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|I have been physically involved around with an aries man for the last 2.5 years. I recently found out he has been engaged for 2 years of that time and also has two kids with this woman. He isn't aware I know and I want to do or say something but not sure what the best way to approach the situation is. I don't want him to be manipulative and throw things back in my face and I don't want to be brushed aside because he doesn't care that I know about his lying and cheating ways. What is the best way to confront and/or get revenge on an aries man? I want to put this man in his place the best possible way I can.|
|I would just wait in the backseat of his car and garotte him with piano wire but if you are after something a bit more imaginative try PM'ing ellesque and VB who are always full of great ideas.|
|I'm not an Aries, but in the past I had a similar experience with a Sagittarius guy; and to a lesser extent as he wasn't married nor a father to any children and we'd only been seeing each other for a month or so. During this period he made a considerable effort to go steady and involve me in his life. |
Fortunately, before I agreed to anything of the sort I found out he had a sugar mama of sorts, who he denied being involved in any sort of exclusive relationship with--yet essentially he continuously led her on to reap the obvious financial benefits she provided as courtesy for sleeping with her.
Honestly, the way I dealt with it was cutting the cord and entirely ignoring him from then forward. And I never looked back. After 2 years I know it may not be as easy as it was in my short-lived case, but in retrospect you'll thank yourself for saying good riddance to bad rubbish.
Posted by sugaries
I did that once - didn't give her ALL the gory details but enough dates and places so she knew I wasn't making it up.
Long story short, he makes enough money so she doesn't have to work so she stays and just keeps threatening him...
"..if you ever do that again...."
I thought she'd be angrier (scorp) than me!!!
|I would either:|
a) just pick up and disappear,he'll never know what hit him
b) Become friends with his fiance and one day when you guys are out ask him to meet you
c) Just tell her everything then disappear OR tell her everything then wait and see if he says anything to you
d) Kill him (mind you, some regret may follow due to the fact he has children :p)
Personally I would probably do either a/b and emotionally detach/distance myself beforehand. OR LOL I don't know why I find this hilarious; you could always tell him you have a confession to make then show him a picture of a random man and 2 kids and tell him you have to leave for good
Posted by ariesbabie
Love the last idea, he wil be so freaking mindtreetrunked or choice A. He donest deserve to be let down that easy
Posted by ariesbabie
Love the last one!! then after you tell him dont ever talk to him again.. so he doesnt find out its not true.. it would be interesting to know his reaction.. would he come clean and confess? anyway let us know what you decide to do and his reaction! good luck!
|Apparently men leading double lives is more common than we think! Don't know about you girls but I swallowed the 'true love' disillusion long ago. I would rather know if there is another woman because then at least I'm not being made a fool of. I think that's why I would be better off as a mistress. At least then I know there's someone else and I know what's happening... Unlike the poor woman sitting at home and cooking, cleaning and popping out kids for a lying bastard! I also say... Better the devil you know than the devil you don't know. You are this one's piece of ass he hides from his fiancé. It's another woman. The next one could be a violent psycho! |
Personally, I would toy with him for a while and act like I didn't know and perhaps try and see how he reacts, figure out when he's lying... And try and get the upper hand. Try and get him by the balls basically!
But I'm weird when it comes to relationships... I would probably also start my own affair! Not the most mature solution, but what's good for one must be good for the other!
Posted by saggie1123
He lives with this chick?
|haha you guys are awesome. thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it. I'm not a revengeful person at all so I've been having a difficult time figuring this one out. And yes, love366, he lives with this woman. He slept with me two weeks before they had their second child. Biggest scum on this earth! Makes me sick to my stomach that people like him exist in this world.|
Posted by saggie1123
It's not "revenge" it is assisting him to see the error of his ways and ensure he does not become a repeat offender.
As fire signs our job is to ensure all crap is cut out and everyone can get on with their lives.
|"As fire signs our job is to ensure all crap is cut out and everyone can get on with their lives."|
Posted by saggie1123
A) take out a hit
B) mysteriously disappear from his life
C) keep screwing him and ignore the fact he is pond scum
D) keep screwing him and somehow back him into a corner so he gets caught (any scorp influences in your chart may assist)
E) ring his wife and let her know he is pond scum
**If it were my husband screwing around I would definitely want the information.
I understand people have differing opinions on this - some prefer not to know, others prefer to pretend it's not happening, to each their own.
If it was your husband screwing one of us what would you want us to do?
Put yourself in her shoes and look at the situation.
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPersonPosted by saggie1123
I meant this in a good way......... imagine you were her and how crap you would feel if your husband was doing this to you.
I think she deserves to know the truth. What she does with the information is up to her.
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