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Eva
7/27/2012 4:14:19 AM | IP

I told him that me initiating contact 3 months after the silent treatment where he didn't even try to find out why i had bren so silent is more than what he has done n I have gone out of my way all so he could treat me this way. I told him this is it for me. I don't know what is going on that u can't be straightforward with me and I thanked him for treating me all this time with a majority of silence. I also told him that one day I hope he Wales up and realises how he let such an amazing person like me go. But that will be his loss not mine. I said all this to him and that I though u know what, maybe u r worth me going out of my way to try and find out what's wrong. And that u r worth the time I put aside to message u. But in the end u treat me this way.

I thanked him for treating me this way and as he lives overseas just said that I hope in a couple weeks time when I will be visiting his city to never bump into him again and I just said good bye. I finished off by saying that I am not going to say happy fasting month because that response would be insulting him...

I just want to know if there are any cappy guys out there who can shed some light on what this cappy guy is feeling... Me even messaging him was just to I guess show I am willing to meet him halfway but I just don't know if I should even bother pushing anything or suggesting we discuss this as he hasn't even tried to contact me.
Eva
7/27/2012 4:03:50 AM | IP

So A week ago i messaged my capricorn man and said there r 2 ways of going around. I can continue this silence that he's constantly doing to me and not initiating a chat or I can break the ice which is more than what he's done in the past 3 months. I told him that I hate these mixed signals he keeps giving to me where it seems he's interested then bam... Massive silent periods of no contact. I asked him why it never occurred to him if I hadn't messaged him is 15 weeks that maybe he should find out why or ask me and see how I am and catch up.

I told him that I felt he is always too busy with other things and always has an excuse to do everything that doesn't involve communicating to me. And that I am laying things clearly out for him. I dun see any point continuing anything with him as It seems he is always too busy to do anything that doesn't involve communicating with me and i also said out of courtesy to u, If u r not interested in me. Say it to me straight. But out of courtesy to you.... If u are not interested... Say it to me straight... I don't appreciate being put in this uncomfortable hanging position where it seems I get mixed signals from u... And then random silent weeks where u r too busy to chat to me but then suddenly Ur free to do other things....

I also told him its upto him whether he bothers to reply to my message and that thIs isn't the way u treat a woman n especially me. If u want some respect from me then show it to me too.
Also told him I would rather be the person who actually put the time and effort aside to ask u instead of disrespecting u with silentness

He replied about an hr later and messaged me to say happy lent month.... I told him to not insult me and after all this silence he can't even give me an explanation or address my previous messages to him. I can be very civil handling this aftermath and told him I am the wrong person for him If he thinks he can treat me like that n think he can be all ok about it like nothing happened. I told him I am not after an argument with him but he needs to show me some respect if he wants the same from me.

 

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