Cancer woman

Piscesdream89

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shellshocker
This is a hard one, you never know with a Cancer female.

Cancers can be very self absorbed when it comes to their feelings. If she is telling the truth and is going out of her way to avoid direct contact with you... her personal problems and you are too much for her to deal with right now. She's creating distance until she can get a handle on herself or figure out what is going on. I hope she is a nice Cancer and is telling you the truth.

If she is lying... then something has happened that has changed her thinking and she is not mature enough to tell you that. So she is backing away and won't take responsibility for the fact that she is not considering your feelings. Trying to say it is your problem and not hers.

If she actively pursued you.. chances are it's the first scenario.

MidwestGirl
Is there something with Cancer women and Pisces lately? Ive found myself liking a Cancer female at work as well. Granted I am a Pisces-Aries cusp female but Im still trying to think how to approach it. I am just friends with another cancer female at work and for a long while when she was having stomach problems, problems at work and her fiance we stopped hanging out, she stopped telling me close things and did not text much so as the previous poster said she must be going through a lot. On another note I had a cancer male friend who had disappeared from my life for almost a year and when he finally came back it turned out his long time girlfriend had broken up with him to pursue another woman, so his ego was bruised as well as emotionally hurt. We started hanging out a lot again and he started telling me personal things again. Idk if it will take her that long but Cancers when they retreat seem to disappear altogether and eventually come back full force ready to talk, hang out and enjoy you again.
Piscesdream89
Yeah I believe she is honest about somethings and not telling me everything about the others. If I were to guess, it seems as she try's to get me to stick around until she is ready without any communication what so ever. I was just curious if this is a common Cancer trait that woman under this sign do. I will continue to not to talk to her and see what happens.
shellshocker
Posted by Piscesdream89
If I were to guess, it seems as she try's to get me to stick around until she is ready without any communication what so ever. I was just curious if this is a common Cancer trait that woman under this sign do.


yes
Piscesdream89
Posted by shellshocker
Posted by Piscesdream89
If I were to guess, it seems as she try's to get me to stick around until she is ready without any communication what so ever. I was just curious if this is a common Cancer trait that woman under this sign do.


yes


Do you think 3 months is a little bit to much time though?
shellshocker
It took me a year to really start to open up to my Pisces. (he says longer... but tomato, tomoto) I just kept circling him till my waters were calmer
Piscesdream89
Posted by shellshocker
It took me a year to really start to open up to my Pisces. (he says longer... but tomato, tomoto) I just kept circling him till my waters were calmer


Alright I will ride it out. But I can't guarantee I will be around when she is 'ready' if that is the case. Thanks for the info!
shellshocker
Posted by Piscesdream89
Posted by shellshocker
It took me a year to really start to open up to my Pisces. (he says longer... but tomato, tomoto) I just kept circling him till my waters were calmer


Alright I will ride it out. But I can't guarantee I will be around when she is 'ready' if that is the case. Thanks for the info!


you're welcome. not too many signs have the patience for a cancer... but i'm sure you won't make it too easy for her
Piscesdream89
Posted by shellshocker
Posted by Piscesdream89
Posted by shellshocker
It took me a year to really start to open up to my Pisces. (he says longer... but tomato, tomoto) I just kept circling him till my waters were calmer


Alright I will ride it out. But I can't guarantee I will be around when she is 'ready' if that is the case. Thanks for the info!


you're welcome. not too many signs have the patience for a cancer... but i'm sure you won't make it too easy for her


Ha.. Haven't had a real conversation with her in over a month and she seems to be fine with it. But I'm doing my best
ScorpioFish
Posted by shellshocker
It took me a year to really start to open up to my Pisces. (he says longer... but tomato, tomoto) I just kept circling him till my waters were calmer


Did you kiss him first, or did he kiss you first?

Storytime!
shellshocker
Posted by ScorpioFish
Posted by shellshocker
It took me a year to really start to open up to my Pisces. (he says longer... but tomato, tomoto) I just kept circling him till my waters were calmer


Did you kiss him first, or did he kiss you first?

Storytime!


Nice to see you, Scubs!!!... but I don't kiss and tell

CuriousCancer
Posted by Piscesdream89
Yeah I believe she is honest about somethings and not telling me everything about the others. If I were to guess, it seems as she try's to get me to stick around until she is ready without any communication what so ever. I was just curious if this is a common Cancer trait that woman under this sign do. I will continue to not to talk to her and see what happens.


Im a cancer girl and no way am I like that I say what I see and I see what I say, that said, I do push people away when I have my own 'stuff' going on, not because Im being horrible, just because I don't think others need to hear my problems when they probably have their own to deal with... Im often found saying: oooh I haven't got the head space to deal with that...sounds selfish when realy its not, Ive just got a million & one other things going on and wouldn't have the right time, energy or devotion you need...sorry if Ive not explained that well, but I tried
ScorpioFish
Posted by shellshocker
Posted by ScorpioFish
Posted by shellshocker
It took me a year to really start to open up to my Pisces. (he says longer... but tomato, tomoto) I just kept circling him till my waters were calmer


Did you kiss him first, or did he kiss you first?

Storytime!


Nice to see you, Scubs!!!... but I don't kiss and tell



Piscesdream89
Posted by CuriousCancer
Posted by Piscesdream89
Yeah I believe she is honest about somethings and not telling me everything about the others. If I were to guess, it seems as she try's to get me to stick around until she is ready without any communication what so ever. I was just curious if this is a common Cancer trait that woman under this sign do. I will continue to not to talk to her and see what happens.


Im a cancer girl and no way am I like that I say what I see and I see what I say, that said, I do push people away when I have my own 'stuff' going on, not because Im being horrible, just because I don't think others need to hear my problems when they probably have their own to deal with... Im often found saying: oooh I haven't got the head space to deal with that...sounds selfish when realy its not, Ive just got a million & one other things going on and wouldn't have the right time, energy or devotion you need...sorry if Ive not explained that well, but I tried


Thank you curious! You explained great. I believe you maybe right buy due to our history, it has become a complex watery situation.





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