Dream Girl for Aries Males? and ... :)

6/18/2006 7:48:39 AM | More
DICO

Hello Dear Arians,
I can use a little help here.
Many questions, but Arians are know to be generous after all


1- What is the paragon girl for an arian (physically and mentally)? (feel free to tell me as much as you like, everthing is useful)


2- Are you arians feel intimidated by successful women (better education, more famous, more popular)?


3- Do you mind older women (few years older)?


4- Do you mind assertive women? Do you mind women who make the first move?


5- Please, how do advise a woman to approach an aries man (direct appraoch, subtle, hints, find a go-between, other?)


6- Is it true that once an aries marries his girl, he looks for a new one to chase? he was simply for a girl to do the cooking and the laundry, and now he needs a new passion?


7- There is an Aries who was so passionate but then became so cold. The poor lady suspect two things:

A: The hints she gave were too obvious, and she did not let him chase her, she chased him ainstead

B: When he knew that's she's more educated than him and somehow more popular, that put him off.



Thanks a lot!
6/18/2006 7:52:17 PM | More
mauicountry

male

independent digital content creator base

1. Just keep up with the plan and take care of us.
2. I don't think so. We love independent women that can hold their own, especially at home. Superwoman would take really good care of you. Like a rock. We need a ROCK.
3. Nope. With experience, comes easier living. You MUST be able to keep up with them, though...not bad thing....hehehe.
4. Love it when a woman takes the initiative. Who doesn't. Makes things simpler.
All in all, in the long run, its the woman that chooses. Just hope she hurries up before I have to choose one...hmmm.
5. Subtle yet obvious cuz we won't see it if it even came up and bit us....Must make sure he understands. A wink & a smile is all you need.
6. I guess that depends on the maturity/experience level of the individual. Arians are very loyal partners/friends/family. Very similar traits to that of a "dog".
As far as passion goes, arians are very creative and really picky, sexyness is key, so when they do decide to get hitched, you better believe there will always be over flow in Passion department.
7.wow. tough one. Tell her to keep trying. Its always way easier for women to pick up guys. Its all Natural.

I hope I could help.

Aloha,

Mauicountry
6/25/2006 12:31:56 PM | More
boyfromutrecht

28 years old male

Zodiak: houses:

hahahaha nice questions. I'll try to answer them all as best as possible.

1: i don't know a compatible sign. If i would, i wouldn't sit here. I have been together with a Aquarius girl and a Aries girl. I think i'm searching for a girl who also like being active at things. who thinks challenging things is fun. Has a good sense of humor. and last but not least: Let me be me !( stubborn, give some freedome).

2:No i don't mind if my girlfriend is more famous than me. i'm not quick yealous.
i would just adore her too for her great character

3: i would not mind it. but all the girls i dated were one year younger than me.

4:well to be honest. i really like women to take the first step. this because i'm a little shy when i see pretty women. most of the time i would step to her.

5:i would say the direct approach ( a bit of spontanious would really do the trick ) We Ariens are too busy to pick up hints or flirts. We are also not good at indirect hints.

6: I'm allway's looking for a passion, a goal to live for. i haven't got married so i just have to wait till it's my turn.

7: a: bad thing ! let the aries hunt !!
b: it would put me off a bit too...
6/26/2006 3:26:03 PM | More
tall dark and aries

28 years old male from the rusty planet.

I can be soft spoken, but I carry a big

Speaking personally:

1. Physical: She just has to be nice to look at. Mental: Has to be reasonably intelligent.


2. Nope, not me.


3. I think it'll be awesome to have one.


4. As long as she's not too pushy I'm okay.


5. Be warm, open, and direct.


6. If I were to marry, I'd be commited.


6/29/2006 6:30:36 AM | More
BaBy-GrL414

female from Wisconsin  USA  

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus O

I'm dating an aries.. and this dude has got me completely messed up. I'm a Gemini and i'm used to guys responding to me in certain ways. They always call and actually kinda chase me. Well this is not the case with this aries guy. I really like him.. but it seems 'out of sight out of mind' and that is hard for me to deal with. We are new at this and i don't normally like to rush anything it's its usually me fending folks back some. But because i just really liked this guy right away i can't help but wonder the deal. When i'm around him.. it's all about me. And he says things letting me knowhe likes me and you can just tell he does. Is it normal for aries men to be this reserved when not around someone they are seein? Am i jumping the gun on him? CUz i'm extremely frustrated. He's never said no to getting to gether and is all excited about it. But why the 'out of sight out of mind" treatment??? any help would be so appreciated.
6/29/2006 6:35:44 AM | More
BaBy-GrL414

female from Wisconsin  USA  

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus O

One more thing.. I guess i'm askng.. do aries men like to be chased and expect that? I'll play that game.. ilove games.. lol i don't want to act like i'm obsessing.. regardless of whether i am or not.. so do i keep doin' what i do or let him not hera from me for a while? this not knowing is killing me. BUt this is what gets my attention so for me its good.

7/2/2006 10:58:25 PM | More
coach41

1- What is the paragon girl for an arian (physically and mentally)? (feel free to tell me as much as you like, everthing is useful)

I guess we're supposed to answer for myself. As an Aries (born April 1st), I think that a gal that is active both mentally and physically would be ideal. I tend to run around and just DO active things. Preferably, I have a "partner in crime" to keep up. It's no fun to do things by yourself!! I also love a gal who can chat and we can throw around topics to talk about for hours on end.

As far as physical looks, that's a tough one. I think if the personality is good and the mental chemistry is good, I've realized that if the woman is even reasonable looking, they will grow on me over time.

2- Are you arians feel intimidated by successful women (better education, more famous, more popular)?

When I was younger (in college), there was this good looking co-worker that I developed an interest in. Alas, she was only working as a temp during the summer and she was going to return to her masters program in the East Coast. I was a little intimidated by the fact that she was a college grad (let alone she was a temp and also a co-worker), so nothing ever happened.

These days, a few years older and some more experience under my belt, I can handle a woman being more successful, famous and more popular.


3- Do you mind older women (few years older)?

Heh - See the answer above. The gal was 3 years older than me and it sure would have been good to have some fun with her. I took the "high" road instead. One of those things I wish I could "take back" and re-do.


4- Do you mind assertive women? Do you mind women who make the first move?

Nope. Men don't always have to make the first move. I'm sure Aries have a rep for being aggressive. I'm probably not one of those super aggressive ones.


5- Please, how do advise a woman to approach an aries man (direct appraoch, subtle, hints, find a go-between, other?)

In the past, the subtle approach would have went over my head. These days, direct or subtle, I read them pretty well. I'd say either way works for me.


6- Is it true that once an aries marries his girl, he looks for a new one to chase? he was simply for a girl to do the cooking and the laundry, and now he needs a new passion?

EH - NOT MARRIED.
7/7/2006 7:46:43 PM | More
undergrad

Dream girl for aries is a LEO GIRL!! Most aries men are attracted by leo girls!!
8/19/2006 11:25:20 AM | More
aries2006

this is so true...I had good experience with leo girl....they are so nig henergy and seem more loyal and devoted than sag. the only thing is the aries guy have to be sweet to leo all the time, leo easily take what aries said as something seriously so aries can offend leo sometimes when we didn't even realize it
8/19/2006 11:28:31 AM | More
aries2006

forget it aries and gemini are not compatible....the one i'm with flirts with evry guy...can't sit for a sec...double personality ...not longterm partner
11/22/2006 8:31:04 AM | More
aquarichick

41 years old male

TA_DAAAA! Couldn't tell ya much here....

I have had an absolutely fabulous/nerve-wracking/surprising experience with this whole Aries guy thing. In the beginning I figured it would be a quick relationship, slightly flakey... just a casual "thing" with someone who would eventually make an amazingly good freind. Then when I wanted to move on to find something with a little more context and depth I couldn't for the LIFE of me get rid of that Aries! Some of his tactics in this arena have been incredibly ingeneous... He even had his mom come over to tell me what a great guy he is and that I would be happy with him if only I'd give him a chance at the long-term... I had never met the woman before (LMAO!!!there's some balls, huh? Love it!). I absoluteley adore him now... nothing in the universe I wouldn't do for him (as long as it didn't compromise my principles... or his). Haven't been this infatuated since high-school! Best thing is... I'm never bored with him and he can keep up with me no matter what it is I'm doing at the moment(which is an oddity in itself!)

The point is... I think if Aries really REALLY wants something or someone (and KNOWS that he wants it or them) there will be no two ways about it (impressive characteristic)... they will get it and there will be NO ROOM TO WONDER about their intent. NONE.


11/22/2006 8:53:14 AM | More
aquarichick

41 years old male

TA_DAAAA! Couldn't tell ya much here....

1- What is the paragon girl for an arian (physically and mentally)? (feel free to tell me as much as you like, everthing is useful)

I asked the Aries that I'm seeing what his ideal girl is and he said " Big boobs, smokin' body, perfect smile, always horney, and gone in a week." He'd also prefer it if he didn't have to pay for her. LOL!!!! Then he said he didn't really want that chick till he was 80 cause it would be better for his ego right about then.

2- Are you arians feel intimidated by successful women (better education, more famous, more popular)?

I have 3 degrees and am a professional. Aries is a roofer/drywall contractor. Together we are just people. Aries has an uncanny ability to cut through the bllb*tter and get to the essentials. Love it? you bet!

3- Do you mind older women (few years older)?

I'm a little older than Aries... but look younger (he he he). When he first approached me that was one of his first questions... he didn't want to deal with immaturity. I'm sure that's because he wants to be the only immature one !

4- Do you mind assertive women? Do you mind women who make the first move?

I think it's hard to over-do with an Aries (with class). I've tried (actually attacked him in a dark alley... but I was wearing a tight red dress) and we ended up in bed for three days.

5- Please, how do advise a woman to approach an aries man (direct appraoch, subtle, hints, find a go-between, other?)

Um... tight red dress and a dark alley?

6- Is it true that once an aries marries his girl, he looks for a new one to chase? he was simply for a girl to do the cooking and the laundry, and now he needs a new passion?

LOL!!! If you choose to do the laundry and the dishes all the time, wait and see what you end up with.

7- There is an Aries who was so passionate but then became so cold. The poor lady suspect two things:

A: The hints she gave were too obvious, and she did not let him chase her, she chased him ainstead

A cold Aries? good grief... never heard of such a thing...
more like he's avoiding you or trying to piss you off to get a reaction. Perhaps he's trying to see if you can stand up for yourself? Don't be a wimp... beeeeee yourself! let the cards falls where they may. Stop giving a damn for a while and just live your life the way you want to.

B: When he knew that's she's more educated than him and somehow more popular, that put him off.
Doubt it... unless he's young and still a little insecure with adu
11/22/2006 9:24:07 AM | More
sunaina

female

as crazy as it is leo's are attracted to aries even though they can fight like crazy

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