How do I get my Aries woman back. Please help!

jackinator2013
She is the exact general description of an Aries female... driven career women, wants to be in control etc. Descriptions describe her to a T.

So I was unsure of her and distant for months in the beginning of relationship. During that time she was all over me and wanting me. She cried and let me know about it. So the last few months I have been more attentive and loving with her. Then at the peek of my attention calling her my girlfriend she dumps me the next day saying shes confused doesnt want relationship right now etc. She obviously got scared and I know there is no other guy at least not yet!

I tried a non confrontational email telling her I would work on things and my mistakes. Nothing... A week later I sent casual texts and she responded a few times but then stopped. So today I called her and left message...no call back and I dont think i am going to get one. It was several hours ago.

I know they say u cant chase an aries but i dont want to sit back and lose her to another guy. Please help

I never believed much in astrology until I read hers. It's dead on

I will be two weeks on Tuesday since the wonderful dumping session

What can I do to win her back?

jackinator2013
I am an Aquarius male
ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Posted by jackinator2013
I am an Aquarius male



I knew I smelt a rat
jackinator2013
I think hers is April 13th mine isJan 28th
jackinator2013
she told me she loved me a few times also. I said nothing back the first time. The other two times I said ...u too
jackinator2013
her 1974 me 1978
jackinator2013
I was caught off guard with the I love you stuff and she was also drunk when she said it each time so I didnt know how to react really.
jackinator2013
Ok do u have any more details than that? Like why she got scared? And should I stopp all contact to her forver unless she contacts me? Should I try to make her jealous? Anything I can do??
ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Posted by jackinator2013
I was caught off guard with the I love you stuff and she was also drunk when she said it each time so I didnt know how to react really.


Obviously I don't know your GF and the levels of drunkeness in your/her world, but I never forget anything I say drunk and I always stick by it. Drunk or not - your word is your bond.
jackinator2013
Bluemoon yes she was cheated on by last long term bf so maybe she got scared when I became closer. I did see her on an online dating site today so she is looking for a fling maybe. That's what I don't want to happen. I wish there was a way to explain that I won't hurt her but without being able to talk I don't see how. I think she was falling for me and I was too slow to recipricate and she started thinkin and worrying about getting hurt. Yes I think her drunk I love u's were still valid and she just had the courage to say them when drunk.
jackinator2013
All I meant by mistakes was how I had been distant with her for first four months and it hurt her. I said I was sorry for it. It was weird cause we never really discussed what we were like if we were bf gf etc. She used to text me she wished I was holding her in bed right now she misses me etc all the time.
jackinator2013
I just am mad at myself. I had this great woman loving and wanting me and I held back my heart from her at the time she wanted it most.
jackinator2013
But is it wrong to message her everything I feel now? So she can think about it. When she dumped me I did tell her I am falling in love with her so she does know I love her at least.
jackinator2013
Its gonna be tough but ok. Man did I blow this one. As an aquarius I don't warm up to women so fast then once I do sometimes they are already falling out of love cause I didn't give it.
jackinator2013
So what if I start moving one? What if she sees that I am dating again? Will this screw things up? And I wouldn't be doing it to make her jealous I would just be doing it because I don't want to sit around waiting for her to come around when she may never come around.
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