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Geminis...judgmental?

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GemiGem
9/2/2012 2:42:39 AM | IP

Im very judgemental in thought, I think hard and have hard opinions..but I understand at the same time that people are individuals and will think and do whats best for them, so Im also very accepting at the same time of things people do that I may not agree with. If I dont judge you, return the favour and dont judge me.
xxnightbynight
8/26/2012 5:31:01 PM | IP
xxnightbynight

female from United States  

|Sun|Aries |ASC|Cancer |Moon|Scorp |J

Posted by candi3bb
I found juding is not wrong. its MISJUDGING that tends to be the issue in our society.

there are subtle differences in misunderstanding and the act of misjudging. That or your water placements make you really sensitive. The gems i know are very very thoughtful and their perception of others are usually spot on. Its all subjective to air signs. Geminis aren't known to be masters of communication and social grace for nothing, they are really good at people. very people smart. They know how to communicate their words in a way that no other sign can do. SO if a gemini were to say something that hurt you, its the idea they are talking about not the person. Everything i said is a judgement, how the other party recieves it depends on their perception and ideals in life and whether or not they assume responsibility.



I like your take on this... thank you very much!!! I'll have to take this into serious consideration for some past pains.... and things said that I did not like...
candi3bb
8/26/2012 12:22:08 PM | IP
candi3bb

27 years old female from Los Angeles, California  

Do you know what I would answer to someo

I found juding is not wrong. its MISJUDGING that tends to be the issue in our society.

there are subtle differences in misunderstanding and the act of misjudging. That or your water placements make you really sensitive. The gems i know are very very thoughtful and their perception of others are usually spot on. Its all subjective to air signs. Geminis aren't known to be masters of communication and social grace for nothing, they are really good at people. very people smart. They know how to communicate their words in a way that no other sign can do. SO if a gemini were to say something that hurt you, its the idea they are talking about not the person. Everything i said is a judgement, how the other party recieves it depends on their perception and ideals in life and whether or not they assume responsibility.

xxnightbynight
8/26/2012 1:57:59 AM | IP
xxnightbynight

female from United States  

|Sun|Aries |ASC|Cancer |Moon|Scorp |J

Posted by saywhaMnMsZipZapDoesAFlipFlopandZo00omsAway
Seriously speaking, I judge situations , and like Misslissa said, crappy choices of said person, never the person themselves.

Also, u Aries worry way too much. Don't bother abt her judging folks u bring home, she'll get over it. We don't hang onto things too long... As long as u only do it good intentionally. Turn negative on us, n we unleash the batbutter crazy!


Well that's what I'm saying- a "crappy choice" to one person could be a normal choice to another... it's all about perception. - like my mom didn't like that my ex and I split bills when we lived together - she made a huge deal about it. She'd be real demeaning too. Same with the other Geminis I know... if they don't like my choice... whether it's normal to me, or not... they will talk some mad sh** and make me feel awful. - lol. And yes we worry way too much... believe me.. I know. (( I hate that about me.
misslissa
8/25/2012 8:37:05 AM | IP
misslissa

40 years old female

leo rising, gem sun, cancer moon

normally, i will keep it to myself and it's never freely given. but if you are seeking advice from me, you would be asking me to judge the situation and past choices to come up with a better solution. right?
xxnightbynight
8/24/2012 9:37:36 PM | IP
xxnightbynight

female from United States  

|Sun|Aries |ASC|Cancer |Moon|Scorp |J

Hello Geminis! :-) - I've grown up around Gems my entire life. - My mom is a gemini, my aunt is one, my closest friends are geminis, roommates present, and past. I love you all for your ability to set goals, and achieve them. But... I feel like you guys have a very judgmental outlook on things. That's one thing that's irked me growing up as a kid around my mom, and aunt. - And growing up around friends with that same type of outlook... I always felt like I had to watch what I said, and who I brought around. - Anyway- I was wondering if you all see that within yourselves and if you do, what do you think about it?

I am an aries sun- scorp moon - cancer rising... I'm very open to things.... I am hard headed, I venture off into stupid, and reckless ideas... but I don't have a judemental bone in my body. - lol.

Thanks ! I hope this doesn't offend anybody, as I do not mean to. I'm just curious!

 

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