I am a Pisces and I fell in love with a Capricorn man.
We stayed in the same apartment, became friends initially and then as we were moving towards being close friends, one night he casually remarked that he liked me so much he could marry me. It was a joke, i know. But he said it with a lot of intensity. I didnt know what it meant, I had not thought of him more than a friend before that, but this remark stayed in my head and i started falling for him.
One eve, much later, I told him that "we could give it a shot" and left it at that. Many days later he came to me and said he needed time, but we kept growing closer. Suddenly one day we were kissing and after that Bam! we moved very fast over the next few weeks. He opened up to me like he never did to anyone else. He did say he liked me a lot but never committed. And then suddenly he started ignoring me (Like a typical cappie). I became insecure when he ignored, so we fought and broke off.
But since we stayed in the same apartment, we crossed each others way a lot. A few months later he tried very hard to become friends again. He brought gifts on my birthday, made dinner etc but i was too hurt (for many reasons) so I said no and said i needed time. I stopped talking to his other friends too. and ended up being cold and hurt him unintentionally because i was pretty broken inside. (We both hurt each other in many many ways on many occassions)
After a few months I cooled down, and then tried to be friends, but by then he was hurt i guess, so he said no.
We still stayed together for four-five more months. I cared a lot for him when he was ill. Over these four months I did tell him and show him how much i loved him and cared for him. On and off we did nice things for each other, but mostly ignored each other.
When we were moving out, we had a nice dinner together. He hugged me and cried (he DOES NOT CRY ever!!!)as if he was losing something really dear. And now its been four months since. We havent spoken at all. I told him I wont get in touch, coz i had tried my level best to mend the friendship and relationship. He knows and acknowledges that. I gave my 100% and then decided to move on, thinking that if he needs me he will make an effort, if he doesnt he was not mine.
But I know I have made some mistakes and hurt him a lot too. Its his birthday soon. I dont know if I should do anything?
Im not sure if he ever thinks of me?
Do capricorn men think of the past or move on?
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