Do Cap Men Get Jealous?
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|Do they get jealous? Or are they pretty mutual on stuff. I guess i get slightly jealous as a cancer, but i dont show it. My cap sees straight through me sometimes. He was talking about this tattoo above a chicks cooter he saw once, and i was like "When" he said "Oh a long long time ago" I said "Oh" than he says "Are you jealous" im like "NO!" Than he started laughing and picking on me and said it shows him i care about him because i gota little jealous. LOL.. Now he teases me all the time,.. Do Caps ever get jealous? Or No?|
|I havent flirted with anyone else or nothing. I am to into him. Probably why i havent seen a jealos streak. And he seems to like me to talk to him alot. Like, he calls me about 4x a day and texts me all day. If i dont respond to a text soon. and he knows i am not at work, (i dont text when i drive) he gets worried. Like sends me texts "Are you okay baby" and calls me "I am worried about you, are you okay?" Last weekend i went with my friend to karaoke, and this dude was stalking me, even followed me outside when i went to cal my man, He said, just take off. So i told him i was going home, and i got 20 texts,when i got home i called him and he said "Sorry i was woried as hel because that guy, i was about to drive down and beat someone" lol.. geeeeeeeeez.. but dont think i seen him jealous yet.|
|We caps are not possessive at all. We like independence in every aspect and thats why we dont like controlling anybody or be possessive too much.|
Further we dont call or text all day.... its not true about Caps... we are generally very cold and indifferent in relationships... :-)
|I don't think they are jealous or possessive, they are interested in your care and safety, which may come off as possessive?! imo |
Before we started living together, my cappy would call me to make sure I was home safe or ask if I needed anything. If I was out with friends, he'd text to make sure I was ok to drive home or did I need him to pick me up. Some of my friends would see me texting and be like "why is your man checking up on you, is he jealous that you're out without him?" and I never looked at it that way...I recognized the sincerity of his actions.
|YES Caps can be possessive and jealous but not in a harsh psychotic way. We love to text/talk to you even if we just saw you. We are always concerned about those we love so it is in our nature to be protective and check up on you to make sure you are safe. We do it and also like it when someone does it to us.|
Posted by amethyst2002
lol dang u just put her on blast lol
|I dont find him as being jealous. I didnt ask if texts were jealousy. I asked "Do they EVER GET JEALOUS, Because i havent SEEN signs OF JEALOUSY!!!!!!".. "But he does this... blah blah blah,..and it seems sweet" ... I heard Caps are seriously Jealous and tow atch out, which is why i started the thread. I didnt even ask his bday till a month of us dating. We go out 4 nights a week.. I Go to his house or he comes to mine now, and we just chill and watch tv and talk about his day. |
As for dating much.. Yes i have dated, didnt realise there was some law against it. I have wanted to give up on men all together. But i didnt, and i am glad i didnt. Yea, it sucks. I have dated 5 guys in a little over a year. This one though, seems to be a keeper.
I Got flowers in the mail today, with a note saying "I Miss you lots but i will be busy with work" So i baked him some cookies,and made him dinner and dropped it off at his office..and.. well.. anyways. It was nice.
|I was engaged to a very jealous, controlling and more than possessive Cappy...it was way over the top, and he continues to be that way with anyone he dates. We remained semi-friends, but really...never again. He was suffocating. |
However, I have a good friend who is a Cap as well, and he is the protective kind. No jealousy, level headed, sweet man. He is possessive of his gf - but not in negative way, more of assurance that she is his. He's dominating but not domineering or demeaning in any way, pretty sensible guy.
|i dont get jealous cause i guess im to arrogant to. when i trust i trust fully so i dont expect anything negative to happen. but i do get annoyed when i feel like the girl is going out her way to try and make me jealous.|
Posted by QuietSt0rm
Lmao. Sad but true.
Posted by noirecapricornprincessPosted by amethyst2002
Lmao!!! I was thinking the same thing!!! I know you didn't mean any harm ame, it just came out funny.
|I think Capricorns can be controlling if they view you as an 'asset' that they own. Much like a house or car they have acquired. Anything that makes him look better, like an attractive, intelligent partner is an 'asset' that can make him look good at business dinners or social events. It's all him, darlin', never you.|
|It's the "Cap Tap"....they keep taps on you. But usually for your own protection. It's annoying how they seem to know everything about you without even being there but then when you're in deep b*tter, they just appear out of nowhere & bail you out. They're like Batman. They just appear out of the shadows, save your a**...and then quietly disappear into the darkness. |
It's irritating how they seem to find out & know EVERYTHING about you. They're similar yet different to scorpios. Scorps also find out about you through constant probing but Caps seem to find out without probing directly (maybe strong intuition?).
but I'm also very grateful that Caps have saved my a** more than once simply because they knew things about me that I thought they didn't know.
Cap possessiveness is both good & bad. Bad because it can be suffocating. Good because some signs (esp the water folks) like this possessiveness since the mer-goat hardly ever shows emotion. So in their twisted little minds it's a rare treat when The Devil chooses to take time off from his busy schedule to possesses them.
It's actually sad when they couldn't care less about you (that Saturnian coldness..brrrr). I'd rather have them be possessive 'cos it shows they care. I think I've learnt (the hard way): don't EVER delibrately try to make them jealous. They can see right through you and won't play the game. It WILL backfire. Even if they do bite, you always have the sneaking suspicion that they're fully aware that you're just trying to make them jealous but they chose to play anyway because they just want to see how far you want to play the game. In other words, when you're trying to play them, you always feel like YOU're the one who's being played
|I think in a relationship anyone can get jealous if they feel like their relationship is being threatened by an outside force. I did have a cap who liked me and wanted me all to himself, and that meant when we went out he wanted no one going out with us. He got really upset once when I invited two of my friends (guy and girl) to the movies with us. And then there was a cap who I went on a few dates with, but of course he was never attached to he didn't ever show any signs of jealousy. Then again he had an aqua venus and the only "competition" he had was my best friend which was also his good friend so I think that venus in aqua helped in him picking our friend over me. Thankfully I only saw him as a friend or I would have been pissed|
Posted by BeoWulf
Haha I like this description. And that does sound a lot like scorpio. I'm actually a lot like that. I may have a sag sun, but most of my chart is cap and scorpio. Gotta two-fer there :3 I do feel a certain responsibility for people though and I always know whats going on. I just have to keep my mouth shut or I scare them or risk blowing my cover. Kinda hard considering I'm a sag sun lol