MY CAPRICORN MALE DUMPED ME -IS THIS REALLY OVER?

ArianPride
Excuse Me:

He does NOT care about you and if he treats you like that then he doesn't respect you.

Move on and take your heart and respect with you.
faith$golphin
This is the same exact situation I'm in right now with a capricorn man. I got mad because I was tired of everytime he seem like he was getter closer to me he would shut down by saying he was gonna be busy for a couples of days. I call and he said he was busy and I said FU and go be with whoever you want to be with. I called back and apolize on his answering machine and he didn't want to talk to me no more. He use to call me all the time and text a lot. He would never really talk about his feelings but I could tell he was into me. Capricorns are very stubborn and they don't like woman to disrespect them. Once he seen that you was sorry he feed off of that and that's why he's playing hard to get. Don't make the mistake I made by constantly calling him asking for his forgiveness because he would just play harder to get trust me I know. Don't call for about a week and then try calling him. If he really miss you he will atleast pick up. Don't even mention nothing about the incident and if he's still acting funny just get off immediately and tell him you just call to see how he was doing. Then wait for 4 days and call again he will act different eventually if you follow this process. You can send him a Im sorry also. He may act cold towards you buts that's there nature.
Bullisha
from my experience cap men want to be with their women in GENERAL, but not ALL THE TIME. since they like so much alone time.

it also seems to me that a FWB can be a prelude to more with a cap. given the long timeline for them to make up their mind...

i'd be careful about generalizing that all caps are one way or the other. there are tendencies, but every guy is different.
krobe03
if a Cap guy really likes you he'll show it and want to be with you all the time. If the sex thing is good, and he's hot--then have fun with it! Just have the mind set that if your relationship remains the same (never revolving beyond just sex)--and you want more--just tell him--give him a chance to respond--and if its not the answer you were looking for--move on! Your way to good for anything else--besides Aries girl, you guys are way to much fun-and super loyal too--you'd have another super catch in no time!

I agree with the statement if a Cap man is really into you, HE will and I mean will NOT leave your side for nothing in this world. YOU will have to leave him, once this man has given you his heart-and he will tell YOU these things by the way- YOU will have to dump him. When Cap men love, they love hard and you cannot shake him off with a stick because he is in it for the long run!
wagnerdr15
Aries4268,

If its one thing I'm learning from this site is that unless a Cap man says your his one and only---your what you are a FWB. And it seems like, in my opinion--now don't quote me--that they reserve FWB for people they like, or are sexually attracted to but not for the ones they want to have a relationship with. Now I am not trying to burst your bubble--I do hope--that for your sake he really does like you more and is just busy with work. But, from what others have said, if a Cap guy really likes you he'll show it and want to be with you all the time. If the sex thing is good, and he's hot--then have fun with it! Just have the mind set that if your relationship remains the same (never revolving beyond just sex)--and you want more--just tell him--give him a chance to respond--and if its not the answer you were looking for--move on! Your way to good for anything else--besides Aries girl, you guys are way to much fun-and super loyal too--you'd have another super catch in no time!
aries4268
I continued to text my Capricorn but not as much. On Sunday, I sent him a text informing him of my son's choice to go tot he Military. He responded that he was proud of him and invited me to meet him at a club that he was at. I went to the club and he treated me as though I was his lady. The club is small and initimate and he was hugged up with me even though when I walked in he was talking to another female. However, he didn't stop talking to the female and introduced us. He gave me a kiss when he saw me and told me that he missed me. We hadn't seen each other over a month. Afterwards we went back to his place and talked about my actions (i brought it up) and he said that he didn't like it because I basically challenged his morals. In any event, I learned my lesson and will not be so overwhelming with him or show my jealous side.

I am just going to let it be whatever it is; without the intensity as before.
dward417
girl bottom line he is cheating.....you are a aries woman so you will eventually get over his @ss...dont go on torturing yourself like this....i wouldnt text his @ss no more...and as far as apologize... for what?? Hes the one not responding and cheating like right in your face...you did not do anything but stumble across the wrong man...just a learning experience......keep it moving
CapyWife
space... if he cares for you he will be back if he doesn't well he's gone for good.
pisceschica
I'm sorry but it sounds more like a friends w/ benefits kind of relationship where you seem to be the one that caught feelings.

But as some stated just give him his space and maybe he will come around. Constantly communicating with him after he has told you to stop will only make him more annoyed at you.

In my personal dealings with capricorns they DO NOT like people who behave irrationally or with emotion. While the text messages you sent him were understandable he may think to himself this woman is crazy and I better get out while I stil can.
urban cap
I'm a cap in a relationship with another cap. I think you made too much of a scene and jumped to a conclusion that he was treetrunking around without trusting him. You can't be a drama queen. Jealousy is one thing--accusing him of being loose goes against all cap dignity. It doesn't sound like you're in a relationship--he hasn't decided you're his one and only yet. Until he does you have got to cool it. Find other things to keep you busy so you don't get into a jealous rage again. Not other men, just be independent. Because even when you're in a relationship with a cap guy, you have to be independent. He'll spend all his free time with you and be devoted, but if he tells you he's busy with work, you can't argue.

Wait for him to contact you and don't lose it again, if you want to be with this guy.

muscles
Aries4268.

Seek a face to face with you boy and air out your dirty laundry in a civil manner. If there is no chance of a reconciliation, move on cause you done messed up girl. Then again, if he truly was touched by an angel, he'd have easily forgiven.

Make and attempt at curtailing anger streak within you.


CapGal
Chances are it is. If he feels you've been following him around (stalking), then to throw a temper tantrum throwing wold accusations, then I am sure he will think twice about getting back with you. I agree with the others above....give it some time and if he still doesnt respond, send him a final letter and let it go.
i love ewe
put yourself in his shoes. if some dude did that to you and drove past place and saw your car parked out there and then had the nerve to text you about it and accuse you of cheating, i dont think you would respond either. i know for a fact i wouldnt talk to him for a long time. wait a while
Bullisha
the silver lining to jealousy is - it shows you care.

just take a few deep breaths, go on with your life & see what he does.

my caps have come back after my crazy jealous behavior. but only after it stopped & they assume it will not happen again.
Klover_Fish
I for one hope he never contacts her again-she sounds like a psycho. Remember boys and girls, self control is a virtue.
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