Capricorn Men and Love

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1/15/2007 2:55:59 AM | More
DearDiary



On the outside I'm rather strong, resist

Hello,

I posted previously and I posted on how me and my Capricorn an had met etc. The thing is my Capricorn is in love with me and I on the other hand do love him too in a way, but not as much as he seems to love me.
He's a wonderful man and really mature. He loves to talk with me for hours "seems corny" but he actually does. We talk for usually 3-4 hours at a time when were not together.
He wants to move in together in April and I'm having some doubts but at the same time I want it soo much. I love him dearly but I'm taken back by his love. I don't understand why he loves me so much. He gets excited about me...he tells his family about me..I almost feel god like the way he discribes me to the people in his life and Im starting to feel like I can't live up to his view of me.

I'm wondering if all Capricorns fall in love like this and if its a for sure thing. I'm wondering if this is common behavior and if I shouldn't feel so icky about this love.

He says that he loves me no matter what...even if I gain 50 pounds..even if I leave my towels on the floor...even if I don't love him that much right now, he claims he can wait..he'll wait forever as he says.

THIS COULD BE LUST BUT IM STARTING TO BELIEVE ITS LOVE.
Do any of your know of Capi men loving like this?
Is this type of behavior with Cap men usual?
He has this NEED to introduce me to his entire family lol, is that a good thing?
He is an only son...should I be worried of his mother?
Would he break things off if I didn't click perfectly with his family?
He claims to want to provide for me and protect me but Im an aries woman..I provide for myself..and protect myself..could I really let him do all this for me?

I need some advice..



1/15/2007 3:03:19 AM | More
sweet&sour

female

Like you said, to me it seems also that he is very much in love with you but you are not that much. If you don't love him or can't think you could love him all the way, then you should tell him early enough.
1/15/2007 6:10:54 PM | More
DearDiary



On the outside I'm rather strong, resist

I do like him a lot but I'm having trouble making that next step. He's really forward and somewhat aggressive in his persuit of me. I enjoy being chased and chaseing him too.

It's not that I don't think of him that way. He is an amazing person and really breath takeing but I just don't understand his love and why he's so passionate.

I'm an attractive girl and he's an attractive guy..no wonder were attracted to one another but his love goes deeper then psychical...its like he says "he loves my soul"??....never had that before.

I just want to get into the psychie of the Capricorn man and wtf is going on in there...

Thank you,

DearDiary
1/17/2007 1:46:33 PM | More
DearDiary



On the outside I'm rather strong, resist

? nothing
1/17/2007 2:20:13 PM | More
JanMan

DD i think that u should straight away tell him what u are currently feeling, u should know one thing abt us (Caps) that we like straight forwardness.
1/19/2007 5:27:41 AM | More
DearDiary



On the outside I'm rather strong, resist

I agree that its a BIG gesture and I am totally ready for it. I just need to assure myself of what I am getting into.

He's a really great person and I'm beguinging to feel really strongly about him.

Its intense!


1/20/2007 1:55:26 AM | More
Me2u4ever

Sounds to me like he has chosen you. He will wait and do what he must to show you that his love is true and he will be there for you always. Cheerish him I'd say. You won't find a more loyal, moral mate. ( psst he will test your morals) but all good if you share the same ones.

Hope that helps
1/20/2007 1:56:30 AM | More
Me2u4ever

Dear Diary what sign are you?
1/20/2007 1:22:11 PM | More
DearDiary



On the outside I'm rather strong, resist

Me2u4ever:

I am an Aries, third decan with a lot of Taurus, Libra and Virgo in my chart. I checked out our planets and alot of our planets compliment one another which is good. I'm really hopeful with the idea of him and I going furher.
I consider him someone who compliments me and doesn't complete me lol. I feel that I have a healthy expecation and ideas of our relationship. I'm really confident about us as a combination and I am keeping my strong values and morals.
I love that he and I do share a lot of values and morals. That's what mainly makes us stronger but also the sexual aspect is out of this world.

If him and I had nothing in common..the sex would make it too good to leave lol. We really are connecting right now and I'm doing my research on him lol.

1/20/2007 5:11:51 PM | More
DearDiary



On the outside I'm rather strong, resist

For some reason I feel like the Capricorn has done a 360'! FOR MONTHS he has been lusting after me with the passion of a fire sign. We've known eachother for a long time but only intimatly for a short time (months).

For a while I fought off the hard advances and took careful steps but now I'm reacing quite warmly to his calls of passion and randome unexpected sex between him and I but within the past week I feel that he has pulled back and is slightly more cautious?....

He's been sick for the past week and I recently have caught the flu so were both sick and mainly speaking on the phone. We've been speaking for hours..just about events we both have in sched and that communication part is there but I feel like after we sleep with one another he doesn' persue me the same.

It's as if the moment sex is over, he is no longer is as passionate or attentive until he is horny again lol...which doesn't take long.

I am considering holding back sex and asking if we can take it slower again. I feel that I want to really get to know him 1st completly before sleeping with him. I admit that I seduced him to beguin with and I am 90% at fault for sex being introduced so early but I really would like to take a step back and do it right.

I am wondering as a man "to you men regardless of sign" if you would be really confused is a woman asked to stop the sex and get to know you better?

I almost feel like it would cause more trouble then convenience. I'm attracted to him intensly and he is towards me a well but I just dont want to base the entire relationship on just sex "worlds greatest sex but still"..I want more of a connecion.


CAP men aren't really built to be that indepth with a woman soul insid and out and I know that but I feel he has the potencial to be more then book smart and business smart..but so much more of a complete emotional, feeling person.

thanx
1/23/2007 11:31:36 AM | More
dward417



I am a fiesty aries woman. Love quiet ev

dear diary,

i am a aries woman in love with a cap...our relationships sound so similiar...

1/23/2007 7:45:11 PM | More
DearDiary



On the outside I'm rather strong, resist

dward:

Yes it does get very confusing. I guess because Ive been burned in the past I expect the same in the future. I really need to get out of that mentality because I know he's nothing like what I've had in the past.
Capricorn and Virgo's have a LOT in common as I've noticed. Reading the Cap and Virgo boards..you'de think that they were of the same mold..that god made man lol.

Something to ponder on

1/24/2007 7:03:00 PM | More
dward417



I am a fiesty aries woman. Love quiet ev

this cap has me mesmerized...(no guy has ever did this) im nervous when im around him...he is all that i have ever wanted in a man. All i want is sex sex sex from him because it is the best. But he pulls away...are caps afraid of committment?
1/25/2007 12:47:19 PM | More
Capquarius

female

As a Cap female, I would say YES. I don't know about your guy, but personally, I am terrified, because I know what a big deal commitment is. When I commit, I mean it...I'm giving my word that I will stick by you no matter what. So I take a lot of time deciding/analyzing if it's a good idea...it takes a lot of time for me to trust, too, for the same reason.

1/25/2007 1:15:25 PM | More
dward417



I am a fiesty aries woman. Love quiet ev

so how should i handle this guy?...should i give him his space when he needs it? Should I get upset when he calls me several times a day to tell me he loves me...then for 3days i dont hear from him at all. I feel so rejected when he pulls away..yet he makes up for it when we do get together. Im just kind of confused...
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