any advice to move on away from him?

7/23/2012 1:16:58 PM | IP
Love366

34 years old

Posted by ironlungs
how i found out? well, lets just say my so called "best friend" was not so good at hiding things at all! she told me that she felt "sorry" what she did to him behind my back. But im feeling better though...


I am happy you're feeling better So did you accept her apology or did you tell her to kiss your ass?
7/22/2012 7:51:12 AM | IP
everevolvingepithet

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7/22/2012 1:51:04 AM | IP
ironlungs

how i found out? well, lets just say my so called "best friend" was not so good at hiding things at all! she told me that she felt "sorry" what she did to him behind my back. But im feeling better though...
7/18/2012 1:52:33 PM | IP
Love366

34 years old

Posted by ironlungs
i guess first he was just a stranger... then a best friend... then a lover... next thing you know hes just the ex boyfriend. He cheated on me with my best friend!(gemini) all those memories that race through my head is stuck with me. and now they are all ruined cause everything that happened! im just soooo... idk i dont want to sound all dramatic. im not the type to confess all my feelings online! im just some typical virgo girl trying to find a way to move on. god, somebody help me! T_T


How did you find out he was cheating on you and with your bestfriend?
7/18/2012 8:13:36 AM | IP
Layna

female

Even After All this time The

Aww... As a Virgo (with Scorp Moon), I can relate. Best way I can tell you to move on is to accept everything as they are, and spin them in a positive light. I generally go with the "Thank you" route. Just say in your head:

"Thank you for showing me you're not worth my trust or time."

"Thank you for showing me Gemini isn't, either."

"Thank you as now I am 1 step closer to my perfect guy."

"Thank you for the experience, as now I am stronger."

etc.

Same goes for the memories... "Thank you for the memories, as they did make me happy."




... "But, still, treetrunk you."

And then move on with your life. Karma will do the rest.
7/18/2012 5:51:15 AM | IP
ReallyNiceAriesPerson



thrill seeking dare devil who loves to l

oooooh, tricky...a tough one.




ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME????? He cheated. Helllooooooooooooooooooooo. He cheated. You want that in your life????
Some retard who can't keep it in his pants for half an hour til you get there??


You're a virgo. Get organised. Gather any stuff he may have left lying around your house, assemble into a neat pile in your backyard and recite the words "this guy is a cheater" 100,000 times as you set fire to it.


Oh yeah, your now "ex" best friend is out the gate too.
Delete them both from your life. Block/unfriend - whatever you young kids do these days. Get yourself an STD check (who knows where else he has been) and rock on. You've just removed 2 good for nothing scumbags out of your life with one shag. Success!


Next.
7/18/2012 5:28:01 AM | IP
ironlungs

i guess first he was just a stranger... then a best friend... then a lover... next thing you know hes just the ex boyfriend. He cheated on me with my best friend!(gemini) all those memories that race through my head is stuck with me. and now they are all ruined cause everything that happened! im just soooo... idk i dont want to sound all dramatic. im not the type to confess all my feelings online! im just some typical virgo girl trying to find a way to move on. god, somebody help me! T_T