What does it take for Gemini man to settle down?

stardance
DB.....it's o.k., I can take scorpio sarcasm, don't run off,....

tanya and GL, thanks, these are great suggestions....He does say he is ready to settle down (he is older) but I think he does doubt himself too. So I'm keeping myself lighthearted and funloving...giving him plenty of space, hence he darts in and out, and since we are still getting to know each other, it's good to take things slower than the whirlwind 10 week affair we've had to start with.

The dazzlin part....uh oh, don't know about that one! I think I can be unpredictable, but don't like to draw attention (unlike my dxp alter-personna)

So I guess I best not think too much past today and let things happen as they may... if any a crab can do it, it'll be me.

stardance
I NEVER said that...not exactly...not intentional...*shrug* maybe?

Iz Kool db....a lot of compatibility matches would agree with that, but astrodeist was much more encouraging and of course I am a little biased in hoping this will work...

*db tries to not be too harsh, since he doesn't want to upset crabby while she's being civil and behavin and such...
stardance
cheesecake, well, he doesn't like deserts too much, but he does like the meals I cook...
stardance
Naw...that wouldn't be nice.....I can't tell for sure, but I think you are saying in scorpiotalk that the only way for me to get him to settle dwon with me would require too extreme measures to control him...that's bleak and not my style, but gee, thanks.

Up 'till now, it's only required being a good friend and giving space to be who he is and I like it that way.
stardance
LMAO...that sounds like fun, so would I be the tapee or tapette?
stardance
Any opinions? I have a wonderful time with this gem guy and he darts in and out of my life like a messenger on fire. He came after me like a bear to honey. I'm pretty sure he wants to have long term rela with me, we have a healthy communication and enjoy the same hobbies....but with all the darting...I wonder if he will ever really settle down. He is otherwise a very succesful, decisive, dependable and responsible guy, but when it comes to his personal life, he has a hard time.....shoot me! cancers like stability....so I'm being challenged to grow into a more balanced perspective. This is unchartered ground for me...how would you keep a gem interested for the long term??








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