Feed back on how you would handle a situation....

aaawwwwwww....

I am GENUINELY sorry .... but wait .... i am better than you and you are the scum that never was!

Who is showing some class?? **shrugs**

aries415

7/21/2012 11:27:58 AM | IP

39 years old

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by aries415

And I think that you are stupid for even having the nerve to insult me and my man. Age doesn't matter as you have read through all these forums. People are in their seventies still playing games. Many people do not know how to handle being hurt especially those of my age who have had failed relationships, so instead they come up with defense mechanisms that are not always rational.

Wait, I'M stupid for calling YOU both out on your immature bullbutter? Then you turn around and try to justify behaving like a 12 year old because everyone else does it?

Sure. I'M the stupid one here...

My comment still stands. Both of you need to grow up and quit acting so stupid.

This is my last post to you for I am not on here to argue. I am going to apologize for reciprocating the name calling of the word stupid... Its the Aries fire. However, for anyone who calls another person stupid for choosing to share what is going on in their life in this forum is not on my level to begin with. People make immature decisions yes, but the word stupid is an awful word to call another human and it is evident that is what you were called in your upbringing so therefore you need to attack others with the same word in order to release the pain that this word bestowed upon you. I am sorry for you and that the word stupid continues to hunt you. And I hope that you find peace so that you will not show the world by name calling how wretchedly unhappy you really are.

rockyroadicecream

7/20/2012 11:42:38 PM | IP

Posted by aries415

And I think that you are stupid for even having the nerve to insult me and my man. Age doesn't matter as you have read through all these forums. People are in their seventies still playing games. Many people do not know how to handle being hurt especially those of my age who have had failed relationships, so instead they come up with defense mechanisms that are not always rational.

Wait, I'M stupid for calling YOU both out on your immature bullbutter? Then you turn around and try to justify behaving like a 12 year old because everyone else does it?

Sure. I'M the stupid one here...

My comment still stands. Both of you need to grow up and quit acting so stupid.

aries415

7/20/2012 8:20:20 PM | IP

39 years old

Posted by Serendibite
As a capricorn, it hurts me when the one i love/like:
* Doesn't think of me as a priority. (a little selfish, i know)
* His/her efforts to please me

This is true and he has done all of the above, so I started doing my thing, and when it was done to him.... He hated it. But I did not intentially try to hurt him it's just that I didn't effectively schedule my time. It doesn't matter if I tell him that I have plans he has an issue with it. He doesn't argue or show that he is angry, he will consume himself in work so that he can tell me that he is busy. But things are much better I talked with him like an adult we got things off of our chest.

aries415

7/20/2012 7:55:11 PM | IP

39 years old

Posted by rockyroadicecream
You both are childish and stupid. Especially considering the ages involved here.

And I think that you are stupid for even having the nerve to insult me and my man. Age doesn't matter as you have read through all these forums. People are in their seventies still playing games. Many people do not know how to handle being hurt especially those of my age who have had failed relationships, so instead they come up with defense mechanisms that are not always rational.

aries415

7/20/2012 7:44:46 PM | IP

39 years old

Posted by asha
Ooops did not see you were guilty. Then try not to do it often as Caps have limitations

Believe me he isn't innocent when it comes to being dependable with arranged dates so that is why he hasn't left me.

aries415

7/20/2012 7:40:28 PM | IP

39 years old

Posted by lnana04
So you haven't talked to him since the end of June? That is a bit dramatic but its interesting you said he always have to pay you back which makes it seem as if these mistakes happen more then he'd like. I know what its like to hurt people without trying but you have to put yourself their shoes and wonder what its like to keep getting hurt. You can't expect him to be considerate by communicating or even considerate of your feelings after you've done it your way up to the point where he gives the payback.

No, this incident happened in June, we are getting alone better. In fact we had a long talk about the way we have been acting, things are good now.

truecap

7/18/2012 10:07:24 AM | IP

45 years old female from Small Town, USA

Sun: Cap Rising: Scorpio Mercury: Capr

With each time you did me this way, I would have gotten a little colder. You expected him to understand when you did it, but you got upset when he did? You did deserve the payback. Sometimes getting a taste of one's own medicine is good for the soul. By the way, I would have already cut ties with you. But then again, I don't get along with aries very well anyway.

rockyroadicecream

7/18/2012 4:29:17 AM | IP

You both are childish and stupid. Especially considering the ages involved here.

asha

7/18/2012 2:19:28 AM | IP

Ooops did not see you were guilty. Then try not to do it often as Caps have limitations

asha

7/18/2012 2:16:11 AM | IP

An Aries view:

If you are really hurt dont speak to him at least 3 weeks (better 4). Explanations do not work with those creatures; the only good tool is fear of loosing you.

Not completely serious but not completely not serious either

lnana04

7/17/2012 9:51:38 PM | IP

So you haven't talked to him since the end of June? That is a bit dramatic but its interesting you said he always have to pay you back which makes it seem as if these mistakes happen more then he'd like. I know what its like to hurt people without trying but you have to put yourself their shoes and wonder what its like to keep getting hurt. You can't expect him to be considerate by communicating or even considerate of your feelings after you've done it your way up to the point where he gives the payback.

CreepyPants

7/17/2012 9:49:17 PM | IP

female from SiN CiTY

buy the ticket...

how would i handle this? lol shoot, i might just say something to the effect of... "excuse me for taking up so much of your precious time. maybe next time you wanna get bent over time, you should appreciate your lover's time too with a little bit of respect" *click*

It's not even the action of being stood up that would anger me... it's the hypocrisy of it all. i'd find it extremely hypocritical to have my time wasted, and the wastER of my time tell me they would allow me to essentially cookiemonster to them when deep down they don't want to be bothered at that moment... as if it were a privilege graciously granted to me. Deal breaker.

And kids aren't a trump or get-out-of-jail-free card. They are kids... set a *good* example.

aries415

7/17/2012 9:38:14 PM | IP

39 years old

Now I was upset with him because he doesn't know how to work problems out. So when he felt like he paid me back he calls me. I felt like i don't want to be bothered so I ignored him for 3 days including 4th of July. I took a quick weekend trip. By this time he just came over to cut my grass but of course to talk with me in person. As soon as we locked eyes we couldn't help but to smile.. Then we talked and of course we scolded the other about ignoring us. We made up but I explained with him the importance of communicating his anger.

Ok everything is really good I guess he went through something when we werent talking for over a week because he wants me around much more, however he keeps bringing up when I ignored him. Not when I stood him up but when I ignored him and skipped town. And when he does that i think of how I felt when he ignored me and didnt talk it out and an argument starts but then he doesn't want to discuss it and say I just want to argue?? I realize that I have a very very sensitive man. And I wanted to know if this is how Caps act when they are angry or hurt. I am direct and he seems to be indirect.

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