The day before Thanksgiving my journey with my Cap came to an abrupt end. It was just the day before that he told me he loved me. Things were great for a moment, he was waiting for a clean bill of health and thankfully he was OK, but then things got worse because he suddenly became depressed. Nothing I said or did was ever right. Nothing I tried would cheer him up. So when he abruptly said he thought he is too old and gets too tired physically for us to be together, I didn't have the energy anymore to try to talk him out of it. I reassured him countless times that I accepted him for him. All I could think was that he doesn't love me anymore and I just don't know why. He seemed to be completely hopeless about everything. He said he wasn't even sure why he was feeling this way, but he thought it was best.
I didn't cry or pout, I didn't even speak. I just collected his things and said good-bye. At that point I was so emotionally drained I couldn't think of anything more to say.
A day or so later, I text him I would still be a friend to him if he needed me and that I'd be praying for him that he sorts things out and finds happiness.
I know he's depressed about life, and that maybe he's just not thinking correctly right now, but it's really hard to know what to do to help. I feel really badly for him. I miss him a lot, I even thought I would marry him one day for sure, but he feels he wanted to break-up, so I let go.
I've heard that Cap men DO have the capacity to come back after break-ups.
I'll try to move on, but do depressed Caps eventually come out of their sadness and come back to you?
Do you just have to leave them alone?
Does their depression cause them to forget/lose the love they professed for their significant others?
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