Capricorn male ignoring me ??

taurus fem
I rang capricorn male on thursday nite. He didnt call back. On Friday nite he text me asking how i was what i was up to that evening. I replied saying i was fine thanks, going into to town with a few friends. How are you, what are you doing this evening? And he didnt reply. I still havent heard from him and he knew it was my birthday yesterday and he didnt even text me happy birthday. Im mean to see him this weekend coming. He asked if I would go to a concert with him and his friends. I really dont understand him. Does anyone have any advice? Should I text him again? xx
james tate
I just didn't feel like calling so there
warholian
He's probably just busy.
CapTaur
I'm a Taurus woman dating a Cap man and I had to remind him twice (subtly) about my birthday (we've been dating for a little over 8 mths). In reminding him of my birthday and told him what I wanted. In telling him he generously delivered. If he didn't want to deliver, he wouldn't have responded to my request (meaning silence).

Swallow your ("your" in a general sense) pride and tell him what you want. This way there is no room for disappointment on his part. He provides you with what you've asked for, he wishes you a happy birthday, you're happy, life is good, he can go on knowing he has fulfilled your desire and return happily to what he was doing before. If he doesn't want to respond to your request, he won't respond. Simple. If he cares, he will take the time to show you if you ask him to.

What I've learned, and correct me Capricorn men/women if I am wrong, but there is no room for "assumptions" in the Capricorn world. It either is or it isn't. You ask for it or you don't. S/He delivers or s/he doesn't. No room for grey. It's business.

CapTaur
"however, having to remind a person of your upcoming birthday not only once (but twice) and telling him that you expect something special on this day--- doesn't this advocate laziness on his part ... and neediness on your part?"

I dunno. Maybe. In his eyes a birthday is "just another day". He didn't expect anything special, so in his mind, he's probably wondering why I would expect anything special. I reminded him that I wanted to feel special and told him how I wanted him to make me feel special. He then took the time to think "I like her, she's asking, I'll do it."

Am I needy? When Godiva chocolates and roses are involved, Yes. I'm Taurus.

Birthday's have nothing to do with business. Running a household, being a good father, being a good husband and provider and taking all the right steps year after year to achieve ultimate harmony in the household have to do with business. One day of "showing you care" is bs -- a lifetime of showing you care is business; that's hard work. That's Capricorn.

I could also be very wrong on this, but that's how I've come to understand my Cap man.
eric11
Got to agree with the guys here. Not everybody takes BD as serious as some. I couldn't care less if people forgot my BD. I say it's a big deal if he forgot your anivsory or something.

Anyways that's my two cents.

warholian
CapTaur is right...treat it like business and you'll get his full, undivided attention. That assumption, expectation, emotional butter ain't gonna cut it.
GEMuine
Haha, I'm the Gemini that used the reverse thing on my Cap, emailing him with, "I know you're too busy to respond, but..." He responds every time. He hasn't caught on yet!

But I dealt with the ignoring bit with my Cap as well. He ignored my birthday one year, but the next year I woke up to his birthday message on my phone. Just push through it and if you think he's worth it, it'll all come together.





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