Gemini men and ignoring

spica
What does it mean when a Gemini ignores you? Is it in-yer-face ignorasmus?

My lecturer is Gemini and you can tell just by his small, light eyes and that very androgynous look. I dont know his birthday but I would like to know his moon.

He has this shifty eyes that weirds me out, its like he cannot look straight at you. I dont even know how to interpet that. I get slightly pissed off, though, because I usually look straight at people.

And, he tends to ignore me for some reason. It's nothing sexual or anything; he's married and I'm not trying to hook him. I know he's a nice guy, but I cannot get to know him better and respect him as real person because I don't know who he is or what he's trying to project.

Does he not like me, or prhaps doesn't want me to impede on his authoriteh? I don't know, but I want him to write me letters later on. Er, not that kind, but THAT kind. I know he's got solid credentials and is quite awesome.

But as typical gem men go, too fluid and care too much of what people think. I'd say he may even be overtaken by the class just because.. he's a bt too accomodating.

.. but he ignores me because, why?
Kleo
Maybe he is nervous/shy/an avoider. Set up an appointment with him or drop in during office hours, so he can't escape.
spica
It's not that he's escaping, but I can't figure him out. I usually can figure people out quite fast.
Kleo
Oooh. It will take time to get to know his facets. Lots of conversation bout various topics. Perhaps he doesnt want to be figured out...geminis can be elusive like that.
spica
^Can you explain the shifty eyes?

The last time I saw some shifty eyes, it was on a psychiatrist.


It's like he has eyes but they're looking into the blank space between reality an an ultra thick lens (but he's not wearing glasses).
i love ewe
lecturer like college professor? i don't think he's being elusive on purpose, i think a lot has to do with the setting. gemini's are at their best one on one so you might want to meet with him at office hours and you discuss your view/interpretation of something from his lecture and see where the conversation with him goes from there. i think gemini's are very comfortable doing all the talking and being among a crowd so they have a tendency to hide behind that and not reveal too much.
spica
Not college professor, just a class I am trying to finish with.

Eh I don't think its appropriate .. I prefer an in-class setting hahaha

... but I might try that. BUT he doesn't seem to give me avenues for follow-up. Actually, I feel uncomfortable because I feel he's hiding something.. not sure what, but I dont get that with others.
misslissa
he might just be hiding himself... ya know, not wanting to make it personal and keep it professional... or it could just be that he's nervous. like ewe said, we are better at the one to one. me personally, speaking to a crowd is not for me and i would do the same thing. avoid eye contact at all costs. i would rather be IN the crowd.
spica
Yah, I think you're right.. somehow he manages to hide nicely in the spotlight.


Zappedthoughts99
Just a guess, but I kind of have the problem he has.I'm a Gemini and I have a Venus in Cancer (which as you know Venus means love and relationships) They say Venus in Cancers have to feel comfortable in their surroundings. I look down a lot cause I'm shy and slow at forming friendships with people. I look away from people cause I'm either scared of them, not envolved in the conversation or just being shy. And if he's a Gemini he'll open up if he is comfortable in his enviornment hahaha. I guess you can try to talk to him and befriend him and if he finds your intentions true, then the walls and cloaks will fall and you be able to see the things about him in a clear perspective.
candi3bb
i dont think they're necessarily ignoring you on purpose i feel gemini ppl have so mmuch going on in their mind...constantly on the go that they dont have time for the little (yet very necessary) things.
spica
Posted by Zappedthoughts99
Just a guess, but I kind of have the problem he has.I'm a Gemini and I have a Venus in Cancer (which as you know Venus means love and relationships) They say Venus in Cancers have to feel comfortable in their surroundings. I look down a lot cause I'm shy and slow at forming friendships with people. I look away from people cause I'm either scared of them, not envolved in the conversation or just being shy. And if he's a Gemini he'll open up if he is comfortable in his enviornment hahaha. I guess you can try to talk to him and befriend him and if he finds your intentions true, then the walls and cloaks will fall and you be able to see the things about him in a clear perspective.


I know what you mean. Thank you.
He's my teacher, I'm not trying to befriend him on a personal level. I think it would be inappropos at this time.
spica
Posted by candi3bb
i dont think they're necessarily ignoring you on purpose i feel gemini ppl have so mmuch going on in their mind...constantly on the go that they dont have time for the little (yet very necessary) things.


Yeah, he juggles 4 huge things at once (work, study, class and family). He's not human
spica
Can you interpret your laughter please?

funny?
sarcastic?
ticklish?
silly?
you're such an idiot laffter?

I can't read geminis.. much less through a message board.

You can be honest. I'd appreciate it
spica
Posted by gemtaur
"He's my teacher, I'm not trying to befriend him on a personal level. I think it would be inappropos at this time."

"At this time"?


Ahem, let me 'xplain. You may have read more into it than intended.
When you get to know your teacher over a longer period of time, you can become friends.
..and nothing more.

was that clear?



Aaaaaand I am not afraid of Ze eyez. It's just that his eyes are too shifty for a human being.
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