So i work with this gem and we had been totally flirting with each other off and on. well he let me know he was interested sexually, my curiousity climbed. so we had dinner after work one night, he was all over me while we waited for a table. we sat and then he asked me to kiss him, he enjoyed that so much that he came and sat beside me. i mentioned i wanted a friend with benefits, he said he just wanted to have fun. there was touchy feely and then after eating we did the deed. he told me i made a great first impression. however i did not feel the same and when he asked how it was, i stuttered and said it was ok. he caught me off guard. we discussed that we'd act normal at work. now he flirts less with me, he used to stare me down now it's like he's lost interest. he's 20 and i'm 23. did i totally shoot his ego down with me "ok" answer. how do i get him interested again?? |