Feedback from Capricorn Men Only!

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5/13/2010 9:46:39 AM | More
faith$golphin

43 years old female

I’m Crazy, Sexy, and Cool!!! I’m a s

I was seeing a Capricorn man who was undoubtedly intrigue by me. After 3 months we started getting close and everything was fine. He would always ask me questions like he needed reassurance in my feelings towards him. When I would answer, he seem unconvinced and insecure about how I felt about him. I wanted him to open up and trust me so bad, I went overboard.

Then suddenly he became unavailable! He didn't tell me but I'm pretty much sure he was in a committed relationship when I meet him. Because everything changes significantly. We would still talk and see each other. Even his performance in bed changed. Before he would do anything to please me in bed.

Since I have changed my behavior he has been more responsive. He always return my calls now. He's not holding back sexually anymore. I have been shying away from him. We still continue to talk and he really want to see me. I want to see him also but I've been acting busy.

Every man I was ever involve with was(unavailable) at 1st. We didn't have a committed relationship until later. My question is would a Capricorn man continue to cheat on his woman with a girl he have no feelings for at all? If I decide to keep my distance from him would he just forget about me. Capricorn men who was in this situation what was your outcome!!!
5/13/2010 4:00:00 PM | More
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

good luck with getting a response from cap men on DXP lol their hiding in there man cave for the exception of Shaka who sometimes pops in you will be lucky to get help with your issue.....You might get better luck at www.sasstrology.com....Seems to be more men over there.
5/13/2010 4:05:22 PM | More
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

I think james tate is a cap....might want to email them
5/13/2010 4:06:56 PM | More
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

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5/13/2010 4:07:16 PM | More
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

I said shaka but meant to say supercap....I think shaka is a cap too not 100% sure though
5/13/2010 5:52:36 PM | More
faith$golphin

43 years old female

I’m Crazy, Sexy, and Cool!!! I’m a s

Thanks the woman in this forum is harsh and they act like they were never in this type of situation before. I’m sure if this can happen to me it can happen to anyone. I know men well because I grew up with a lot. I have tons of male friends. Anyway I spoke to my Capricorn friend today and we got a chance to really talk. We talk about a lot of things. One thing he said was interesting. He said I never had a man that can control me like he can. The funny thing is before he would show his feelings towards me. He wasn’t too verbal but it was noticeable. I was able to tell he had a week spot for me. He was so stubborn I would make him mad on purpose just so I can apologize and watch him give in. One day I said I didn’t want to talk to him anymore. That’s when the tables turn. He started acting like he didn’t care about me. I started saying to myself I know he really like me why is he acting like he don’t all of sudden. I became the one who had a week spot for him and he’s be in control every since. Before when he was showing his feelings I had more control over him.

5/13/2010 6:00:48 PM | More
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

Posted by Chance11
no he's a virgo..don't insult us like that


LOL ooops my bad d:
5/13/2010 6:12:28 PM | More
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

Capricorn and manipulation of feelings don't mix...They are very good at observing people and he may have noticed how you were consistently attempting to push his buttons to get him to express his emotions and because on some level that kind kind of behavior is controlling, it's like pulling a man's strings like he's a puppet he undoubtedly decided it was time to pull the reigns and gain control over you to stop this kind of manipulation from happening....

you don't have very many options, walking away can help you more than staying in an imbalanced relationship, the other option is to express how you feel about how things are in the relationship but it takes a level of inner confidence to express something without blaming him, I don't know given how you behaved with him in the past if your mature enough on an emotional/psychological level to do that but for the most part you can't be attached to the outcome, that's how a lot cap men keep control over women that don't want to leave, he know as long as a woman is uncertain and in doubt he can control the direction/outcome of the relationship/situation with any given woman/person...If you don't put up with it, leave him alone he will begin to shift and share the power with you but you have to show a level of maturity or he's going to treat you like a child.
5/13/2010 11:08:30 PM | More
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

LOL I see you rubbing people the wrong way with your post....cap men usually won't leave his comfortable relationship for a bit of excitement, he's just not going to leave his woman for a fling because a woman likes him and wants to WIN over the other woman....Men in general (some) will keep you around to continue getting sex, attention, ego strokes but have no intentions of leaving their significant other....

So yes he may have these long conversations with you, he may drive hours to get some but inevitably it's just a fling for him and if he has to play a few head games and have long drawn out talks to get some sex, attention, one sided love he will do it, this kind of guy your having this fling with is the type that misleads and selfish, he draws you in only to push you out which is a way to keep you holding on in hopes of winning but the reality is you will never win, that's his secret, your not supposed to know you will never win or he would stop getting what he wants...sex, attention, one sided love, drama (the kind of drama that makes him feel important), the in and out, back and forth is his way of having his cake and eating it too....Stop letting this guy use you, find your self respect, tell him to jack off...dump him and maybe then he may make a choice but I have to agree with tasteofchaos...Why would you want a cheating ass man in your life, if he cheat on her with you he will cheat on you with someone else....dump the assclown, it will take you a few weeks to get over it but there is a man out their for you but you won't see him if your stuck in a dead end situation.
5/14/2010 7:24:25 AM | More
james tate

47 years old male from Llandrindod wells, Powys  Wales  

you think James Tate is a cap treetrunk yes Im a cap. But I am not giving the answer so there.
5/14/2010 10:11:03 AM | More
CapGal

female

Posted by faith$golphin
Thanks the woman in this forum is harsh and they act like they were never in this type of situation before..


Please note TOC is NOT one of us, Tikki is...go figure. But I agree with TOC 100%. And you cant walk into someone's home a begging, then turn around and cuss out the wife because you think she's harsh. The husband will NOT help you. That's why the cap men here refuse to help! We are family here...despite our differences!

5/14/2010 1:28:16 PM | More
venusianbull

43 years old female from A Lush Meadow, US of A  

In the dead of night, it's the anti-sig.

Obviously not a Cap m'self, but get a damned grip woman. Another womans man is simply that. Think about that awhile. Let it marinate. Soak it all in. Especially when you go downtown.
5/14/2010 3:05:32 PM | More
venusianbull

43 years old female from A Lush Meadow, US of A  

In the dead of night, it's the anti-sig.

Definitely amethyst.
5/14/2010 4:31:31 PM | More
SuperCap

33 years old male from NC  

If we see a manipulator NORMALLY we dont think thats cute....cuz we're not slow.....THIS insults us. NEVER INSULT A CAP. WE dont do it so dont you do it.



But as we get older we learn to turn insult to our advantage. YOU dont want this because you will be used or ignored. Think Pans Labyrinth. Think when the hell will he let me out or.........am I even in? Bad side of capmale is horrifying if crossed into. Not like other signs. Treat us with respect and show intelligence otherwise I feel my time is wasted. There is a timer in my head everyday and it counts seconds....not minutes or hours of a workday. seconds

Also as we get older, on the bright side, we learn to indulge your manipulative ways and give you what you want. Thats the bright side. But remember the above paragraph. Depends on how much value you have, whether the above paragraph happens. You wont know when its happening and if you assume then you know the old saying. So watch out for digging yourself too deep a hole or everything could end up being All your fault.


NOT SAYING ANYMORE OR JAMES TATE WILL F*&^%^& K(*# me. this info seems like a lot but trust me it is not

These are the basics. If you can do the basics or dont know them then you cant do anything. Ive given some basics.


Simple stuff....

1) RESPECT....bear in mind we are a FEMININE NEGATIVE SIGN. My own cap mom is super crucial. cap dad is ruthless and wise. You may run into me one day and guess what!?!? Keep these facts in mind Being a feminine negative sign should say certain things to you like, "Its highly probable he knows females because hes garnered empathy and observation." hmmm

2) DONT play no games bc we dont like to waste time. Mess with our time....we'll slow your roll quicker than catshyt.

3) Let us know what you want off the cuff. This way we can formulate a plan for your specific needs. We'll weigh it like a Libra.

4) RESPECT

5) Be straight up. B A G bout shyt.

Last but not least...you should listen to the womens advice here at Caputopia Island.
5/14/2010 11:02:22 PM | More
faith$golphin

43 years old female

I’m Crazy, Sexy, and Cool!!! I’m a s

Thanks I haven't been with him sexually in a couple months. Your right he don't deserve me. I had a long talk with him today. We ended up with a argument feels he can say things that will hurt a person feelings and when you say something to hurt him he can't take it.He remember every! I never talk 2 a man that remember everything good and bad. I was into him a lot more than he was into me. I should remember everything not him. He bought up things I said to him 8 months ago.He never forgive me. He use to always act like nothing hurt him. The only time I get him to show some emotions is when we argue. He don't like to argue anyway.I told him I was sorry. We both to arrogant to even continue with this. Capricorns act real mean and hard but deep inside they get hurt easily. Certain things we talk about today show me he was really hurt.He been protecting his feelings for no reason at all. I love him and I wouldn't do anything to hurt him. Sometimes he make me so mad and I have to let him have it. Then he don't want to talk to me. I ain't kisses his ass no more. For what he don't disrespect me at all. He just say mean things. I'm been started to move on.
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