Getting Cancer Man To Call

34 years old female from Springfield, Missouri, USA •
"Im just a woman. I am very empathetic and kind. I trust too easy,and yet i alw
You??ve already established that adhering to gender role assignments in dating rituals is the way you want to go, so you??ve given up your power and are waiting for the Crab to pick up the phone. But he??s shy! You could be waiting, like, forever!

So what are you going to do? Use your feminine wiles to ???manipulate?? him into making the first move? What a great idea!

If you??re lucky, the Crab of your dreams has Venus in Gemini ??? how could there be a better planetary placement for seduction via the telephone? All you??ve got to do is give him your number and say, ???Call me?? with a sexy wink to inspire him to ring you the next day.

Otherwise, he may need some goading to get out from behind his shell. Fortunately, Cancer is a cardinal sign. It initiates. There are four cardinal signs: Aries pioneers, Libra mediates, Capricorn climbs ??_ and Cancer wants you to meet his mother. So to get him motivated to act, it has to be in service to the Moon, his ruling planet. If you??re a single mom, tell him you??d love him to meet your kids. If he discussed how close he is with his sister, share that a party of three at brunch would be a great idea. Then tell him to call to set up a time. I know these are not the most erotic come-ons, but the fastest way to a Cancer man??s heart is through his family.

Unless you can cook.
male •
It's simple. get out a pen, grab my hand, write your number on it. we'll get the hint. making the first move isn't a problem, knowing if it's ok to make the the first move is though.

by the way, i don't understand all this "mom" stuff that everyone mentions when talking about cancers. it gives me the creeps.
30 years old female •
SunCancer MoonCapricorn MercuryCancer VenusLeo MarsCapricorn
@cancerguy i've never understood the mommy thing either, i haven't really met any cancer guys that were that fixated on their mothers like that.

i've got a cancer with venus in gemini chasing me. i never call him so he calls and texts. also i haven't cooked for him but he does cook for me
45 years old female from Texas •
"I am a Pisces sun with a Scorpio moon and my ascending sign is Cancer. Just fo
Posted by Awake
There is a few things you can do, call him repeatedly and also toss some texts in between those calls until he has no choice but to call back. If that doesnt work, use a freinds phone so he doesnt know what hit him If allll this doesnt work, start leaving notes in his bedroom, car, parent's house to call you or drastic action will be taken. Thats how its done ladies.


LOL! Not unless you want him to put a restraining order on your stalkerish ass!!!
45 years old female from A Lush Meadow, US of A •
" In the dead of night, it's the anti-sig.
LOL Awake, you left out binoculars and night vision goggles.
45 years old female from Florida •
"I'm a straight forward, fun loving, witty and what you see is what you get kin
Yep, you gotta iniate on the Cancer guy. I just gave him my number and told him he should call me sometime. He looked at me like "REALLY? I've had a crush on you for like two years!!!" WTF!!! Call me cookiemonster! Damn! LOL!
34 years old female from seattle, USA •
"Ascendant: Aquarius Sun: Leo Moon: Virgo Mercury: virgo Venus: Le
about the mom thing... i must be subjected to many stereotypes cuz ALL the cancers i have ever met in my life, male or female, have had a fixation with their moms and family in general.

as for getting them to call... they'll do it if they want something from u. i do most of the calling/texting initiation but i am always "rewarded".
47 years old female •
I'm a female cancer, but I am the same way. I sit back and wait for the guy to make the first move/call. Once that move has been made, then I have no problem calling the guy. You have to be a little more blunt with us
45 years old female from Florida •
"I'm a straight forward, fun loving, witty and what you see is what you get kin
Posted by eden 3
ll r u with a crab? roo hoo water & fire! STEAMAY!

my closest male friends r cancers I adore them.


chasing? I'm not sure. crabs can become indifferent when questioning someones intentions esp where the heart (their own) is involved. I have seen em run fast & hard after something (someone) that they desire. they love to experience passion in all forms. it's a water thing


Hi Eden. No Im not with a crab. I did briefly date one who is now one of my very close friends. I am currently engaging in some playful yet interesting banter with a Cancer/Leo cusper who has really provoked some very extreme thought processes causing me to do some soul searching. But I prefer not to reveal much about any of that just yet.

They are very passionate but I also find them to be very a bit conflicted in matters of the heart. They tend to be emotional extremists that confuse me. At least the few males that I know. Very passionate but a bit wishy washy. Deep feelers and thinkers but they wrestle with temptation and conflict. Thats just my experience and I dont have a whole lot. LOL!
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