what do Capricorn men like in a relationship?

jojo2675
I am a sensitive but strong (strange mix I know) pisces! I have venue in Aries, he is capricorn with Mars and many other things in Capricorn as well. We have been seeing one another since Sept 07 things are ok, we have certainly had our ups and downs in the last few months. He is and can be quite demanding at times, loves his attention and loves admiration from me but I cant quite give all the time as my work comes first at times alongside other things.
Can you tell me what Capricorn need or what makes them happy, I feel I have understood him and he has opened up to me which is lovely and I am moving in with him this month as it goes which I am looking forward to.He has moon in gemini which makes him at times aloof, childlike and very good fun.....different but I like it!

I have moon in virgo more regimental and straight forward and serious which sometimes doesnt understand that side of him!

Are Capricorn men difficult to be with, I hear some are controlling, mine can be demanding but not controlling!

thanks
jox
capricorn31
This is how I am and a friend Cap of mine I know.

Caps respect your need to work hard but if we feel you aren't focused, (serious) with us..we can be demanding. If you make promises you don't keep or often don't follow thru on it causes abrasion with us or needing of attention. Cap men are demanding but they don't bite for sure although their moods may seem quite dark at times. And they will always be up and down no matter what guy or girl. We are very sensitive and things in life often come crashing our ways often so we take a beating at times. Affection is our bandaid to this happening to make us feel better.

With touch. We have a very high sex drive and love to cuddle. However if we need a lot of affection and you find this annoying..it will be rough to make us feel complete in the long run. And the behavior from this lack will play out in many other ways. This need comes from needing to be understood and "felt" by us. If we feel lack of it..we crave you near more often and attention I guess for some to soak it all in perhaps. If we don't have sex regularly the same issue. Without love and sex it makes our bodies really imbalanced all around.

Mainly I've found, with my Gemini in the past I dated, I wanted aLOT of affection from him, but realized it was because of the fact we didnt have an unspoken bond or deeper connection. And he wasn't that much into sex or sensual ways. With the cap I was with and Virgo..Didn't have a need for so much affection because I felt secure since I got that sensual, deeper connection from making love with them. You have it or you don't with some. But I think overall putting time into intimacy with us is key is what I mean for us to remedy those things.

I think a key to remember is Cap guys always you must bring up troubles with them you feel, topics to discuss. The Gem moon will give him the will to talk it out often where most caps would be more closed to this. But let them think on it a day then discuss with emotional issues. They will be very aloof always. So thats why bringing up an emotional issue is key for you to do or else nothing will grow or change. Once made aware, they will do anything to correct it. If your aways honest and not crazy overemotional you cant go wrong with talking to us. We will respect you for being direct if you ask and never assume.

frustratedaries
things in life often come crashing our ways often so we take a beating at times. Affection is our bandaid to this happening to make us feel better.

This is very valuable insight Capricorn31. I see this in the Cappy in my life. It seems that he has difficulty balancing work and play and gets into these really dark moods when he's not getting enough social interaction.





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