aries, are we jealous or possessive?

35 years old female from usa •
"Be happy, or at least give it a shot."
Some times I feel like I'm being too jealous, but sometimes I think it stems from being possessiveness. For example, I don't like to see the guy I like flirt with another girl, but at times, it's more like. Hey, listen girl! He's mine!
35 years old female from usa •
"Be happy, or at least give it a shot."
Don't you think that we're a little hipocritical, cause we can display our jealousy, but then when our boy/girlfriends get jealous it's flippin' annoying.
female •
"Ha, I was just joking. Do anything to get me name of the front page."
Aries men are cavemen. Not that there is anything wrong with a caveman. Cavemen are jealous and possessive in the old fashion way.
female •
i was engaged to an aries guy for almost a year and we dated during high school and five years later (on/off dating, and we both dated other people), we got engaged. he didn't seem jealous when we were together, but whenever we broke up and i began to date other guys, he would come around, try to date me, buy me things, really wine and dine me. because i still had a soft spot for him -- he made me laugh (it's hard to resist a guy who makes you laugh!). anyways, i don't know if it was the jealousy or possessiveness that made him always try to get me back, but it never failed that he would try. no, we didn't get married because i realized i wasn't "in love" with him.
57 years old female •
Just
Aprilbaby has it right. She's not jealous because she's secure in her womanhood, secure in her ability to be the female for her man. If a person is jealous, in any sign, it's because they feel inferiour within themselves, like they believe they aren't good enough, or capable of providing him with the woman he needs.

Possessive, now that's another story. Aries are to the extreme. What is theirs, is theirs - make no mistake. But, that's not necessarily a bad thing. The other extreme is probably worse. I suppose possessiveness is an insecurity as well, the fear of losing something. And, we all know, the Ram does NOT like to lose, lol
female •
"""Follow Your Bliss"" ~Joseph Campbell When you find someone without a si
I too agree 100% with AB! Possessive? Nah...I believe that nothing is really mine as it can be gone in a sec. So...if something leaves my life I look at it as it is meant to be, if it returns and I want it back then...cool! I do not fear losing anything.

I also believe that as with any sign, as we grow we change - some of these behavours are dependant upon the age of a person.

Ram-Ram-Goat-Fire Rooster
female •
"""Follow Your Bliss"" ~Joseph Campbell When you find someone without a si
*behaviors

Recent Topics

...or absolutely disliking. Men and women please.
The sag I've been hanging out with is very clear about not believing in monogamy, I think he's been disappointed before. We kiss and cuddle, he seems to feel weird the morning after and at school because I don't do PDA unless I'm in a relationship. He
Guess Also admiring another user alot for his factual posts! Guess
To quit a job you just started? :/ I've been there 2 weeks, in training. It's a great company, but I can tell already tell the position is not a good fit for me. And I got another job offer for something more in my wheelhouse. Should I tell Company
http://i.imgur.com/hnkASBZh.jpg No nasty ass Wonder bread allowed.
there is this scorpio that i know he likes me.because of all the signs he gives off.(the staring,the heavy touching...).but he doesnt talk much to me except if there is a third person,so he talks to me through that person but he keep it casual,but when i
I think about sex 24/7. I crave it ALL the time.. he told me the amount of sexual energy I hold requires tons of energy and consumption of food on his part to keep up with. There are times when we go to bed and I'm ready to go again after just doing it an
Taurus friend venting again.. But this time it's different. And I don't want her to take my advice the wrong way. She has a Virgo boyfriend, been together for about 8 months.. Up and down from telling everyone they know they want to get married, to
And how u act when u get comfortable. Leo and I used to be or want to be the center stage but these days I'm a humble jackass. What's yours
...punishment if police caught you having sex In a car?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n5adHJhGC5k The guy walks from behind his vehicle all the way to the driver side. As soon as he placed his hands on the window, one officer shot him, and another tazed him. From the officiers' point of view, they can'
So, I've been dating my Capricorn for almost a year. We get along great together and always have fun. I can't get him to commit. He says he doesn't want anyone else but says he doesn't want a commitment. I feel like we are committed but he just won't make
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2016/09/21/pickup-artists-on-trial-for-rape-ring.html It's a freaking long article, but I'm going to copy/paste snippets. Overall gist is that these PUA treetrunks got 8 years in prison for raping a drunk chick. Hopeful