more than a friend????

8/15/2010 6:01:06 PM | More
blahblah

i'm a female pisces and my male friend is a capricorn. we have been friends for about 6 months, and the initial attraction has always been there between us. we have talked almost everyday on twitter, and he asked for my phone number so we can do facetime with our iphones ( we have only done that once. more on that later), and text almost everyday or every days, even if it's for a few minutes. then last month, we reconnected and realized our attraction. we hung out at a bar talking alone and he put his hat on me. then when it was time to go home, he followed me to make sure i got home okay. so i haven't seen him since. however, we talk just about everyday via text. lately, it feels like i'm doing more of the texting though. however, he usually responds right away, and seems to show an interest in me. then i texted him last night to see how his weekend was going, and i have yet to hear back from him. my gay friend told me if he was into me, he would have texted me within an hour. from what i understand of capricorn men is that they are really slow to make a move, and sometimes they disappear for days, even weeks, and not respond to you. i'm busy, too, and i want to give him his space and not be some psycho. also, i'm totally fine with being just friends. i'm just really confused as to whether or not he's into me like that???? what should i do on my end? anyone with a similar experience?
8/15/2010 11:07:40 PM | More
blahblah

thanks, scorpio_chic!

the things is that i have tried to call him, aka facetime him, because i'm a visual person, and due to timing and what not, we have only been able to do it once. i tried again last weekend as well. the time that we did our facetime, we made funny faces and ended up kissing on the screen. lol. also, i was in his neighborhood once visiting a friend, and i tried to call him to see what he was up to because i was neaeby, but didn't answer. in his defense, it was last minute and maybe he wasn't available. however, he texted me the next day, but didn't mention anything about me calling him. one of my friends told me that he might be taking things real slow. is this possible? is this norman for cap guys? do you think maybe he's not ready?

also, he has still yet to text me back. lol
8/16/2010 11:53:51 AM | More
lildol

female from the abyss of confusion  

Personally, I think that's a little TOO slow if he were romantically interested. He probably really likes you as a person and as a friend, but not romantically. But then again, I am the aggressive type and strongly pursue someone when I'm interested. I don't take things slow because I don't want to waste my time with BS. But, 6 months and he hasn't made a move he probably hasn't really even considered you anything more than a friend. But, you know what, you couldn't ask for a better friend, he will go out of his way for you!
8/16/2010 12:30:05 PM | More
blahblah

Well, we have been aquaintances for 5 of those months. However, we have only started to get to know each other in past month. I don't know if that makes a difference?
8/16/2010 2:38:50 PM | More
blahblah

No, I didn't bring up sex. Lol. We haven't even kissed yet. If he was using me for sex, I would have figured it out a long time ago!
8/16/2010 3:47:31 PM | More
blahblah

Posted by lildol

hmmmm if i like someone alot there is no way she would escape. i will get her. no question about it. if i am not that intrested, then i will use that person for sex or...or if i find her to be too smart i will try to figure her out. that does not mean that i am not interested in her. its just i am searching and finding out how her brain works. its hard to tell what his intentions are. but one thing i would say is that, if u see that he does care or does things 4 u, that means that he really likes u. if not he wants sex, nothing else
Yeah, I can see that. My friend told me he's probably trying to fugue me out, as I am doing to the same thing to him. I also noticed the other day when i told him that I was going outside, he replied, "be careful. Don't get burned."

8/16/2010 8:51:11 PM | More
blahblah

it's more like knew of each other and would talk on twitter and run into each other at events. then really hit it off about a month ago. i don't think i'm at the point where i should ask for a kiss. lol. hopefully sooner or later. however, lately, we've only been texting each other about 3 times a week. and i still haven't heard back from him since friday, so then i get worried he doesn't care or something, i said something wrong??? lol. ugh, that's why we need to talk on the phone. i'm not sure how ready he is yet, and don't want to push anything. i guess that's where the patience thing that some of you mentioned kicks in.

however, i did notice that he opened up alittle bit to me on text, and as far as to give each other nicknames as an inside joke. though i had to ask for mine. lol.
8/16/2010 9:45:41 PM | More
tiki33

female

Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on

I don't really like to give advice to Pisces women they get stuck too fast too soon too hard on one man and most pisces women simply won't deviate no matter what anyone else says, it's exhausting....Listen to your gay friend, I know that's most likely not something you want to do or to even consider that this Cap is not that interested but IMO he's not all that into you, I somewhat agree with seki. Caps blow hot to luke warm consistently when interested, if he's going cold he's not that into you least not on a romantic level, he may enjoy your wit, your looks, your sense of humor or that certain quality you have but it's not enough to hold his attention...Move on
8/17/2010 7:12:50 AM | More
justSophs

30 years old

I agree with Tiki.........I have had experiences with mostly Capricorn men.....was in a serious relationship with one seriously for 4 yrs. and another casually for about 6 months....kinda dating one now and have Cap men who are friends but wanted more than friendship. Just plenty of Cap men been on my radar....but just because he is a Cap and yes they move slow doesn't mean they are not initiatory or not show their intentions.

Caps are manly men and love the chase. Even if they are slow, there are obvious signs that he's into, like scorpio chic, he brought her lunch and things of that nature, and was consistent with communication so she knew he liked her but he was slow to make the 1st move. He might like you but the fire isn't all there, he might have other options as well....but he wouldn't go days without communicating with you, that's for sure, if he's really into you.

What your gay friend said might not be true bc I know Caps who hate to text they rather call....I've text my Cap friends, and the guy I am dating. No answer. But 5 mins later they will call and say "wassup"....I prefer text bc talking sometimes feels like exercise to me, but I do it to appease them.

Either way, if a Cap is into you, I think you will know it and if he acts hot and cold, be the same way. I think some of them fear that whole rejection thing too.....
8/19/2010 2:05:08 PM | More
cappysweetie



Guess what sign I am ... bet you can't g

Posted by tiki33
I don't really like to give advice to Pisces women they get stuck too fast too soon too hard on one man and most pisces women simply won't deviate no matter what anyone else says, it's exhausting....Listen to your gay friend, I know that's most likely not something you want to do or to even consider that this Cap is not that interested but IMO he's not all that into you, I somewhat agree with seki. Caps blow hot to luke warm consistently when interested, if he's going cold he's not that into you least not on a romantic level, he may enjoy your wit, your looks, your sense of humor or that certain quality you have but it's not enough to hold his attention...Move on


lol, you know ^_^. I was friends with a pisces girl (2nd decan) who stop being friends with me because I basically told her the truth about this Saggie guy she was into. What I don't understand is ... why in the world did you ask if you didn't want me to tell you what I thought????" :O She told her what I thought and she was so damn convinced with what *she* thought of him instead of the *obvious*, she decided to start acting all snotty with me and still go after him ... although he was married .. to a girl he said he wasn't with anymore and he had a child ... who he claimed was by accident ^_^.

I mean, I could've fixed things with her if I wanted to but whatever. I didn't care that much b/c most of the stuff I told her, she already knew and was stuck on him anyway. *smh*
8/19/2010 2:11:09 PM | More
cappysweetie



Guess what sign I am ... bet you can't g

Posted by blahblah
i'm a female pisces and my male friend is a capricorn. we have been friends for about 6 months, and the initial attraction has always been there between us. we have talked almost everyday on twitter, and he asked for my phone number so we can do facetime with our iphones ( we have only done that once. more on that later), and text almost everyday or every days, even if it's for a few minutes. then last month, we reconnected and realized our attraction. we hung out at a bar talking alone and he put his hat on me. then when it was time to go home, he followed me to make sure i got home okay. so i haven't seen him since. however, we talk just about everyday via text. lately, it feels like i'm doing more of the texting though. however, he usually responds right away, and seems to show an interest in me. then i texted him last night to see how his weekend was going, and i have yet to hear back from him. my gay friend told me if he was into me, he would have texted me within an hour. from what i understand of capricorn men is that they are really slow to make a move, and sometimes they disappear for days, even weeks, and not respond to you. i'm busy, too, and i want to give him his space and not be some psycho. also, i'm totally fine with being just friends. i'm just really confused as to whether or not he's into me like that???? what should i do on my end? anyone with a similar experience?


One thing I will say is that just because a cap is busy doesn't meant they don't want a relationship Some caps (like myself) are just slow and we are slow for a reason. We can be very, very interested in someone but if it isn't the right time for us than we simply can't do it yet.

Now, some caps will make the person they want to be with their top priority and let other things in their life go for that one person. That's very noble and all but if things don't work out, those are the main capricorns who are the most jaded of all signs. No sign (especially a capricorn) should just let things go and make one single person their main priority. The only reason I'm more specific with capricorns is because we can lose our heads if we feel as if we have given up a great deal for something that is about to crumble. Even if its our fault, we are soooo NOT the best people to be around.

Mel Gibson is a perfect example of that ... good grief


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