is it dangerous to stalk an aries?
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|is it risky? are they gonna snap at me eventually...? |
even the ones that are usually soft spoken and shy...? do they get mad too? sorry for the weird question but i just wanna know.
i'm kinda stalking this guy online ( i am not proud of it). i've been creeping his facebook/myspace page non-stop and i've even created a fake email account and started sending random, light-hearted emails to him just to see how he would react. i'm doing this because when we talk, i can tell that he's holding back and i wanna know the real him and i thought that maybe he would be more open with a stranger.
but it didnt work. he's still displaying the same mannerisms toward this other girl that i'm pretending to be. i'm gonna delete that fake email account because i don't wanna keep fooling him anymore. i feel like crap for having done something like this but the fact that he is holding back is killing me.
i don't know if facebook and myspace have those features that let users track visitors to their page but i'm really scared that he's gonna find out that i've been stalking him. but i feel like if i stop creeping his profiles, i'll lose touch with him. we live in different countries so this is the only way i can sorta see what he's doing and how he's feeling (besides of course texting him which i do all the time).
|oh by the way we're not dating or anything. i just have a crush on him.|
Posted by westside
|I'll tell you one thing, he'll DEFINATELY be pissed when he finds out that you're playing games with him. Be straight with him or not at all... |
he'll be pleasantly surprised to find out it was you. It's all in how you approach the ram. I'd drop hints at what you're doing if I were you because he's going to find out eventually. Fire illuminates and allows one to see after all.
|Facebook and Myspace do not have those features that lets you keep track of the people who visit your page as far as I'm aware of....so you do not need to worry about that part.|
But yes, please delete that false email account. It is not a crime to visit someone's public profile over and over again but creating a false identity in order to fool someone is a bit shady.
If he does find out though, all you need to do is offer him a sincere apology saying that you're sorry and that you will never repeat the same act again. Aries are generally not the type to keep a record of other people's past mistakes in a notebook somewhere and use it whenever it is convenient for them. Aries can be surprisingly forgiving and symathetic if you are willing to be honest with them.
|An Aries is 10x smarter instinctually than a libra, so he'll probably catch wind of it if he hasn't already, quicker than you think.|
|thanks everyone. i totally deleted that fake email account. i'm so ashamed of myself right now i can't even put it into words. this is so out of character for me. i never even cared about guys before i met him. i was happy all by myself and now i'm overcome with this feeling that i wanna be number one in his heart. (i'm venus in leo so gotta be number one i guess). |
he still responds to my text messages. i haven't once been ignored yet so maybe he doesn't think i'm a total weirdo...?
he once rescued me from a terrifying situation i was in and now i'm emotionally attached to him. does this sorta thing happen to girls a lot...?
but more than that, his aura is just so warm and reassuring and it's like, what girl wouldn't wanna be near a guy like that?
sometimes i say to myself just forget about him and fall in love with a guy in your current country (i'm an american girl living in europe due to my dad's work) and this guy in question lives in canada but it's not that easy...
but hey, i'm done with the whole stalking thing at least.
|I don't really think it's necessary for you to beat yourself up this much. |
I do not know your entire story but I think it is quite normal for a woman to develop romantic feelings for a man who has gone out of his way to help her in her time of need. You believed he was your knight in shining armor and that's quite understandable.
It breaks my heart to read the things you are going through right now...
Do you know if he likes you back...? How does he usually act towards you?
Posted by MelanieG
this happens to me alot. if a guy has seen me vulnerable, or is protective of me, i get very emotionally attached to him. maybe it's dependency, same sort of thing?
and i hear you on the warm and reassuring aura thing too...it's rare and so addictive. i hope the situation you were in has got better
Posted by bluemoon9043834
Posted by nimbuePosted by bluemoon9043834
Well 1. I'm sure MOST guys (not just Aries) wouldn't appreciate you stalking them whether they know it or not
2. There's no victory in knowing that you had to pressure/force someone into opening up to you vs. them naturally wanting to do so.
Ok, let's say this guy does open up completely to your fake profile & not you, then what? He'll be opening up to the person you're pretending to be Vs. who you really are, so there'd be no victory in that
3. If you have to stalk people just to get them to talk to you, you probably shouldn't be dating anyone at all!
4. He's probably NOT that into you. If he was, he'd be making an effort to open up to you slowly but surely. And if YOU were truly into him for the right reasons you wouldn't be so selfish, self-righteous & impatient & you'd allow him to give you what you want at HIS comfort level, not yours
5. Try actually communicating your feelings/questions to him instead of going about things in a dishonest & loco way. Atleast give him the opportunity to hear your concerns & allow him to use his RIGHT to either do what you want or not.
If you don't give him that right, he's gonna pick up on the fact that you won't & this will turn him off. And since you guys are already long distance, it's even easier for someone to pack up & walk away the second they sense that something is off, simply b/c they could just as easily be dating someone just as wonderful that lives closer to them.
|Well... I'm and aries. I can tell you one thing. He might be upset that your messing with him, but on the up side I would think he'd find you doing this message thing kind of cute. It is alittle weird, but as an aries... weird is usually ok for us since were so independent and out of the norm. All I can tell you is that you should stop messaging him, look him straight in the face and just tell him you like him. Aries like independent and confident woman. Plus you never know... he might just like you. So never fear when it comes to telling people you like them or maybe even love them. Just take a leap of faith...|
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