Why is this Capricorn Woman playing mind games?

FieryAries9108
What should I do she is driving me up a tree, When we first met she came on really strong and was flirting with me like I was the best thing in the world, then she suddenly pulled away and acted like she hated me for no reason, I then decided to talk to her about it, she said she had nothing against me, so I was happy, I finally felt like everything was cleared up, but it??s not she seems to be testing me even more now, she watches everything I do so closely, we work together, sometimes I catch her looking at me and she is giving me this deathly serious look just staring at me, and I don??t know what to do??_. I try to smile but she usually just looks away??_. (But then other days she tries flirting with me, she likes it when I act distant??_.) I have been making more of an effort to talk to her and be friendlier some days she talks to me other days she goes back to hating me??_ I don??t know what to do anymore, I really do like her but her behavior is making it so hard for me to even want to continue getting to know her, I just need some advice from you Capricorn ladies please!
FieryAries9108
I forgot to add that she has A Capricorn sun and mercury but also has a Cancer Moon do you think that causes her to be at odds with her own feelings a lot?
FieryAries9108
Posted by capcsw
This post will help you!
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/How-To-Get-Your-Goat-Interactive-DIY-[Fun]-3114880.asp


I already read that in detail, do you have any advice for me? I just wish she would ease up around me it's always so tense and heavy when we are around each other.
champranger
Posted by FieryAries9108
What should I do she is driving me up a tree, When we first met she came on really strong and was flirting with me like I was the best thing in the world, then she suddenly pulled away and acted like she hated me for no reason, I then decided to talk to her about it, she said she had nothing against me, so I was happy, I finally felt like everything was cleared up, but it??s not she seems to be testing me even more now, she watches everything I do so closely, we work together, sometimes I catch her looking at me and she is giving me this deathly serious look just staring at me, and I don??t know what to do??_. I try to smile but she usually just looks away??_. (But then other days she tries flirting with me, she likes it when I act distant??_.) I have been making more of an effort to talk to her and be friendlier some days she talks to me other days she goes back to hating me??_ I don??t know what to do anymore, I really do like her but her behavior is making it so hard for me to even want to continue getting to know her, I just need some advice from you Capricorn ladies please!

I'm not a Cap, but may I ask how do you know she hates you, and what you mean by acted like she hates you?
FieryAries9108
Posted by champranger
Posted by FieryAries9108
What should I do she is driving me up a tree, When we first met she came on really strong and was flirting with me like I was the best thing in the world, then she suddenly pulled away and acted like she hated me for no reason, I then decided to talk to her about it, she said she had nothing against me, so I was happy, I finally felt like everything was cleared up, but it??s not she seems to be testing me even more now, she watches everything I do so closely, we work together, sometimes I catch her looking at me and she is giving me this deathly serious look just staring at me, and I don??t know what to do??_. I try to smile but she usually just looks away??_. (But then other days she tries flirting with me, she likes it when I act distant??_.) I have been making more of an effort to talk to her and be friendlier some days she talks to me other days she goes back to hating me??_ I don??t know what to do anymore, I really do like her but her behavior is making it so hard for me to even want to continue getting to know her, I just need some advice from you Capricorn ladies please!

I'm not a Cap, but may I ask how do you know she hates you, and what you mean by acted like she hates you?


Well she was really obvious in her flirting and then all the sudden she stopped, and did not flirt at all and when I mean obvious I mean like one time she almost laid on a table where I was sitting to get my attention, after that she got really distant and would act really nervous or uncomfortable if i even looked at her, she completely ignores me still if I am close, she talks a little more now, but it's is still really uncomfortable, she really just acts horribly uncomfortable if I look at her for any length of time/ if i try to flirt with her, and she talks so comfortably around other co workers and goes out of the way to talk to some, but she never goes out of her way to talk to me, and when we talk you could technically cut the tension with a knife, I don't know it seems obvious that she doesn't like me/ that I make her uncomfortable.
CapGal
No FieryA, she doesn't hate you. Seems she's very attracted to you amd from my own experience, I tend to stay away from guys I'm attracted to cuz I get nervous around them, maybe stutter and make a fool of myself. So to ensure I don't make a fool of myself, I'll hang with just about anyone else, except that guy that's so irresistable.

I remember some time ago we had a post semester get-together and one of my professors who I had a crush on and who I knew like me too as he would question my friends about me, was in attendance. I spent the entire evening dancing and chatting with everyone else except him. I really hated myself when I got home. That's just how it is. Maybe you can get her to be a bit more comfortable by reaching out more to her
FieryAries9108
Posted by CapGal
No FieryA, she doesn't hate you. Seems she's very attracted to you amd from my own experience, I tend to stay away from guys I'm attracted to cuz I get nervous around them, maybe stutter and make a fool of myself. So to ensure I don't make a fool of myself, I'll hang with just about anyone else, except that guy that's so irresistable.

I remember some time ago we had a post semester get-together and one of my professors who I had a crush on and who I knew like me too as he would question my friends about me, was in attendance. I spent the entire evening dancing and chatting with everyone else except him. I really hated myself when I got home. That's just how it is. Maybe you can get her to be a bit more comfortable by reaching out more to her


Alright that gives me a sense of relief thank you, what would you suggest because I don't want to scare her away.. I want her to be comfortable around me, and what do you think the very serious stares mean? and are most capricorn girls like that when they like someone?
champranger
Posted by FieryAries9108
Posted by CapGal
No FieryA, she doesn't hate you. Seems she's very attracted to you amd from my own experience, I tend to stay away from guys I'm attracted to cuz I get nervous around them, maybe stutter and make a fool of myself. So to ensure I don't make a fool of myself, I'll hang with just about anyone else, except that guy that's so irresistable.

I remember some time ago we had a post semester get-together and one of my professors who I had a crush on and who I knew like me too as he would question my friends about me, was in attendance. I spent the entire evening dancing and chatting with everyone else except him. I really hated myself when I got home. That's just how it is. Maybe you can get her to be a bit more comfortable by reaching out more to her


Alright that gives me a sense of relief thank you, what would you suggest because I don't want to scare her away.. I want her to be comfortable around me, and what do you think the very serious stares mean? and are most capricorn girls like that when they like someone?

She could just be observing you and your actions. Some Caps seems to really want to get to know people, especially if she's interested.
FieryAries9108
Posted by champranger
Posted by FieryAries9108
Posted by CapGal
No FieryA, she doesn't hate you. Seems she's very attracted to you amd from my own experience, I tend to stay away from guys I'm attracted to cuz I get nervous around them, maybe stutter and make a fool of myself. So to ensure I don't make a fool of myself, I'll hang with just about anyone else, except that guy that's so irresistable.

I remember some time ago we had a post semester get-together and one of my professors who I had a crush on and who I knew like me too as he would question my friends about me, was in attendance. I spent the entire evening dancing and chatting with everyone else except him. I really hated myself when I got home. That's just how it is. Maybe you can get her to be a bit more comfortable by reaching out more to her


Alright that gives me a sense of relief thank you, what would you suggest because I don't want to scare her away.. I want her to be comfortable around me, and what do you think the very serious stares mean? and are most capricorn girls like that when they like someone?

She could just be observing you and your actions. Some Caps seems to really want to get to know people, especially if she's interested.


Do you have any advice on how I should approach/ flirt with her? Also do you think she is interested in me?
champranger
Posted by FieryAries9108
Do you have any advice on how I should approach/ flirt with her? Also do you think she is interested in me?

I suspect she is interested since she sounded like she was tense and she seem like she wanted your attention, but thought I should wait for a Cap female to respond first to be sure.

At this point, I've only gotten to know Cap males and what seems to work with them is asking them to help you with stuff. They might not know, they will certainly try for some time before giving up or finding the answer. I don't know if that quite works for a cap female.

Perhaps try asking for her opinions on things? Things that you really need other people's opinions on. See if you can make conversations flow from one topic to another ...

Of course, I'm nowhere near an expert (I'm an Aries btw). I just really like the company of Caps and got interested in knowing more about them.
CapGal
Do you stare back at her? That can be pretty intense and I like that; maybe she does too. Make her laugh, while staring each other down, say something like "I can do this all day" while moving closer to her. Its both intimidating and funny. Basically when I stare at a guy, I'm just trying to figure him out by decoding his body language or I may be admiring something about him. She may not even be aware of how serious she appears. But humour works everytime for us cap gals. I have a friend at work who will just stand up, pat his hair, stick out his ass and chest and act like he's gay. Yah, puts a smile on my face even when I'm down
lnana04
LoL, boy that girl dont hate you. Im not sure what all is going through her head, but im also guilty of avoiding those im crazy about. My cancer cousin is crazy when she really likes a guy. She will literally push him away, so it can be a combination of her Cap sun and Cancer moon sending the weird signals.

I like champrangers advice on asking her opinion or asking her for help on something. Just make sure its not anything corny lol. Also like Capgal said we LOVE to laugh. I think that shes probably picking up some of your signals too. It doesnt sound like you are the most comfortable or sure around her either, which can make us even more nervous. Just get into yourself and dont put too much thought or energy in figuring her out. Approach her
lnana04
..when you are comfortable in doing so.
truecap
I agree with the other girls. I get really nervous and clam up around men I really like. I'm all fine, silly and outgoing with them until I decide I like them, then something changes and I don't know how to act. I'm just too conscious of them. And, if I flirt or say something I think is a little forward, and, I don't feel like I get a positive response, then I really, really am uncomfortable and avoid them. (because I analyze it as they don't like me back). No telling how many men I have scared away because of acting like that.

Yes, as they said, keep her laughing and do unexpected things. When the timing is right and she is responding, say something like "you're fun, we oughta hang out more often" and see how she responds. Take it from there.
mylittleparticles
She is interested in you. She analysing you.
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