Caps Like Ugly Women?

justSophs
Ok I am making this post because of a blog I saw about Lebron James - who is a Capricorn and his girlfriend who he's known from high school and have 2 kids with.

Denzel Washington and Samuel L Jackson are both Caps and have been with there wives before they were famous. So was Mel Gibson (but we all know about his meltdown).

The thing is there were comments on the blog about how Lebron James girlfriend is so plain and she doesn't look like a superstar model. But isn't that the reason he loves her?

These are smart guys, she was with him before all of that money and supreme stardom, why would he leave her for a model who wants him for his fame and money?

Plus, Denzel and Samuels wifeys aren't stunners either but they have been together way before the fame. they are good homely women.

I read somewhere that Capricorns actually prefer less attractive mates for themselves, thoughts?
CapGal
The 2 married cap men I know, I have no clue what wifies look like, but the girls they hang with range from average to cute. No model types. Model types mean high maintainance and cap men arent prepared to spend that much on a woman.

The unmarried cap men I know LOVE pretty women, but they also tend to date the regular girls.

NEVER seen a cap man with an ugly girl! They can do better than that!
lildol
And Sophs, I don't think any of those men you mention have ugly women. Sure, not model types, but by no means ugly. Although, I think all of those men leave a little to be desired (at least I don't find them attractive)
CapGal
Posted by lildol
And Sophs, I don't think any of those men you mention have ugly women. Sure, not model types, but by no means ugly. Although, I think all of those men leave a little to be desired (at least I don't find them attractive)


Nothing to be desired physically but dont you just love them for that alpha male confidence they all exude? I certainly do!
cappysweetie
Cap men liking ugly women :/

Never seen this before, never ever.
justSophs
@cappysweetie, I know they don't like ugly women persay. But they are certainly not Glamazons or the next top model.

I know Cap men like their women in shape and pretty but not like over the top, even when they certainly can get that type of woman.

The description I read was that Cap men didn't want their women to be too attractive because it makes them insecure and that they like conservative and elegant women than the raunchy, slutty type. Plus they don't like a whole bunch of men staring at their woman and a woman who dresses to too slutty is a big outcry for attention.

Like Dwayne Wade (Cap) and Gabrielle Union (Scorpio), she always always always dress conservative in her personal style, she is never dressed overly sexy. But she is just gorgeous and takes good care of herself. And she a scorp so you know she's a freak in the sheets.

@ lildol....I actually like Cap men choice in women because they are not over the top and raunchy. I appreciate men who like the simplicity of women that are like their moms bc alot of black guys, especially rich and powerful, go for mixed, spanish or white girls. (Not a problem to me, my whole family biracial) BUT when they start to diss black women is when I have a problem. Like that Slim Thug character who said all those negative things about black women the other day, forgetting his mom is black.

Its refreshing to see Cap men sticking with an average woman who had their back when they weren't rich and famous.
lildol
Yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder - and dif people are attracted to different physical characteristics just as dif people are attracted to dif personality characteristics. Some men like blonds, some men like big boobs, some men like ditsy women and some men like ditsy blonds with big boobs

In all seriousness though, whether it is hair color, face shape, the smile, the eyes, more full bodied, or whatever...

Not to necessarily change the subject from Cap men, but I can say personally I don't like GQ looking men, they are not attractive to me. I don't care for shaved chests or 6 pack abs either. And, women swoon over folks like Brad Pitt and McDreamy (whatever his name is from whatever show that is *shrugs*) and, for me, there is no sex appeal there.

All in all, maybe Caps are more attracted to what they view as more down to earth types in the looks category. I have always preferred what I consider to be "real" looking men.
lildol
Posted by TerrifyingGentleness
No. Your comment would be a double fail, because it implies that my comments are incorrect. You have a point though, people do want to mate with what is pleasing to the eye, but what??s pleasing to the eye can change and transform over the course of getting to know somebody.


I agree with this, what one sees as beautiful can actually be an evolving process... as we get to know people they can become more attractive to us OR they may become that much more ugly - as our perceptions of someone changes so does the way we physically see them.
cappysweetie
Posted by justSophs
Ok I am making this post because of a blog I saw about Lebron James - who is a Capricorn and his girlfriend who he's known from high school and have 2 kids with.

Denzel Washington and Samuel L Jackson are both Caps and have been with there wives before they were famous. So was Mel Gibson (but we all know about his meltdown).

The thing is there were comments on the blog about how Lebron James girlfriend is so plain and she doesn't look like a superstar model. But isn't that the reason he loves her?

These are smart guys, she was with him before all of that money and supreme stardom, why would he leave her for a model who wants him for his fame and money?

Plus, Denzel and Samuels wifeys aren't stunners either but they have been together way before the fame. they are good homely women.

I read somewhere that Capricorns actually prefer less attractive mates for themselves, thoughts?


I will say that I think capricorn men are least likely to pick the typical mainstream beauty. She needs to be pretty, but she doesn't have to have all the bells and whistles that other women have to make themselves the mainstream beauty of this time.

In that aspect, it makes (some) cap men cooler than cool

However, mustn't forgot Mel Gibson ... and he had the nerve to get all bent out of shape. OMG, he picked her, he cheated on his wife for her and now look at him xD *smh*
lildol
Vitas, that was the point!
lildol
But, that being said, Caps are probably still less likely than others to get hung up on looks.
justSophs
YES! no such thing as a universal beauty but there are stereotypes to what universal beauty is.

For instance: One of my sergeants is a complete sleazeball, he has a thing for black females....he makes me know this every time he sees me. BUT his wife is an older, white lady who has some weight on her. Nothing like me. He tells me about his obsession with darker skinned females all the time bc he is an absolute perv.

He is with his wife because its just socially acceptable. To be with some1 like me isn't. Now he is not the only MARRIED older white guy that has come on to me like that and I find it absolutely repulsive. I had one pulled me over at a gas station a couple yrs ago and he said as long as there are kids in my house and he has his business, he will always be with his wife. But his "girlfriends" have always been black and that's his preference. I told him to get lost.

But perceptions of beauty and what is beautiful is totally different than what is portrayed on TV and within races and cultures.

People might prefer a certain look but social standards that people choose to uphold because of societal, family, and religious pressure jades peoples perceptions of beauty.

And of course the beauty is in the eye of the beholder, no one is really ugly, but I am sure the jury is still out on that.
cappysweetie
Posted by VitasXisto
Posted by lildol
But, that being said, Caps are probably still less likely than others to get hung up on looks.


That's because caps are serious sensible people who are more seeking for the long term type as oppose to the short term. Dating a high maintenance chick may bring upon unnecessary hostility, especially if she's getting hit on every single day, then again that's human nature. treetrunk the most beautiful woman, date the cute girl....



*winces*

I don't like this, I don't. But it may have a ring of truth to it I see it happen.
lildol
It's more like: Date the "real" girl!
cancergem
ugly women?? ...hey... what you trying to say to me sophs?!?!? lol
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