Cancer man wants me when I don't want him

dragoneyes
So I told my Cancer FWB that it is over, and he starts getting al weird, sending me messgaes, which I ignored, then he called me asking me if I'm ignoring him, and If there are someone else (He thinks I have something with another guy at work), but we are just friends.I told him that this type of relationship is pointless, and I cant do this for the rest of my life, 2 years is more than enough.He was under the impression that he is also seeing another girl, but I may have been mistaken. But that is not the point, I do feel used everytime, and I get my feelings hurt ect.
I'm just curious on why he will be acting like this, being clingy, jealous, wanting to chat to me the whole day? Cancer man still confuse me after 2 years.
dragoneyes
Sorry "I" was under the impression that he was also seeing someone else.
BigGirlPanties
Ask him. Straight out.
shellshocker
you do so want him... you just don't want a FWB situation anymore.

he's clinging and acting jealous because you're threatening to cut off his 'cake'.

what else do you expect him to do... say, "ok, it's been nice, see you and good luck in the future?"...

now that would be a whole different post...

but i'm sure his clinging will convince you that there is hope for something more, and you will take him back and continue to hope, and when it doesn't you'll get all pissed off again and come back and post about how you've had enough...
cancerlovestaurus
Keep ignoring him and find someone else and he will try to get you back. It won't mean he will want you. he will just get confused for a minute. then when he has you back remember, he'll how he originally felt and may not really want you again. Cancers react to feelings. He probably misses the spot you filled in his life and now feels weird. He may feel like he wants you back in that spot and then when he has you back, feel as if he does not want you again. The emotional roller coaster of a cancer is crazy. I put people on it more times than i wish to admitt. I would keep it moving. Leave.
cancerlovestaurus
Keep ignoring him and find someone else and he will try to get you back. It won't mean he will want you. he will just get confused for a minute. then when he has you back remember, he'll how he originally felt and may not really want you again. Cancers react to feelings. He probably misses the spot you filled in his life and now feels weird. He may feel like he wants you back in that spot and then when he has you back, feel as if he does not want you again. The emotional roller coaster of a cancer is crazy. I put people on it more times than i wish to admitt. I would keep it moving. Leave.
cancerlovestaurus
Keep ignoring him and find someone else and he will try to get you back. It won't mean he will want you. he will just get confused for a minute. then when he has you back remember, he'll how he originally felt and may not really want you again. Cancers react to feelings. He probably misses the spot you filled in his life and now feels weird. He may feel like he wants you back in that spot and then when he has you back, feel as if he does not want you again. The emotional roller coaster of a cancer is crazy. I put people on it more times than i wish to admitt. I would keep it moving. Leave.
cancerlovestaurus
Keep ignoring him and find someone else and he will try to get you back. It won't mean he will want you. he will just get confused for a minute. then when he has you back remember, he'll how he originally felt and may not really want you again. Cancers react to feelings. He probably misses the spot you filled in his life and now feels weird. He may feel like he wants you back in that spot and then when he has you back, feel as if he does not want you again. The emotional roller coaster of a cancer is crazy. I put people on it more times than i wish to admitt. I would keep it moving. Leave.
VajajayPartay
Cancer guys love the chase. The more you don't want him, the stronger his desire gets. You literally need to talk to him. Ignoring him will make him obsess over you, which isn't healthy.
"Cancers react to feelings. He probably misses the spot you filled in his life and now feels weird. He may feel like he wants you back in that spot and then when he has you back, feel as if he does not want you again." They will chase you forever, and once they get you, that fiery passion that burned for you will now cease to exist.
Scorp. with a Cancer friend and Cancer ex. >.<
cancerlovestaurus
Yep. VajajaPartay has us down. I have that really bad with Scorps. They reallllly play hard to get and in the middle of the chase I even realize that I don't want them anymore but still keep the chase up.....then I get them... and then i leave...after i find a new one. i'll look while i'm still with them. Smh. that strong silent Scorp thing gets boring. i like the loud talkative scorp. (a rare find)
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CancerGemini
Posted by cancerlovestaurus
Yep. VajajaPartay has us down. I have that really bad with Scorps. They reallllly play hard to get and in the middle of the chase I even realize that I don't want them anymore but still keep the chase up.....then I get them... and then i leave...after i find a new one. i'll look while i'm still with them. Smh. that strong silent Scorp thing gets boring. i like the loud talkative scorp. (a rare find)


I don't agree, I don't enjoy the chase, but the build up. Little drops on the canvass of romance leading into the collage of love is what I find entrancing, chasing someone and begging for a reaction is painfully embarrassing; to this crab at least.

Mental stimulation is a must, I can see a Cancer becoming interested in someone else, but only mentally, most often I see a Cancer being loyal physically.
dragoneyes
thanks all. He pushed his luck again today and that just made me realise what a selfish a hole he is who only think of his needs.
ScorpioFish
Posted by cancerlovestaurus
Keep ignoring him and find someone else and he will try to get you back. It won't mean he will want you. he will just get confused for a minute. then when he has you back remember, he'll how he originally felt and may not really want you again. Cancers react to feelings. He probably misses the spot you filled in his life and now feels weird. He may feel like he wants you back in that spot and then when he has you back, feel as if he does not want you again. The emotional roller coaster of a cancer is crazy. I put people on it more times than i wish to admitt. I would keep it moving. Leave.


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