How do men with Venus in Cancer deal with breakups

1/24/2011 7:16:35 PM | More
GeorgiaPeach

Hey Sister Peach! Sounds like you had to make a hard decision. My heart goes out to you. Just take it a day at a time. And pray.
1/24/2011 12:31:58 PM | More
kecolamojojr

Another Georgia Peach, yay lol! You're right. I know that I need to give him some time to himself but I've been SO worried about him, especially after hearing how he's gone downhill. As hard as it's going to be, I'm going to have to control myself and try not to contact him. I'll go maybe two weeks and break down and send a text or try to call and I'm sure that's making it even harder on him. Quick question though? When it comes to Venus in Cancer people, do they eventually come back around once they're completely over you? I know a relationship would never work between us because of him alcoholism but I still want to be there as a friend to support him. I need to get over him just as much as he needs to get over me for that to happen though...
1/24/2011 11:23:47 AM | More
GeorgiaPeach

Why dont you just give him some time to get over the relationship? Venus in Cancer are very sensitive and it takes them AWHILE to get over relationships. They say everything is good, but that may not be the truth. I want to say the prick part comes from the Virgo Sun (I can say that, I am a Virgo lol). He needs to get help for his alcoholism. You need someone who is whole and mentally healthy enough to be in a relationship.
1/24/2011 9:40:05 AM | More
kecolamojojr

Hi everyone! I need a little help understanding what the hell is going on with my Virgo ex who has Venus in Cancer. I ended our relationship in December due to his alcoholism. He was SOO romantic and such a sweetheart when he was sober but his "habits" would change him into a completely different person when he was drunk. I loved him to pieces and to be honest I still love him to pieces which is why I continue to worry about him even after the breakup. I've been trying to contact him to make sure he's okay and let him know that I'll still be there for him as a friend. He's been completely ignoring me though. We used to work at the same place which is how we met but I got laid off last November. My best friend still works there with him and said that at first, right after our breakup, he would go out of his way to make sure she saw him flirting with other girls. I guess cause he wanted to hurt me. Now though, she says he looks absolutely horrible. He's lost weight, looks sad and depressed, doesn't talk to anyone anymore, and is dirty and unkempt. I've even had other coworkers call me and ask me if we broke up too because he's not himself anymore. What's the deal? If he's so miserable about us not being together then why not call me back or talk to me? It's not like I was mean when I ended things. I told him rationally and calmly why I couldn't be with him anymore. He was the one that replied "thank God cause you're nuts" out of anger. In actuality, he's the one that's a little off in the head due to his drinking. Yet, he turned it around on me. Even after that, I was the bigger person and told him that I was sorry the way that things ended and he apologized too and said we were good. Now everytime I try to contact me he ignores me and it hurts. Is this a thing with people that have Venus in Cancer or is it his Virgo Sun that's causing him to be such a prick? I'm an Aquarius Sun and I have Cap in Venus.

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