Friends with Benefits with a Capricorn male?

champranger
Sun Capricorn 25.18 ?? ??
Moon Virgo 20.05 ?? ??
Mercury Capricorn 11.11 R ?? ??
Venus Aquarius 0.34 R ?? ??
Mars Sagittarius 20.04 ?? ??
Jupiter Cancer 3.20 R ?? ??
Saturn Capricorn 17.21 ?? ??
Uranus Capricorn 6.38 ?? ??
Neptune Capricorn 12.35 ?? ??
Pluto Scorpio 17.27 ?? ??
Lilith Scorpio 8.05 ?? ??
Asc node Aquarius 16.36 ?? ??

GOOD or BAD idea and why? Thank you for your input.
rockyroadicecream
Run the treetrunk away
CuteCapri
Can someone explain to me why that's bad?
My sun is Capricorn
Moon in Pisces
Venus in Aquarius
Asc node Cancer


That's all I know, but I don't get it
rockyroadicecream
Posted by CuteCapri
Can someone explain to me why that's bad?
My sun is Capricorn
Moon in Pisces
Venus in Aquarius
Asc node Cancer


That's all I know, but I don't get it


Three words-

Venus in Aquarius.
rockyroadicecream
^ might I add that this is assuming that you may get attached/emotionally involved or expect more from it.

If you don't and can handle it as is, then this guy wouldn't get attached. I'd just be concerned about him turning into a jealous, posessive ass. That Pisces and Cancer stuff = ???? Meh.
champranger
Thank you everyone!

@capgirl75: Yeah, that is something I would constantly need to remind myself of, if I proceed with it. But I think with or without the benefits, he is going to look elsewhere.

@M: Ah that explains how he had looked quite keen on it, despite asking me to tell him it is a bad idea. I'll definitely keep a contract in mind.

But will this FWB blow up his ego and make him loose all respect for me? I hear this may make me look potentially cheap. :/
champranger
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Run the treetrunk away

Haha thanks? Running away from him you mean?
champranger
Posted by WoundedLeo
Well at least he won't be getting attached to you in any way... that's the positive side of the deal.

True. He won't get attached regardless of this situation.
champranger
Thank you M!

Posted by Metoo
Posted by champranger
Thank you everyone!

@capgirl75: Yeah, that is something I would constantly need to remind myself of, if I proceed with it. But I think with or without the benefits, he is going to look elsewhere.

@M: Ah that explains how he had looked quite keen on it, despite asking me to tell him it is a bad idea. I'll definitely keep a contract in mind.

But will this FWB blow up his ego and make him loose all respect for me? I hear this may make me look potentially cheap. :/


IMO once you go the fwb route and have that treetr-nk buddy status, he wont see you as anything more.
Sex causes chemical reactions in the brain literally. They are the same chemicals as a narcotic and ironically the same chemicals you produce when you fall in love.....it starts out simply, everyone is getting laid, everyone is happy, then that sneaky little thing called feelings creeps up, and you find yourself in a mess, it gets complicated, and suddenly the arrangement is not so fun nor fulfilling.
Basically, I dont support it. These relationships are built to end. Spend your energy on meaningful sex with men who will go the distance and also take time to romance you, date you, stand by you and go through highs and lows with you, cherish and respect you...all those good things. Just my opinion but will end with saying do what feels right and I dont think its morally wrong, just emotionally exhausting over time.


Thank you! I appreciate this.

Truthfully I've never ever put any thought into the FWB until now. I like this learning process.
As I've never done this before, I don't know if my curiosity will overpower my logic or not. But it will definitely be the only time I will ever consider this area.

Thank you again everyone!
BlueSandCacoon
Hi, champranger.

It's a good thing you posted his chart.

Moon Quincunx (Inconjunct) Venus

"The frustration you experience in life often comes because you get what you ask for from other people (and life in general). Unfortunately, what you ask for isn't what you want. Partly, you are slowly learning better communication skills, and partly you are learning to understand your own deeper cravings as they are. You see the unacknowledged and undigested parts of your sensitivity and creativity present in others, but, these are really projections that you have to own within your self if you are to change for the better."

http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/quincunxinterpretations.html

I don't know about you but...

It's not FWB what he really needs (Virgo Moon). Not what he really wants either (Cap Sun). It wouldn't be a good deal for him.

So, NO. It's not a good idea.
ecent
This weird I have a cap homeboy at work ,so far we been cool about 5 months ,I'm a cancer. I never got close with any cap man most I met had stronge sex drive and we couldn't be friends cause they were freaks. Me and cap is cool he has a relationship and I do too. I listen to him and observing him real good. He talks about how he cheated on his girl with many women. This cap dude is able to causally cheat and be honest if u let him no that's wat u want. But I do believe they are more able to deal with fwb because they have a reality glasses. I had a home girl who casually had sex with a few partners although she caught feeling she was able to separet sex frm love, although she wanted a relationship and get married she still was able to get out there and date and have sex
lnana04
Posted by ecent
This weird I have a cap homeboy at work ,so far we been cool about 5 months ,I'm a cancer. I never got close with any cap man most I met had stronge sex drive and we couldn't be friends cause they were freaks. Me and cap is cool he has a relationship and I do too. I listen to him and observing him real good. He talks about how he cheated on his girl with many women. This cap dude is able to causally cheat and be honest if u let him no that's wat u want. But I do believe they are more able to deal with fwb because they have a reality glasses. I had a home girl who casually had sex with a few partners although she caught feeling she was able to separet sex frm love, although she wanted a relationship and get married she still was able to get out there and date and have sex


This is how my friend is. His wife told him he should get a side chick since he wants it everyday, so this crazy boy is thinking about it. Im sure ill have some stories to post of how she pops him in the lip when she finds out later.

Anyway i asked him what he's going to do if he catches feelings with the side girl? He says theres no way of that ever happening. To him sex is just sex. Cap men are controlling though, even in these situations. They'll still probably want to know the whereabouts etc off the side girl. Deep feelings may not get involved but I personally believe a pinch of feelings is always there.

if you have a Cap male as a friend, and they trust you, tou are bound to hear some crazy s%it LoL.
lnana04
Posted by harry99
Posted by xxnightbynight
I had a Cap FWB... it was interesting, to say the least. - He was amazing in bed... but didn't have a romantic bone in his body. Our "canoodling" was his arm over me... lol like he was using me as a pillow. - but he was good at what he did... that's for sure.

And yes - feelings get involved, things become messy, feelings get hurt... don't even... do it. The cap ended up breaking my heart... and he was a good friend of mine too... sad.


He was one of my best friends too. And he had a gf lol. Sadly I get the mistress treatment alot oh well


okay, im confused here lol.
spica
Posted by LeoVirgoGirl
My boss has mars in sag. He is a control frick. Everything has to be his way or the hiway. His wife has no self esteem ... he tried to treat me the same way too - i had to tell him indirectly to F off.


You sure you know what you're talking about?
I think it's the Capricorn.
cheekyfaerie
I don't get it. I can see where an Aqua Venus combined with a lot of air or Sag stuff can be a problem, but for someone like me that's all earth and water, I'd be in trouble without it. For me it's a much needed self defense mechanism.

Agree that's a horrible chart, but don't allow yourself to be jaded by someone solely because of their Venus in Aquarius.
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