(IT'S TRUE!!) CANCER ALWAYS COME BACK!! OMG!!

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9/26/2011 11:51:37 AM | More
kristalaries

OOOOOOOMMMMMMMGGGGGGGG!!! OMG OMG!!
Today I got the BIGGEST SURPRISE in my life I never thought before.
Remember my ex...Mr.Cancer 2011 who broke up with me back in March 2011??
I was crying and hysteric about the sudden break up on this thread here
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/HELP!-Cancer-guy-now-gone-need-a-break!!-sobs-2501758.asp

Well..after 6 months of breaking up with me..and recently we forgive each other....
Today..he was buzzing me online and asking to talk. He said it feels WEIRD to know that we are not BF-GF anymore.
He's missing US. I admit we had great memories. He is now living in a faraway city..he used to live 2 hours apart from me..now it's like 4-5 hours apart by plane...!
He said "If I send you tickets and we rekindle things again as BF-GF..would you visit me in XXX city and spend holidays here with me??"
He also keep calling me "MY GIRL" OMG...:o this is BEYOND my expectation...this is crazy! Time DOES change things!!

Anyways...my broken heart is already healing 100%...and I am analyzing all this.
Now I remember the old posts here saying that "Cancers always COME BACK"
Yes indeed they do!! I am so excited now..!!! But I am being slow here..I have been badly hurt before...
I want to enjoy this friendship with him first..and take things sloooow...but HONESTLY..FOR MY ARIES EGO..the fact that Mr.Crab is asking for a come back..is such a HUUUGGGEEE STROKE on MY Aries EGO (LOL)....!!

From my case..I conclude the fact that he is mentioning a desire to come back to me..happens because :

- we are already in good terms with each other, no more anger and we can talk comfortably like friends
- we had great memories, happy memories that always make us happy thinking about them
- time heals

So yeah..Cancers do come back!!


9/26/2011 11:55:33 AM | More
kristalaries

LOL I guess I am back on the Cancer board agaiiiiiiiin!
Wow..I was on DXP Cancer Forum because of him..and our break up..6 months ago and ...it's crazy how things are changing!
9/26/2011 12:03:49 PM | More
PiscesFebFish

I'm happy for you but I was under the impression that you had closure, no desire to be with him(boyfriend) romantically because you had "changed"
9/26/2011 12:05:31 PM | More
shellshocker

Caution:

I don't want to burst your bubble but here is something you should remember.... This has also be posted on the Cancer board many, many times.

Cancers are nostalgic. He specifically said he is missing the "us" part... but not necessarily "you". kwim? A Cancer can pop back into your like to see if you have moved on, if you still have feelings for them because they don't like to be forgotten.

The fact he lives even farther from you now, he's in a new city and probably feeling lonely and you are now on good terms, is a perfect opportunity to return and re-live the good times. The loving feelings. This is not however reality... He may throw out hypothetical situations to see if you'll 'bite' and you can be a nice comfortable back-up plan to boost his ego. In reality, he'll gain more confidence to go out and meet people in his new city... knowing he has a plan B.

sad... but very possible
9/26/2011 12:09:08 PM | More
kristalaries

PiscesFebFish -- yes..I admit I am changed. The break up did hurt me so bad..that I am taking things very slow before deciding to get into a serious relationship again.
I do love him and care for him, always. He's the FIRST BF that I am able to stay friends with. With my other EX-es I always hold a grudge & burn bridges. With him..I have a mixed feeling of anger and love.

Our break up did hurt me so bad, but I always admit that he is a good person. Very loving, caring & kind.
Honestly, this is beyond my expectation. I decide now..to take things SLOOOW...begin with friendship..and see how it goes from there.

9/26/2011 3:47:56 PM | More
PixieDust

24 years old female

Posted by shellshocker
Caution:

I don't want to burst your bubble but here is something you should remember.... This has also be posted on the Cancer board many, many times.

Cancers are nostalgic. He specifically said he is missing the "us" part... but not necessarily "you". kwim? A Cancer can pop back into your like to see if you have moved on, if you still have feelings for them because they don't like to be forgotten.

The fact he lives even farther from you now, he's in a new city and probably feeling lonely and you are now on good terms, is a perfect opportunity to return and re-live the good times. The loving feelings. This is not however reality... He may throw out hypothetical situations to see if you'll 'bite' and you can be a nice comfortable back-up plan to boost his ego. In reality, he'll gain more confidence to go out and meet people in his new city... knowing he has a plan B.

sad... but very possible



I agree with shellshocker, do not throw caution to the wind here.

9/26/2011 9:02:10 PM | More
piranhaparadiise

female

Posted by shellshocker
A Cancer can pop back into your like to see if you have moved on, if you still have feelings for them because they don't like to be forgotten.

My Cancer ex popped back in my life just yesterday and I told him I'm taken and happy...now delete my number LOL
10/5/2011 12:54:50 PM | More
kristalaries

UPDATE

Thanks everyone who dropped by & posted here.. I will answer-comment your posts later on..But, a quick update first.

Mr.Cancer is going abroad this week for a few years regarding work contract. He is inviting me for a farewell dinner this week. He promised to be back. We are friends now..but I sense romantic longings from his part.
He's so sweet with me now.
This is a HUGE stroke on my EGO. And I am threading it slowly..very slowly...
I am just enjoying the positivity & sweetness..with my walls up

Cancers..always hold a soft spot in my heart...
10/6/2011 1:24:33 PM | More
Cancerianbby69

23 years old female from CA  

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Posted by shellshocker
Caution:

I don't want to burst your bubble but here is something you should remember.... This has also be posted on the Cancer board many, many times.

Cancers are nostalgic. He specifically said he is missing the "us" part... but not necessarily "you". kwim? A Cancer can pop back into your like to see if you have moved on, if you still have feelings for them because they don't like to be forgotten.

The fact he lives even farther from you now, he's in a new city and probably feeling lonely and you are now on good terms, is a perfect opportunity to return and re-live the good times. The loving feelings. This is not however reality... He may throw out hypothetical situations to see if you'll 'bite' and you can be a nice comfortable back-up plan to boost his ego. In reality, he'll gain more confidence to go out and meet people in his new city... knowing he has a plan B.

sad... but very possible



Wow, I soo agree. Trust me I used to do the same to all exes I had
I always was sweet and say stuff I wanted for our futures(i never meant it).
I just liked the comfort knowing that they still had something for me.

I knw other cancer guys that are the same way, so WATCH OUT.
If anything tell him you have moved on and met someone else.
If he backs off quick its cuz thats what he wanted if he doesnt its cuz
He wants to see if ull give into his lie.

TRUST ME, really hope u just tell him to back off, cuz hell just break ur heart again :/
2/28/2013 2:03:21 AM | More
liamee

My cancer boy friend broke with me yesterday,he has never done with any of his exes. i am so hurt because i felt like i made him to. He never let me explain anything and assumes a lot. we had a good time together,he loved me a lot. i just wonder is it possible to just end your love. yes he is going through a lot of problems. i was supposed to meet is parents but things turned out ugly and he thinks i dont support him.we had an argument one night and he says i made him so angry and hurt that he cant think of being with me anymore.i loved him and i still do,it is killing me to even think we are not together. i apologised many times but he says i am scratching his wounds more. he knows it i love him very much. he is very adamant when he takes a decision. i was just wondering if he would return.
2/28/2013 2:06:20 AM | More
liamee

sorry forgot to mention. It was before i even meet his parents we had a fight.

2/28/2013 7:42:33 AM | More
agis

31 years old female

Rising Sign is in 24 Degrees Scorpio Y

I don't think they come back. i hope they don't. I'm just really enjoying myself now and I don't want to be broken again.
Now I can easily do not pay attention to his visits on my professional site (you can check, who viewed). i don't care and I don't want to care.

I'm a broken aries. after the break-up I needed 5 f.cking months to move on. I never experienced this before. Now I'm seeing a cancer again. I don't know if this will work out or not. At least he makes me smile again.
2/28/2013 8:59:27 AM | More
liamee

Sneaky... yes you are right he is dramatic at times and i really wish him to be dramatic this time too.. but i am scared when he takes decisions very strongly. thanx anyways i will remember if he do that again yes i will move on..
2/28/2013 12:12:45 PM | More
peri2013

My advice to you please don`t go back to someone who left you, disappeared and suddenly appeared.

This type of guys, when they leave someone in need of being someone, usually the one they know, they are available for them to heal their wound.
Please don`t go back, same thing will happen than you will hurt yourself for the second time.

I hope you keep that in mind..
3/1/2013 12:18:10 AM | More
liamee

Peri...thanx for the advice he said so many mean things to me yesterday,can't imagine if he is the same person i knew. well..trying to move on. hope i succeed in doing that.
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