help! want this cancer man back

He's figured it out finally that, yes, he's into you. He will begin traditional courtship now. Like calling and asking you out. You may now "dance with him". My advise in try not to do anything deviant or make unexpected requests. If you say "this is so sudden, give me time to think, slowly" or "I've been seeing this other guys...." etc, it will complicate matters and make the dance lose momentum.

Anyway, congrats. Enjoy your ride, lol

scorpio1025

9/29/2010 12:27:32 AM | IP

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PiscesArgie

9/9/2010 9:23:35 PM | IP

female from Buenos Aires, ARGENTINA

TAROT READER AKASHIC RECORDS REIKI ASTRO

Posted by MoonBunny
Scorpio740 knows her crabs. lol

We're different from the other two water signs. Scorpio and Pisces are "layers". Layers of an onion that you need to peel as you work your way in. Their personality is such. Scorp throws one small test, and if you pass, you get let in a "little". Inch by inch, layer by layer.

But with Cancer, there's just a single hard shell. There's always a hard test. The other smaller tests are simply distractions. We're too clever to bribe an Native Australian with pokemon cards, it won't work, pokemon cards aren't their weakness. We need to push the buttons and we know where they are.

For most signs (not just Scorps), we begin with their self-control issues....

This is sooo true.
I have been subjected to many tests, hard tests, testing my limits, my patience, my reactions.
You know where to push the buttons...
Fortunately for us Fish, we also KNOW what you are doing so we don't mind the tests...or, we do, but we know better.

I have started reading about Crabs when I began dating mine, and I was so much better prepared when the time came for his test, ignoring, little disappearing acts, shelling and so on. I just understood them so much better, that I am so thankfulfor all the people here!!

and I agree with the Scorpio girl who is an expert on Crabs...
Just take the verbal beating...once. Show the crab you can take it. But then remind them of what they told you, and tell them that you didnt like that and it hurts. If they care, they will try not to do the same twice, or at least they will lessen the agresiveness. And make sure they say they are sorry!!!

Crabs should remember that , in the case of Fish, we swim away....we can be patient and love them and understand them but won't be humiliated again and again!!

MoonBunny

9/9/2010 9:00:33 PM | IP

female from Europe

Virgo Ascendent Cancer Sun (2nd deca

Scorpio740 knows her crabs. lol

We're different from the other two water signs. Scorpio and Pisces are "layers". Layers of an onion that you need to peel as you work your way in. Their personality is such. Scorp throws one small test, and if you pass, you get let in a "little". Inch by inch, layer by layer.

But with Cancer, there's just a single hard shell. There's always a hard test. The other smaller tests are simply distractions. We're too clever to bribe an Native Australian with pokemon cards, it won't work, pokemon cards aren't their weakness. We need to push the buttons and we know where they are.

For most signs (not just Scorps), we begin with their self-control issues....

scorpio740

9/9/2010 5:44:16 PM | IP

Sun Scorpio Ascendant Leo

Posted by scorpio1025

what do you mean by dodge btw??

it means don't take what he says seriously. just take it from one ear, then out on the other... don't argue too much... act nice, calm, stable.

eg: cancer: "treetrunk off!! I don't want to talk you ever again!!"
scorpio: "i wont. I"ll never leave you. stop pushing me away."

good luck (^.^)

scorpio1025

9/9/2010 10:57:04 AM | IP

Posted by scorpio740
Dear Scorpio:

2nd: he's obviously guarded because you rejected him so many times. My cancer ex did the same thing when we first started. he tested me every single way possible. (eg. threaten a break up, act as if he doesn't care, get mad at everything I say and do, etc.) what did i do? dodge them. DODGE every single thing he says. those are not true reflections of what they really feel. Action speaks louder than words. Remember, Patience is a virtue.

what do you mean by dodge btw??

scorpio1025

9/9/2010 10:54:19 AM | IP

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9/8/2010 10:29:41 PM | IP

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crzydiam63

9/8/2010 6:13:36 AM | IP

female from Cappy Town, NC

Cap Sun with Cancer Moon

Why do they want you to talk with them so badly then ignore you? I don't understand this........do they not understand what message this sends? Don't you feel kinda stupid when you keep talking to them and they do this? I'd feel like I was stalking him at some point.

Don't we all just wanna be wuvvvvvvvvvvvvvved? That's all I want.....to wuv and be wuved =)

mr.crabby

9/8/2010 4:11:02 AM | IP

31 years old male from Canada

The Second Decan of Cancer is also known

You should wait until you're mature enough for a relationship. Maybe have sex with random people in the meantime?

Cancer1986LeoCusp

9/8/2010 3:28:16 AM | IP

Posted by scorpio1025
(keep in mind it's all temporary..(your submissiveness)..as u are a scorpio like me LOL), get even later when he's already attached ROFLMAO.)

i like how lighthearted this is. lol its like this zodiac stuff is real cause you said exactly as i act for real. like i need my space to calm down when i'm pissed yes like a phoenix to recover. it makes sense that he needs his too.. just not used to a guy dominating me. i usually am the aggressive one haha. i really miss the power though. guess its my own bad. it just sucks how much pride we have and that we have to surrender it so often. *sigh* being a scorpio is hardd work... hell being a GIRL is hard work.

Girls , what you are plotting here is a strike unders a belt for a cancer...we get really attached to a person we care about. In fact i guess it will not work as soothely as you plan because as far as i know scorps also get attached and have a hard time letting go, i guess you are already there

Pisces are able to just to move on relatively easy i think which hearts when they act like nothing happened...i think it is explained by the fact that they have a lil form each sign of zodiac and can act distached like air signs if they want

scorpio1025

9/8/2010 2:19:44 AM | IP

(keep in mind it's all temporary..(your submissiveness)..as u are a scorpio like me LOL), get even later when he's already attached ROFLMAO.)

i like how lighthearted this is.

lol its like this zodiac stuff is real cause you said exactly as i act for real. like i need my space to calm down when i'm pissed yes like a phoenix to recover. it makes sense that he needs his too.. just not used to a guy dominating me. i usually am the aggressive one haha. i really miss the power though. guess its my own bad. it just sucks how much pride we have and that we have to surrender it so often. *sigh* being a scorpio is hardd work... hell being a GIRL is hard work.

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