I'm curious about the transition the Capricorn man has made since I've been in his life. I'm white, he's black. I'm Taurus (4/21), he's Capricorn (1/16). We've been friends/lovers for close to a year now. We became intimate quite quickly, which I know is not recommended; however after we got a taste for each other there was really no other option (it keeps getting better, too -- you just have to open him up with your own sexual confidence).
This is what I know: We're good together; we connect on important levels. But am curious: When I first met him, he mentioned that he never was going to get married and never have children: "I'd be a good uncle." Now, after months of sharing moments and thoughts, he mentions that I "would be a good mother," and saying his kids are going to the best schools," or his "kids will be this/that."
Now let me explain an important aspect of our relationship: We have a mutual understanding to respect our own individual lives and goals, but have not established a "set-in-stone-you're-my-everything" relationship. At one point I told him "you deserve a better job, get on it" and within a month he had started a new career. Another goal of his was to get his Master's degree. When he was accepted into the Grad program he wanted, I showed him how proud by buying him a big-ticket coat he'd been eye-ing for months. He wears it every chance he gets. Now he not only wants to get his MA, he's after his PhD. When I ask him for something, he always obliges if he can, but I never press if it is an inconvenience to him/his schedule. I make him laugh, even in bed - we are like kids ... or rabid animals. I've encouraged him to focus on his own, and he has shown me how to keep myself on my own track.
However I am curious: This man is extremely attractive -- he has many women chasing him. I never keep "tabs" on him, and have told him I trust him enough to not be concerned with what he does when we're not together. My question: Is it possible he would mention kids, mother, his future with other women, or do Capricorn men keep those conversations sacred between himself and his special someone? Also -- What does this transition in life view (i.e.: no wife, no kids to "good mother"/"when I have kids") in my Capricorn man mean?
I would appreciate any feedback. I care a lot about this man and what we have.
Cap Men: Transition in life view?
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