aries, are we jealous or possessive?

6/9/2006 7:40:10 PM | More
arieswoman

33 years old female from usa  

Be happy, or at least give it a shot.

Some times I feel like I'm being too jealous, but sometimes I think it stems from being possessiveness. For example, I don't like to see the guy I like flirt with another girl, but at times, it's more like. Hey, listen girl! He's mine!
6/9/2006 9:59:23 PM | More
arieswoman

33 years old female from usa  

Be happy, or at least give it a shot.

Don't you think that we're a little hipocritical, cause we can display our jealousy, but then when our boy/girlfriends get jealous it's flippin' annoying.
6/10/2006 5:47:29 AM | More
Virgo101

female

Ha, I was just joking. Do anything to ge

Aries men are cavemen. Not that there is anything wrong with a caveman. Cavemen are jealous and possessive in the old fashion way.
6/11/2006 7:14:01 PM | More
pathfinder

female

i was engaged to an aries guy for almost a year and we dated during high school and five years later (on/off dating, and we both dated other people), we got engaged. he didn't seem jealous when we were together, but whenever we broke up and i began to date other guys, he would come around, try to date me, buy me things, really wine and dine me. because i still had a soft spot for him -- he made me laugh (it's hard to resist a guy who makes you laugh!). anyways, i don't know if it was the jealousy or possessiveness that made him always try to get me back, but it never failed that he would try. no, we didn't get married because i realized i wasn't "in love" with him.
6/12/2006 11:33:32 AM | More
P-Angel

55 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

Aprilbaby has it right. She's not jealous because she's secure in her womanhood, secure in her ability to be the female for her man. If a person is jealous, in any sign, it's because they feel inferiour within themselves, like they believe they aren't good enough, or capable of providing him with the woman he needs.

Possessive, now that's another story. Aries are to the extreme. What is theirs, is theirs - make no mistake. But, that's not necessarily a bad thing. The other extreme is probably worse. I suppose possessiveness is an insecurity as well, the fear of losing something. And, we all know, the Ram does NOT like to lose, lol
6/12/2006 3:57:19 PM | More
Freebird

female

"Follow Your Bliss" ~Joseph Campbell

I too agree 100% with AB! Possessive? Nah...I believe that nothing is really mine as it can be gone in a sec. So...if something leaves my life I look at it as it is meant to be, if it returns and I want it back then...cool! I do not fear losing anything.

I also believe that as with any sign, as we grow we change - some of these behavours are dependant upon the age of a person.

Ram-Ram-Goat-Fire Rooster

6/12/2006 3:59:04 PM | More
Freebird

female

"Follow Your Bliss" ~Joseph Campbell

*behaviors
6/13/2006 6:19:30 PM | More
AriesLovesVirgo

female

Female Aries Confident Me

Im actually not that jealous. I used to be when I was way younger but as I got older I haven't felt jealousy.

I feel possesive like. If you are with me, then your mine and I wont tollerate you trying to make me jelous by hitting on other girls.

that's how I feel.

If your with me, then you dont go without me. If were together, its you and I not you I and whatever you want to look at.

I dont mind porn, other girls, pics etc. I dont get jealous over that stuff...honestly..its harmless..its not in his REAL LIFE..he just looks...that kind of thing..I tollerate..

and sometimes it's nice to know another attractive girl likes the guy im with..

I like knowing others want the person Im with.

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