Aries like playing games?

NGG22
Do Aries test you, or straight up play games to see how you react? To talk steady for 6 days, regaling stories of our respective days, laughing, joking, getting to know each other, good morning, good night, brb etc... then NOTHING. I'm not the kind of person to poke around, see what's going on, if you're gone, you're gone... but everything that led up to this silence is what has me confused. Maybe I'll hear something maybe I won't... just curious if this is typical. To me this reeks of an EX coming back on the scene... it's happened to me before.
Taurusgirl3
I don't think they do. They are to straight forward and in the moment with their feelings for games. What they present to you is what it is. If they did try to be game players I'd imagine they'd do very poorly at it.

At the moment you are out of his thoughts. He's either moved on to someone else, busy with work, or something bad has happened.
NGG22
I thought so Taurusgirl... thank you. We've been talking #nofilter since the get go, so it would have been very strange if this was a tactic or something. I'm just wondering if I should reach out and see what's up... or just wait it out... it's been smooth sailing in terms of reciprocal communication up until now... but he's an Aires.. if he didn't want to bother with me anymore, would he tell me, or just hope I go away without incident? LOL
ScorpioFish
@ OP,

I know what you are going through.

I have been friends with an Aries girl for the past month or so, and it started to turn into something more.

This past weekend, she basically responded to my charm and gentleman ways by attacking me at her place. She practically raped me several times with multiple, powerful and overwhelming orgasms for each of us. Very, very explosive and fiery passion in that girl. I basically had to spend Sunday taking naps to get myself back together, haha.

Lately, she has been shy to communicate with me and mentioned something about "needing some time to get her life in order."

I suppose I may or may not hear back from her, but I am giving her the space she wants.

Wonder if I should call her in a week or something.

Hmm, any Aries girls out there who can help me out?

ScorpioFish
She is an April 12th Aries, BTW.
RaeofSun
In my experience, they do. I have an Aries friend who would tell me he was testing me or behaving a certain way to get a reaction.
tiziani
Not so much IMO. They play the jealousy game a lot but that's about it.

Thing is time spent with an Aries in person is a different league to time spent texting, calling, email etc.


No point tallying up or keeping score beyond what's said in person, to me, with an Aries.
Onephatkittykatt
Posted by NGG22
Do Aries test you, or straight up play games to see how you react? To talk steady for 6 days, regaling stories of our respective days, laughing, joking, getting to know each other, good morning, good night, brb etc... then NOTHING. I'm not the kind of person to poke around, see what's going on, if you're gone, you're gone... but everything that led up to this silence is what has me confused. Maybe I'll hear something maybe I won't... just curious if this is typical. To me this reeks of an EX coming back on the scene... it's happened to me before.


I am a gemini with aries venus and mars. It is not only the sun sign that you look at for how a person behaves when interested or in a relationship. Because I do have the aries in a sign of relationships, I display the same characteristics. I am typically very direct. My Gemini Sun may try to get in on the games but it doesn't last long. I like the thrill of the chase and I like very strong men who are not clingy. Do you know what any of the other planets in her chart are?


NGG22
@ Onephatkittykat

Aries Sun
Moon in Leo
Venus in Taurus
Leo rising

Just for a but more background... I did send a text yesterday just to see how the weekend was, and it didn't go through, as if the phone was dead or turned off. Anyway...I just find it really strange that we were back and forth steady for 6 days straight, and then POOF.. gone.

Thanks again.
starlover
Of course they do! All children like to play games

deivaleonne
I have a feeling it's just the way they do things.

Last Aries did the same exact thing. Doesn't feel like mind games, I already confronted him about it and it was made obvious it's definitely not mind games. They're very independent. And yeah, a little selfish. Maybe not a little. They're looking out for #1! Can you blame them? I decided to keep moving though. Too little in too long of time. This new Aries is different, extremely direct. Don't think he'd know a mind game if it bit him.
kissmygrits
I've accepted the guy I was seeing lost interest. So I've moved on. It's hard to compete with a car to build back up from nothing anyway. Sucks but that's life.
deivaleonne
Posted by kissmygrits
I've accepted the guy I was seeing lost interest. So I've moved on. It's hard to compete with a car to build back up from nothing anyway. Sucks but that's life.


Agh I'm sorry to hear. We sounded like we were in a similar boat. Similar turn out too! C'est la vie. Good you're moving on.
Caplove
Posted by NGG22
Do Aries test you, or straight up play games to see how you react? To talk steady for 6 days, regaling stories of our respective days, laughing, joking, getting to know each other, good morning, good night, brb etc... then NOTHING. I'm not the kind of person to poke around, see what's going on, if you're gone, you're gone... but everything that led up to this silence is what has me confused. Maybe I'll hear something maybe I won't... just curious if this is typical. To me this reeks of an EX coming back on the scene... it's happened to me before.


I wonder? The one I'm seeing is really direct, when he has an issue he says so. Very loving, sweet, passionate and SUPER expressive about how he feels which I really LOVE. This, for me, is TOTALLY new and unheard of. I give it right back to him because I can't help but respond to how honest and sweet he is.

He hasn't really played any games (as of yet) but maybe he's past that? I guess, we'll see!

It's kind of odd though, has he sent you any messages? You could shoot him a message to say hi and ask how he's been and if he doesn't respond then you know.

ScorpioFish
Posted by starlover
Of course they do! All children like to play games



Yeah, but one can reel them back in.

I am doing just that now.
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