Do Capricorn men love to sleep around?

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8/28/2010 8:40:24 AM | More
rejuvenatedgoddess

33 years old female from U.S.  

I really don't want to come off as being judgmental...But...every Capricorn man I have known (father, other family members, friends, boyfriends) all have several love interests in their lives. (Some of the women they are married to/date know about one another and just tolerate it while some of their women are clueless because they are head over heels in love with their Cap.)The Caps I know usually have one or two "main" women, but they also have women on the side for "fun" they tell me. I just shake my head at them because they are all over 30 so I don't understand why they play these games. So, my question is- is being a womanizer a common trait for Cap men or are they just being stereotypical players? Your thoughts.

Disclaimer: This obviously isn't the trait of ALL Cap men. :o)
8/28/2010 2:38:28 PM | More
rejuvenatedgoddess

33 years old female from U.S.  

Glad to see it's not just the Caps I know. Lol. I haven't met a Cap man who didn't sleep around. I really enjoy dating them so it would be nice to meet one who seems genuinely ready to date just one person. We shall see. :o)
8/28/2010 3:12:01 PM | More
rejuvenatedgoddess

33 years old female from U.S.  

Is he really?! Lmao. That is hilarious!!!
8/28/2010 4:14:51 PM | More
justSophs

31 years old

All men cheat in my opinion. Its like .5% are monogamous.

Think its their natural insticts to want to spread their seed.

Sucks for us women.
8/28/2010 7:38:39 PM | More
Candeh15

24 years old female

Ascendent Virgo 1.43

The cap I know has had some women issues and he doesn't seem the type to lay down some kind of commitment that easily. I'm also confused as to why so many caps seem to have these issues, yet are known as the very faithful and what not. Not saying that all caps are like this, but many that we hear about seem to have this issue...
8/28/2010 10:23:43 PM | More
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

On the low yes yes yes he will, a faithful cap is a fiercely loyal lover/husband, timing and maturity plays a significant part in his level of devotion to his partner....

8/28/2010 11:07:02 PM | More
HappyCappy

26 years old male from Kaneohe bay, Hawaii  USA  

Rising Sign is in 23 Degrees Scorpio S

im not like that one bit. one girl is all i need. if i am with a woman then shes my focus...but i do have many female friends so...might have to get use to me talking to them alot haha.
8/29/2010 12:01:14 AM | More
ninjamu

32 years old female

Ascendant: Aquarius Sun: Leo Moon

Hmmm. Haven't known many in my life but the ones i know do.

My high school friend had a gf he "technically" stayed faithful to. He never had actual sex with anyone but he would flirt horribly and touch inappropriately. I would know. I was one of the girls he tried to keep on the side.

Another friend of mine is married but they kinda swing so it's mutual. She's a sag so it works. He's actually very devoted and faithful but won't do anything without her directly involved and present. By devoted and faithful I mean what they as a couple define it to mean for them.

Yet another friend of mine I don't know enough about yet to draw that conclusion. I do know that he likes to get some action like most mammals but i've never seen him attached to anyone. He's definitely no player though.
8/29/2010 1:42:39 PM | More
Candeh15

24 years old female

Ascendent Virgo 1.43

I disagree that most men cheat. There isn't an insanely huge amount of men that do actually cheat, compared to what we are all led to believe. However, men of all types do cheat. And we use things like psychology because a huge part of psychology is understanding actions and the behavior associated with those reactions (and much more, sorry I'm a psychology major).
8/29/2010 1:44:39 PM | More
Candeh15

24 years old female

Ascendent Virgo 1.43

As for Caps themselves, the reason why we ask these things is because there seems to be a trend involved with this sign that doesn't come out too often other signs. NOT saying that this is the only sign that does that. But it just seems to be a question that comes up when talking about caps in general. We're all curious to understand why a lot of us see this if it's not true.
8/29/2010 3:08:10 PM | More
justSophs

31 years old

Posted by Candeh15
I disagree that most men cheat. There isn't an insanely huge amount of men that do actually cheat, compared to what we are all led to believe. However, men of all types do cheat. And we use things like psychology because a huge part of psychology is understanding actions and the behavior associated with those reactions (and much more, sorry I'm a psychology major).



HUH? youre saying like 2 different things here.

I wish I could be so positive and less pessimistic about men not cheating. But think about being with a man for at least 5 yrs. He is gonna lust for another woman, in some form or not.

But either you will experience that dose of reality by just maturing a bit or one day the man that you completely trust, love, and give your all to and take their word for it is gonna wake you up with a big dose of cheating ways.

Plus there are many ways for a man to cheat other than physical. The physical is just what hurts the most.

Its kind of incredulously to me that you think most men don't cheat. Think about it. Some of the guys that you may talk to and disappear, they don't disappear to be lonely. Men rarely are dealing with one woman at a time. They NEVER put all their eggs in one basket. When he disappears he is just going on to his "best" eggs persay.

Trust me girl. All men don't cheat but most do. You will learn anyways.

8/29/2010 5:33:29 PM | More
HappyCappy

26 years old male from Kaneohe bay, Hawaii  USA  

Rising Sign is in 23 Degrees Scorpio S

im still not a just like me. maybe im the only one....
8/29/2010 5:58:25 PM | More
Candeh15

24 years old female

Ascendent Virgo 1.43

Posted by justSophs
Posted by Candeh15
I disagree that most men cheat. There isn't an insanely huge amount of men that do actually cheat, compared to what we are all led to believe. However, men of all types do cheat. And we use things like psychology because a huge part of psychology is understanding actions and the behavior associated with those reactions (and much more, sorry I'm a psychology major).



HUH? youre saying like 2 different things here.

I wish I could be so positive and less pessimistic about men not cheating. But think about being with a man for at least 5 yrs. He is gonna lust for another woman, in some form or not.

But either you will experience that dose of reality by just maturing a bit or one day the man that you completely trust, love, and give your all to and take their word for it is gonna wake you up with a big dose of cheating ways.

Plus there are many ways for a man to cheat other than physical. The physical is just what hurts the most.

Its kind of incredulously to me that you think most men don't cheat. Think about it. Some of the guys that you may talk to and disappear, they don't disappear to be lonely. Men rarely are dealing with one woman at a time. They NEVER put all their eggs in one basket. When he disappears he is just going on to his "best" eggs persay.

Trust me girl. All men don't cheat but most do. You will learn anyways.


That's what I meant to do. I don't believe that all men cheat and I also don't believe that there is a specific type of man that does cheat. I was just responding to ladylibra's post where she said that all men cheat.

Strangely enough, I've never actually been cheated on, so I never feel pessimistic about men not cheating. I just feel pessimistic about men being able to man up and be honest.
8/29/2010 6:22:35 PM | More
justSophs

31 years old

@ Candeh. Honesty is correlated with cheating.....I just think most men cheat, emotionally, physically, and mentally.

@Chance its not only the people you date that lead people to the conclusion that most men cheat. I have plenty of male family members, well my family is huge, so we have both. My 4 brothers and 8 Uncles has kind of made it clear that men cheat, and let me repeat, cheating is not only physical. The countless married men and non-single men who flirt and say things to me on a daily basis has led to my assumption. Wrong or not. The things they say and do, I am sure they can't in front of their significant others. And me being me, I put them in their place and say things like, "yeah I am sure your wife would like to join us.

Its the way of the world. We can be monogamous creatures but that excitement of the new love or doing something unforbidding is quite more enticing for some people and things change in a marriage or committed relationships after yrs of commitment. AND women cheat too, but just smarter than men.

Actually I dated a Cap for 4yrs and I can comfortablely say that he never cheated on me. There is only 2 guys I ever dated that I can say cheated on me and the first was my ex-husband. Thats why he's an ex. I have a low tolerance for that blatant disrespect and the trust is gone. But I am also not living in fairy tale land. One way another, there is gonna be tempataion in relationships. Its up to each person to weigh the pros and cons.

PLUS, you don't know what you got till its gone.
8/29/2010 6:29:29 PM | More
Candeh15

24 years old female

Ascendent Virgo 1.43

Posted by justSophs
@ Candeh. Honesty is correlated with cheating.....I just think most men cheat, emotionally, physically, and mentally..


I didn't necessarily mean honesty in terms of cheating. I should have clarified, sorry. I meant honesty in terms of coming up to me to admitting he wants out rather than running away and disappearing from a relationship.
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