Rising.
tall dark and aries
8/22/2010 2:28:19 PM | IP
tall dark and aries

27 years old male from The Iron Farm!

I'm a combination of the smart and cleve

^^^Speaking of which, a particular Virgo friend of mine has the social finesse to know how to not piss me off, despite him being 6'5" weighing ~250 lbs, me only being 5'11" 190-200 lbs. Tried to make himself useful as well, and that's what I like best about Virgs. Cool as hell, when they aren't bugging out about small stuff at least. My Scorpio brother gets annoyed by him rather easily though, which is odd that he does and I don't. I guess it's my Taurus Rising.
ScorpSuperior
8/21/2010 5:55:20 PM | IP
ScorpSuperior

female

Sun: Scorpio, house 4

Yea, I just be quiet. In the case of my dad, I can't walk away if he's talking/yelling at me- that's disrespectful. So, instead I keep quiet until he's done. I respond by distancing myself for a bit. Then we're back cool again. We get along quite well actually, in comparison to other astro combos. Just can't be around each other for too long at one time. Must do it in intervals.


Aries will work your nerves, but for some reason I still seem to love them to little bitty pieces.
zenalchemy
8/21/2010 5:27:00 PM | IP
zenalchemy

Posted by beachkisses
this question goes out to all aries men and women
how do you deal with anger ? how do you control your temper, if you can that is ? how would you like a loved one to deal with you when you're angry at him/her ?
recently, a loved one got angry with me over something very small, he became really frustrated, completely shut off and didn't want to communicate. the next day he was totally fine, he knew it over nothing but didn't want to admit that , so it's done and over with. in the moment, i just acted calm and left him alone. i'd like to know what's the best way to deal with an aries temper next time, what do you love and prefer ?


You did the best thing. Walk away
ScorpSuperior
8/21/2010 12:26:40 PM | IP
ScorpSuperior

female

Sun: Scorpio, house 4

it's no big deal. they only blow up and get mad for like 2 seconds. then it's over and they forget why they were pissed.
Flavia
8/20/2010 6:09:55 PM | IP



A variety of a being called "human"

In doing a solo project I blow off steam; I paint or write. Normally people don't want to talk with you if you can be obviously busy.

If someone makes me angry I have to walk away and talk a few breathes. Sometimes I need a few weeks, months....years, but I do get over things eventually. I don't know why I have held things. I know it is not typical Aries, but I suppose I get back to happy quick, even if I am still thinking about it.
ActionStallion
8/20/2010 3:36:30 AM | IP

I can get frustrated and angry when things get slow, not going my way... I can punch a table to release my frustration and anger, it's just throwing out the bad emotion. Aries has to dispose of an anger, a thought, or anything, never thinking of overloading him/herself with something not important or negative to him.
tall dark and aries
8/19/2010 9:26:43 AM | IP
tall dark and aries

27 years old male from The Iron Farm!

I'm a combination of the smart and cleve

I'm usually polite and will just tell you that you're pissing me off calmly, and that you should stop. If I think that that won't work, I go quiet in hopes that you'll run out of argument with no input from me. And when I go quiet, that means I'm an inch away from upping the ante. I could cause a huge scene and embarrass the hell out of you as the next stage, but usually it means I'm holding back from swinging, and am plotting on you at the same time. Luckily I only got physical once after getting sorta chewed out by a good friend. A couple weeks after the incident I just stood in front of him then clocked him (A Cancer/Leo) in the side of the jaw, hard enough for him to feel it, but not cause any damage or knockout, and it didn't cause us to fight any further. We haven't argued like that since, so it's all good.
pink_bull
8/19/2010 4:05:38 AM | IP
pink_bull

I've never seen an Aries angry for long... they always seem to get over it real quickly and back to their jovial, popular selves.
heroic_guy
8/19/2010 3:54:32 AM | IP
heroic_guy

35 years old

I am an Aries with a lot of Sagittarius

Yeah we are rather chill folk, or at least I feel I am. I tend to take a step back usually. I have a lot of Sagittarius influences which might be why my temper can flare up more than most or not, but regardless yeah I can't see us getting mad often or over nothing at all. I tend to get passionate more than anything, anger I save for something important like people pushing others around etc.

 

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